My girlfriend said that I was tired and crazy and wanted to get married, but I can t get married now

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My girlfriend thinks the same thing! It is estimated that it is not very optimistic about the future! Need to have a home!

    Stability is required! There needs to be a support point! So we decided to get married!

    You can also think about it! There's nothing wrong with getting married! There's no reason why you can't get married!

    Getting married is easy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You said that you were not ready, there was a lot of pressure to get married, and it was not appropriate to get married now, and it was even more difficult to find it after divorce, so let it be and wait.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Getting married and getting divorced so quickly now, so be sure to think about it!

    There will always be times when women will be tired and upset, and at that time you should be more concerned and enlighten slowly.

    You can give her hope and give her sunshine!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Talk to him well, and get the marriage certificate first.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is normal, many people will find that life after marriage is very tired, in fact, this is too excited before marriage, too busy, or not very accustomed to life after marriage, love is beautiful, compared to love, life after marriage is more dry. It's okay, just take your time!

    1.In married life, both men and women have to face the same face every day. But over time, such a relationship will become a tired period in marriage, and even many men will complain to their friends in private that their married life is too hard.

    In fact, it is the mentality of men that will make women feel tired, because their hard work is only exchanged for their husband's complaints, how many women can accept such a fact?

    2.Why do you feel so tired after getting married? In China, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a headache.

    Because the mother-in-law will definitely feel uncomfortable when she sees her son who has been raised for many years lying in the arms of another woman, she will slowly put this bad emotion on her daughter-in-law, causing conflicts. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law remains rigid for a long time, then the woman in the marriage will feel upset and physically and mentally exhausted. 

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, life is too short and things are impermanent. Why care so much about everything, let alone worry so much about everything. In this life, it is only a hundred years, there is no need to be overly demanding, what to expect, do what you want to do, love what you want to love, and strive to live every day.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Is it a premarital phobia, or is the person you are married to not very satisfied?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Marriage is not a good medicine for tiredness and annoyance, but getting married will be more tired and annoying, unless you have a lover, I hope to be able to stay with him or her, face the future difficulties of Song Tangerine, share the joy of fast annihilation, and share the worries and injuries.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe. I often think about it.

    Because I feel that I am not satisfied with my current life. I always feel tired. It's annoying. So I want to find someone to marry as soon as possible.

    I always feel that it will be good to get married. 2 people's world. There won't be so many worries anymore.

    But people who are married say that life after marriage is not what we think.

    Right. We're not kids anymore. I don't think it's good to get married now, and I want to get married too. It's just that the right person hasn't been found yet.

    Actually, it's not a terrible thing to think this way.

    It's just that you really met someone you want to live with for the rest of your life?

    For most of his life, he returned to the bench and lived after marriage. And living alone for more than 20 years doesn't you think it's very uneconomical?

    It's better to get married later anyway. When will you be able to survive until you are old when you get married so early? At least I'm worried.

    It seems that there is no way to decide whether to get married or not.

    After all, the fate of the shirt is divided, and it can't be stopped.

    Marriage is not just a matter of finding someone, at least I'm sorry for myself, isn't it?

    Yue Lao will not be partial, everyone has their own angel.

    Actually, I'm also very anxious, hehe, because my sister is about to get married, and I am still single. Occasionally, I would like to marry someone who is a random person.

    But I've always believed it. My significant other is just as much as I am.

    Take yourself seriously. Bless you and bless me. ~

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When looking for a job, you will indeed be upset, comfort her first, and then talk about it when she finds a job, and when she is stressed, just say it and solve it slowly, I wish you happiness!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Calm down and give each other space.

    Sometimes we mistake it for love.

    In fact, it's just getting used to being together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This may be that he doesn't feel very good about you, if it feels good, he won't lose his temper at you for everything, and you ask him if he has submitted a resume, it is for his good, and he doesn't have to vote, he also said this, I think she has a problem with her thinking, it's too extreme, whether it's good or bad, you have to say this, you still have to start with communicating with his heart, his mind has deteriorated, you have to correct it with him, just like talking to him calmly, you can't quarrel with him, Quarrels can make the situation worse, good luck!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The trivial matters in life must be considerate of each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ask why this is happening!

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