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Anonymous users2024-02-11Generally, whoever has more contact with the child is the first to call whom.
Under normal circumstances, children call "Mom" first, because mothers communicate with their children the most.
There are also those who shout "grandma" first, because children are hungry and will also think of "milk", so it is a matter of course.
Children are very smart, so be patient!
As for who to call first, it's not 100% like that, there are special cases. I've seen children who call them grandma first.
No matter who you call first, it doesn't mean what will happen later. The best teachers for real children are still mom and dad.
I wish you health, peace, happiness and happiness.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Not sure, who knows who a child who doesn't understand anything will shout first, do you care about this problem? Don't you think you're a little naïve, it's all a family, do you still care about this? If you care about children, then please love your children well
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Anonymous users2024-02-09You can call whoever you call first, and whoever you call out first is who it is. In addition, it is recommended not to live together, after a long time, there will always be some quarrels, some people say, treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, and your mother-in-law should endure it, I tell you, wrong. It's like when your own mother talks about you, do you endure it all the time?
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's impossible to live with your in-laws, and when you don't have a baby, your in-laws spend a lot of time together, and you don't want your mother-in-law to help you take care of your children too hard and may affect your health, so,
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Don't worry too much, go with the flow, be your own home (originally your own home), and call whoever you meet first.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06You should learn to be humble!! In-laws are elders after all!! Younger generations let me go!
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Anonymous users2024-02-051.Family traditions: In many cultures, parents and sons usually live together, which is a typical pattern of the family. In some societies, men are expected to take on the financial responsibilities of the family, so living with their sons may be seen as a traditional and appropriate way of life.
2.Love for their son: Some parents-in-law may want to put all their love into their son, even though they may not live together, they still want to be part of their son's family. This emotional inheritance may be one of the reasons why they choose to live together.
3.Son's living needs: Some parents-in-law may think that if the son and daughter-in-law live separately, their son may not be able to adjust to his new family, or that his daughter-in-law may need extra help adjusting to the new environment.
As a result, living together may be seen as a responsibility that sons and daughters-in-law should share together.
4.Financial considerations: Living together may be a more economical way for parents-in-law to take care of their grandchildren or granddaughters with their sons, which may save time and energy than living separately from their sons.
5.Living habits and cultural differences: Parents-in-law and daughters-in-law may come from different places, have different living habits and cultural differences, and it may be easier to coordinate and adapt to each other when living together.
The relationship between parents-in-law and daughter-in-law living under the same roof can be very complicated, and various situations and problems may arise. Therefore, living with a son may be an option for the parents-in-law, but it can also be a way of life that is not conducive to family harmony.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04In traditional Chinese culture, the concept of "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and don't worry about children and grandchildren" is very deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. This perception makes many in-laws want to live with their sons, because they believe that they can take better care of their sons and can continue the family bloodline. In addition, there are several reasons why the in-laws may default to the fact that the son wants to live with the son after marriage.
Many in-laws believe that only by taking care of their son can they ensure his quality of life. Although the elderly care facilities in society are becoming more and more perfect, many people still think that only sons can really take care of their living needs. Especially when the elderly and grandchildren need special attention, such as illness, mobility problems, etc., the son can take better care of them.
Therefore, in order to ensure the quality of life and health of their sons, many in-laws choose to live with their sons.
Social attitudes are also one of the factors that influence the in-laws to live with their sons by default. In traditional Chinese culture, men are an important pillar of the family. The son bears the responsibility of passing on the family lineage in the Tongtong family, so if the son leaves the family after marriage, it may bring certain hidden dangers to the continuation of the family bloodline.
This is also one of the reasons why many in-laws want their sons to live with them when they get married.
The real estate problem is also one of the reasons why the in-laws acquiesce to the fact that the son wants to live with the son after marriage. In China, property is often seen as the core of family property, and in the context of skyrocketing housing prices in many cities, the distribution of property can easily lead to family conflicts. In order to avoid this situation, some in-laws will consider the possibility of their son living with them after marriage when buying a house, so as to solve the real estate problem.
Many in-laws believe that living with their son can ensure their son's quality of life, continue the family's bloodline, and avoid conflicts caused by real estate and other issues. Although the attitudes of modern society are gradually changing, these traditional beliefs still exist in some families. However, whether you choose to live with your son or choose to live independently, the most important thing is to respect each other's choices and wishes, and work together to solve family problems on the basis of mutual understanding and concern.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03In many families or cultural traditions, the son is seen as the heir to the family and the responsibility and obligation to care for the parents, which leads many in-laws to assume that the son should live with the son after marriage.
First of all, the traditional family concept believes that sons are descendants who continue the family lineage and carry on the family lineage for their parents. This means that sons are responsible for caring for the elderly and family affairs, which some families see as their duty to fight hunger. In addition, sons are considered more valuable than daughters in some cultures, which also influences the attitude of the in-laws.
Secondly, many in-laws default to live with their son after he gets married, or it may be because they have become accustomed to this lifestyle. In-laws can be able to take care of grandchildren or help married couples with family matters. In this case, it will seem more convenient to live with your son.
Furthermore, some in-laws may consider themselves to be elders in the family, and they need to have a degree of control and management of the family environment, which may help to create a more layered and orderly family environment.
However, with the development of society and the change of attitudes, more and more people are realizing that everyone has their own way of life and development routes, including independent housing and self-choice of living environment. Relationships between family members should be based on mutual respect and equality, rather than acquiescing to a way of life.
In fact, in a situation like yours, you can live your own life separately, you and your husband go out to earn your own money and spend it yourself, why rely on the elderly? There is no face to ask for that money.
Lives on your own. But I only have one son, so when my son gets married in the future, my daughter-in-law must accept her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live with her! Because I'm a single mom.
As soon as I got married, I really respected them, and I bought whatever I bought for my parents, and sometimes I didn't even buy it for my mother, but bought it for my mother-in-law, for example, I bought two gold necklaces for Mother's Day, one for each person. But my mother said, she has it, I didn't want it, I bought it for my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law said put it there, didn't say anything else, there are many examples, don't say it one by one, just talk about the cause of the matter, my husband is a mother-lover complex, for example, I don't do anything as good as my mother, just got married and kept arguing, just because of housework, and no matter what happens in my family, my husband will talk to his mother, big and small. For example, one thing that the two of us discussed, buy a small washing machine, convenient for washing diapers or something, said that it was okay, but when it was time to eat at noon, his mother knew about it, and did not let him buy it, saying that it could not be washed and so on, in fact, he was afraid of spending money, but I want to tell you that my mother-in-law has never given us a penny since we got married, and every time we eat something and other expenses are our own (my mother-in-law has money, not no money, the old couple has a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand, more than us, and our sister-in-law's family eats at his mother's house all year round, Later, in the end, I didn't buy this washing machine, and when I was confined, my sister saw that my mother was tired and bought one. >>>More
In fact, it is better not to live together, but generally this situation is to send the children back to their hometown, even if the house you live in now is small, the old man will simply rent a big house to live with, and let the old man take care of the children for you, and do not live with the old man, you listen to your wife's opinion, and you will be poked in the back when you return to your hometown. >>>More
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