I am sad to be born into a family like this10

I know you're in pain, but, well, how to say that. You follow what I said and think about it, I don't know how old you are, can you figure it out.

People spend their whole lives exploring, exploring the meaning of life, the truth of living, exploring happiness, right and wrong, etc., etc., people's understanding is different, and the truth explored is different, so some people understand very well, some people are very happy, some people choose the right way, some people choose the wrong way, the ones I said above have no age boundary, do you understand? Some people are young but they can be right, and some people may not understand it even when they are old. This truth is not directly proportional to their age, but related to the depth of their exploration, understanding and hard work.

But you have to know that understanding the truth is not about sooner or later, as long as you explore, as long as you work hard, even if you make a mistake, you will come back, it is good to understand early and understand late, I am afraid that you will not understand. So, standing on that basis, you're equal to your parents, you understand? Although they are your parents, they may not be sooner than you understand.

But you can't just blame your parents, you can write these here, it can be seen that you are thinking, thinking about the problems of life, don't think so extremely, you are an independent person, you know? Children have begun to establish their own independent personality when they are about 1 year old, you are an independent person, your parents did not bring you a good influence, of course, there are their mistakes, but you just want to escape and blame, then the next person to make mistakes is you. Relax your mind, only by widening your heart you see more, you can find the right answer, relax your heart, let love more and more, if you can cherish your parents one day, love them, that day your heart will be wide, you understand the truth must be more correct and more, you will be able to find the right answer more and more smoothly.

In fact, although your family is so painful, it is actually an opportunity for you, if you can think well, you will know more than others, and your life will be more meaningful. Calm your heart, dissolve your grievances, relax your heart, and you will also have a good life, maybe, because of you, your parents can understand a lot, don't you think?

You're much better, really better.

At that time, the little brother didn't pay attention.

Friend, I don't want to say much about other big truths.

I just want to tell you that your parents are getting old, so don't regret losing them.

No matter what they do wrong, you are a junior, and the older generation has their way of thinking.

I don't know what to say.

I know it's useless to say anything, but to tell you that I lost my mother and my father is behind bars.

Now I am very miserable, because I haven't been home for a few years, and I know the warmth of home, and my heart is very tired.

Live your own life, you are the protagonist of your future life.

Do you sometimes envy other people's harmony, contentment and happiness?

I will. Envy other people's family of four, three meals a day, all year round. It feels plain and beautiful.

In fact, I also live in an ordinary family, and this ordinary family sometimes makes me breathless.

When I was young, I didn't understand material things, but I was happy when I was satisfied on a spiritual level. For as long as I can remember, I felt like I was a strong kid. I don't fight for what others have, and I don't show what others don't have, I always like to say "buy it myself when I grow up".

But the more I grow up, the more I find that there is no material matter, and happiness has to be redefined.

But isn't life like this, I always like to smoke you more in reality, so that I can understand the sophistication and coldness of the world. If you don't fight or grab, you will still be looked down upon, and if you don't, people will look down on you, and you will start to brag about yourself next to your ear, and then laugh at me.

Because in the eyes of others, I really live with nothing.

I have a sound family, parents, sisters, but no sound home education. This is also a major pain point for me growing up. My father and mother were always at odds when we were young, and my sister and I were always at odds, crying, divorce and suicide.

In my heart, there is only fear.

And my mother and father have been married for 30 years now, and my mother's favorite thing to say is "If it wasn't for you two sisters, we would have divorced a long time ago", "If it wasn't for you two sisters, I wouldn't have survived", "It's not for you two sisters."

Every time I hear these words, I am really afraid, I feel that I am a burden, and I have to bear the gains and losses of life. I am also afraid that my mother will commit suicide again and again, and I am also afraid that my parents will quarrel with each other over a trivial matter, afraid of smashing dishes and pots, afraid of saying, "If it wasn't for you, I would have been afraid of becoming someone else's hope and despair, afraid of dying."

All the memories of these empty searches carry the unhappiness of my childhood, and until now, when I return home, my mother will only talk about the past and those words as before.

