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It's your problem, I can only say it's your problem. You want her to be like your mother, you compare yourself to your mother, and you want your actions to move her. The human heart, like attacking the heart, requires sincerity and perseverance.
Indeed, the elderly are not easy to change, they have lived for half a lifetime, many concepts are not easy to change, many bad habits and so on are unlikely to change. You can't expect you to do this to change her right away, she's not your mom after all. Therefore, you must learn to tolerate the bad of the elderly, and you are sincere, and if you are angry, others will still see it, and you will be born from the heart, and since you endure it, don't make yourself too uncomfortable.
The best way is to try to treat your in-laws with a heart for your mother, some words can be communicated directly, you have to understand the meaning of the elderly, you send things, she says more, you can say,"Mom is fine, it's the New Year, it's right", through your words and my words, you can communicate, you can understand the meaning of the old man, whether it is too expensive, or whether the things you buy are not in harmony. If you don't agree with your mind, one is that you usually have to observe, but you can also ask directly"Whatever you like, I'll buy it for you next time. I didn't know what you liked to eat this time, so I bought a lot of them"Don't treat yourself as an outsider, take the initiative to communicate more, and don't think of yourself as someone who should be coaxed, you should make the old man happy, and it is your husband who makes you happy.
Heart-to-heart is the only way to get the heart.
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Hehe to be honest, I don't think you should be too sensitive, if his mother loves him very much, she won't embarrass you and say that you are not married, let alone how bad.
Maybe because of culture and personality, some people are rectal and don't speak fancy, of course, it is not very interesting in the ears of those who listen to it, but if you look at the way she usually speaks to her family at home, you shouldn't mind, which means that she doesn't mean anything deliberate.
If not, then if you love your boyfriend, you should be more patient, it is best If you have the financial ability, don't live under one roof, so that everyone will be happier in the future, these are all a way, the most important thing is to relax the mentality Oh, elders, we ourselves also have the identity and position of that day, hehe, I hope everything goes well.
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You don't have to think about it so much, as long as you have a clear conscience.
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It's you who are wrong, how can you see people clearly with colored glasses?
Also, isn't he your lover, Ai Wu Jiya.
She's not your own mother, just treat her as your boss, without her, you wouldn't have your Taya.
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Is this not going to speak!
She just doesn't want you to break the bank! Because when you are your own family, I don't want you to spend too much unnecessary money. Isn't she content?
You should respect her!
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No way
One word. Endure
It's good to endure getting married
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Summary. Hello, you can reply "It's okay, he's very nice to me, I like this kind of non-flamboyant boy" or "Auntie, you educated him very well and spoke very gently, which just happened to like it." ”
Hello, you can reply "It's okay, he's very good to me, I'll like to change the stool to this kind of boy who is rough and not flamboyant" or "Auntie, you educated him very well and spoke very gently, just like it." wild or".
Hello, boyfriend's mother said these words, it's not that your boyfriend can't speak, she is just afraid that her son will make you angry, so I told you in advance, I also hope that you and her son will get along well in the future, and I hope you can forgive him if there is a conflict.
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Summary. Hello, I don't know what to say when talking to my boyfriend's mother, I think: 1Own family 2, talk about your boyfriend when you were a child 3, high craftsmanship or skills.
Hello, I don't know what to say when talking to my boyfriend's mother, I think: 1Own family 2, talk about your boyfriend when you were a child 3, high craftsmanship or skills.
I broke up with my boyfriend, but his family was worried about me and was afraid that I would be sad, so they kept comforting me, I wanted to tell his mother that I broke up with him but I saw that their home was the same as my family, I can call him mom ma, can you help me write.
Hello, dear You can reply to her: Although it is a pity to break up with him, but my mother is good to me, I know in my heart that even if I break up, I still want to call you Mom.
I always called him Auntie. But now I want to call him Mom. But I don't know what to tell him. Because they're good to me here.
I haven't met his mom yet. I wanted to tell him that I would have a chance in the future. I want to go to him and play. I broke up with my boyfriend, and his mom said she looked at me like his daughter.
Dear, you can say: Although we are not together, but in my heart, I have respected you as my mother, I have always called you aunt before, can I call you mom now!
Although they are not together, they can be friends, and his mother will understand!
No, I wanted to send it to his mom, no. My boyfriend.
Although Zhong Lang and I are not together, in my heart, I have respected my aunt as if I was my mother, I have always called you aunt before, can I call you mom now!Is this okay, can you help me write it down.
Dear, it's no problem to write like this, at least it's your true feelings, he will definitely understand your intentions when he sees it, besides, there must be a reason for your breakup, and he will understand!
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Maybe your boyfriend will be really busy, in order to prevent distraction, the permission to temporarily cancel you, the man's emotional ups and downs are the most unstable when he is busy, and the landlord really shouldn't have a temper tantrum with him, alas....But since it's already in trouble, take the initiative to contact him, probe his tone, and then talk to him as appropriate to admit his mistakes, if you usually have a good relationship, there shouldn't be a big problem, after all, it's not a serious big contradiction, I think your boyfriend will forgive you, unless there is a potential conflict at ordinary times, then this time it may be a fuse, good luck
I love her so much that I can't control myself when I miss her"This sentence of yours says it all, there are many words, because you love her too much, and in the love of young friends now, the vast majority of people are the same as you, cherish it, it is a good thing to communicate more, so that you can understand each other more. Knowing what the other person is thinking, as for the future, it depends on whether you love each other more deeply and truly? Of course, it may be that after staying together for a long time, there will be a lot less words, but at that time, two people who love each other have changed from language to mutual understanding and mutual affection