Is it better for parents to come out and take their children and live together or separately?

In fact, it is better not to live together, but generally this situation is to send the children back to their hometown, even if the house you live in now is small, the old man will simply rent a big house to live with, and let the old man take care of the children for you, and do not live with the old man, you listen to your wife's opinion, and you will be poked in the back when you return to your hometown.

Living together in this situation is definitely going to be a contradiction, and I suggest that you simply stay up for a while (you have survived for 2 years) and send it to kindergarten. The concept of the elderly taking care of the children must be old, whether it is to take the children back or live in your city will have problems, if your wife can't bear it for the first 2 months, even if you don't live together, there will still be contradictions in the issue of children's education, it is better to simply educate yourself, so that the elderly can use the old concept to educate the children thanklessly, and lest your wife feel wronged.

I am a person who has come over, and I think about taking care of my children, it is very hard and tiring, and I will be sent to kindergarten in 6 months, but I have come over. In retrospect, there are several benefits. First, children have strong self-ability, good group concept, and are sensible early.

Second, because he is not with the old people on both sides, the old people miss their grandchildren and go back from time to time, and the feelings of all parties are harmonious. It's just that I have to work harder, for my children, it's worth it!

You still live in a piece of convenience.

In the eyes of many young people, the main reason why they live separately from their parents after marriage is that they do not want to continue to trouble their parents. Because if the parents live with themselves, they have all kinds of housework to do every day, such as laundry, cooking, taking care of the baby, shopping for groceries, etc., once they work overtime at night, the parents have to worry about it.

But if you live separately from your parents, you just need to take care of yourself, and you don't have to do so much housework every day, and you don't have to buy groceries and cook in advance. If you have time, you can also go square dancing and go out shopping with your other half, which is also very free.

2. Avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and make the family more harmonious.

For a long time, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an unavoidable topic, and there has even been a saying since ancient times that at least 9 out of 10 pairs of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have various contradictions, and it seems that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to be born enemies. No matter how familiar the two are after marriage, there will still be various estrangements in their hearts. Especially after having a baby, there may be a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of taking care of the baby, which is more serious and directly threatens the relationship between husband and wife and reaches the point of divorce.

But everyone knows that distance can produce beauty, and keeping a certain distance from your mother-in-law can make the relationship between the two closer, and both parties do not have to deliberately change their personal habits to cater to each other.

Summary. Hello dear! After 20 years of economic development, many families in China have the conditions to provide their children with a warm and comfortable bedroom, but some parents are still not worried about letting their children sleep alone, worried that their children are afraid of the dark, worried that their children will kick the quilt at night and catch a cold.

In fact, there are pros and cons to this question of whether it is good to sleep with children, the key is that parents must know how to sleep with their children and under what circumstances they cannot sleep with their children.

Hello, can parents stay with their children?

Hello dear! After 20 years of economic development, many families in China have the conditions to provide their children with a warm and comfortable bedroom, but some parents are still not worried about letting their children sleep alone, worried that their children are afraid of the dark, and that their children will kick the quilt at night and catch a cold. In fact, there are pros and cons on this question of whether it is good to sleep with children, the key is that parents must know how to sleep with the rest of the children, and under what circumstances they can't sleep with the children.

In order to cultivate the child's independence from an early age, a small number of parents will arrange for the child to sleep alone when he is only one or two years old. But most parents are still not so relieved and will let their children sleep with them on the big bed. There is a misunderstanding here, Qinghui, sleeping together actually does not need to sleep in a bed, as long as a warm bed for the child, it is convenient for the father to take care of the mother at any time at night, and the child can sleep steadily and sweetly.

Benefits of Sleeping with Parents and Children Most children are afraid of the dark, their minds are full of all kinds of strange thoughts, and when they turn off the lights to sleep at night, the fear will make them afraid. It has been said in an article that the smell of the mother's body can soothe the child, and the mother's touch can also reduce the child's crying. Therefore, sleeping with the child not only gives them a sense of security, but also increases their affection for each other, and at the same time, the child can also fall asleep sweetly in the fairy tales told by the parents.

Parents can add elements such as strength, bravery, and independence to fairy tales to slowly guide their children's cognition of Zhou Zhu and Wei, and eliminate their fears. Secondly, children will inevitably kick the quilt when they sleep, and it is more convenient for parents and children to sleep together to cover them with quilts. Before the age of three, the child's brain control of the bladder is not perfect, and the tremor may be due to the excitement of playing during the day or drinking more water, etc., often wetting the bed at night, sleeping with the child is also convenient for observation, and changing diapers or clothes and pants in time.

Now the general consensus on social difficulties is that children can choose to sleep in separate rooms with their parents after the age of three, mainly as the child grows up, bedwetting will basically decrease, and the child's independence needs to be cultivated. If you don't sleep in separate rooms for a long time, it is not conducive to the emotional communication between parents, but also makes the child too dependent on his parents and cannot establish a complete personality.