I feel that sometimes I am really tired, pretending to be happy when I am unhappy, pretending to be strong when I am not strong, and I am afraid of being hurt when I want to be nice to others, and I feel like a dummy when I live until now.

has seen through the fireworks of other people's leaky homes and understood other people's family experiences, but he still can't cross his own miserable river.

The greatest sorrow of a family is not poverty, not quarrels, but the inability to raise grateful children.

Poverty can be changed by hard work, quarrels can be alleviated by calmness, and children who do not know how to be grateful will never learn to be filial, and they will not be able to live a good life.

A child who does not know how to be grateful is a wolf in human skin.

They unscrupulously demand, and eventually "drink up" the "blood" of their parents, so that the whole family will decay, and there will be no more prosperous days.

Children who don't know how to be gratefulDon't know how to respect eldersCommanding his parents and losing his temper with his elders.

squandering his parents' money is a matter of course;

Watching the tiredness of his parents, he never felt distressed.

Stingy giving, lazy and disgusting, afraid of hardship, greedy for enjoyment!

Children who don't know how to be grateful are mostly spoiled and think that he is the prince and princess of the whole world.

Because of the free "slaves" of the parents, they are used to enjoying themselves at home, and over time they turn a blind eye to the fatigue of their parents.

Such a child is uneducated in the eyes of others, and repeatedly hits a wall after entering society.

Children who don't know how to be gratefulLearning doesn't mean empathyThis kind of child, held by the parents, the elders are in pain, holding it in the mouth for fear of melting, holding it in the palm of the hand for fear of falling.

Because he is accustomed to the good of others, he forms a mentality, even if he does not reciprocate, it does not prevent others from being good to him!

He never thinks about others, because what he wants is easily available.

The hard work of his parents, the exhaustion of his parents, even if he sees it in his eyes, he will not care.

Because he has never done anything and has never paid for others, it is difficult to put himself in the shoes of others to understand the feelings of others, and Hu Chen has become more and more selfish and cold as time goes by.

Raise children who know how to be gratefulIt is the greatest achievement of a familyChildren know gratitude, know the hardships of their parents along the way, are willing to reduce the burden for them, and are willing to fulfill their responsibilities.

Be filial to your parents and make your parents happy;

Know how to be grateful and let others respect!

Children's education starts with being a person! Academic performance is importantCharacter cultivation is indispensable! Let children learn to be grateful and know that life is not easyIt's not about letting children sufferIt's about making them a kind and responsible person

People who value love and righteousness, and work hard!

Summary. Hello, glad to answer for you.

Some people are lucky to be born in a happy family and know more about the beautiful and sunny side of this world, while some people live in a bad family and realize that there is more of a dark and negative energy side of this world. Personally, I think it should be in the gradual growth and social contrast, and gradually realize the gap between the family, after all, the influence of the family runs through a person's life in the social communication. A person will have two families in his life, one is the original family that has lived with his parents, brothers and sisters since childhood.

One is a regenerative family formed by marrying and marrying the other half when he grows up. A person's childhood experience and acoustic family play an important role in the formation of an individual's character and psychological state, which will have a profound impact on his or her life. When you come into the world as a newborn baby, your family of origin will lead you to get to know the world little by little.

Some people are lucky to be born in a happy family and know more about the beautiful and sunny side of this world, while some people live in a bad family and realize that there is more of a dark and negative energy side of this world.

Hello, I am inquiring for you here, please wait a while, I will reply to you immediately Hello, I am happy to answer for you Some people are very lucky, born in a happy family, know more about the beautiful and sunny side of the world, and some people live in a bad family, and realize that the world is a little more gray and negative. Personally, I think it should be in the gradual growth and social contrast, and gradually realize the gap between the family, after all, the influence of the family runs through a person's life in the social communication. A person will have two families in his life, one is the original family that has lived with his parents, brothers and sisters since childhood.

One is a re-sentenced state family formed by marrying the other half when he grows up. A person's childhood experience and acoustic family play an important role in the formation of an individual's character and psychological state, which will have a profound impact on his or her life. When you come into this world as a newborn baby, your family of origin in Songchong Town will lead you to get to know the world little by little.

Some people are lucky to be born in a happy family and know more about the beautiful and sunny side of this world, while some people live in a bad family and realize that there is more of a dark and negative energy side of this world.