It seems that my heart is tired and I want to break up a little.

It is said that boys develop later than girls, so it's understandable that he always feels immature, actually, I've been in a situation like you. I also thought that it would be better to break up than to be miserable, but I clearly understood that I would definitely not be able to let go, and maybe it would be more painful after the breakup than it is now. Now, I'm okay with him.

I don't think that way anymore.

Give him time to mature.

Aren't two people, one fantasy and one realistic, complement each other? My he often said that I think too much, yes, in fact, sometimes it's too realistic and not good, wow, you don't make yourself so tired, naïve, naïve, will make yourself happy.

If you love someone, don't try what he can change, this kind of him is what you love, isn't it?

If one day, you find that he has suddenly changed, will you accept it? I don't think I'll be able to take it. He's the best of this

As for him not understanding you, then you can find a way to make him understand, or don't talk to him about topics that he is not interested in...

It's good, you both love each other, and since there is love, then many things can be solved. Can you say these things to him? It's good for two people to communicate more.

The future is uncertain, don't learn from the monkey to pick bananas, always think that there is something better in the future. This one is the best now, cherish it!

Don't give up.

The following chat logs are very similar to your situation, and you may find it instructive to read them. I wish you and your boyfriend a happy journey together and enter the paradise of love.

Boy: "Wife, are you there?" ”

Girl: "Yes."

Boy: "Wife, what are you doing?" ”

Girl: "Chat,"

Boy: "Oh, did you miss me today?" ”

Girl: "No."

Boy: "Ahhhhhh Really? ”

Girl: "Yes."

Boy: "55555....I cried. ”

Girl: "Oh."

Boy: "....The boy felt that the girl was getting colder and colder to him, that it was boring to talk to her, that he was trying to find a topic, and that she was casually perfunctory. It's been like this several times, the boy can't stand it anymore and no longer goes to talk to the girl for a day....Two days....A week....Two weeks....By the third week, the girl felt more and more uncomfortable, because the boy no longer came to talk to her.

For the first time, the girl took the initiative to talk to the boy.

Girl: "Are you there?" I'm looking for you. ”

Boy: "Say."

The girl felt that the boy was not as good as she used to be.

Girl: "Dear, what have you been doing lately?" ”

Boy: "Busy,"

Girl: "What are you up to?" Didn't even come to talk to me. ”

Boy: "Nothing."

Girl: "What's wrong with you?" ”

Boy: "No."

Girl: "What's wrong with you?" Tell me."

Boy: "No."

Girl、"Why didn't you tell me?" Do you have something on your mind that you don't need to say to me? ”

Boy: "Think for yourself."

The girl really didn't understand what she was doing wrong.

Girl: "I didn't do anything wrong."

Boy: "Really? ”

Girl: "....Boy: "Let's break up."

The girl panicked, she did not understand why the boy proposed to break up.

Girl: "Why?" Don't you love me anymore? ”

Boy: "No, I love it."

Girl: "If you love, why did you propose to break up?" ”

Boy: "I'm tired of love, I really don't want to love anymore." ”

Girl: "Tired? Are you tired of loving me? ”

Boy: "Yes, I'm tired, you never take the initiative to talk to me, except today, every time I want to talk to you, you have to perfunctory me, I'm fed up."

It was only at this time that the girl realized that she was indeed cold to the boy.

Girl: "Dear, I'm sorry, please forgive me, will you give me another chance?" ”

Boy: "You don't need to apologize to me, let's leave it at that."

This chat record tells everyone: since you have someone you like, you have to be single-minded, take him (her) seriously, don't ignore him (her) all day long, don't always let him (her) take the initiative, then he (she) will be tired, you also have to learn to take the initiative, if you have someone you like, you have to cherish it, don't think that you are a national treasure, he (she) doesn't want it, and others will want it, don't always know how to cherish it after losing, remember, there is no regret medicine in the world to sell, So learn to cherish the one around you!

Every man meets what he likes, and you will be very happy, so he will show his more innocent side, although it will feel very naïve, but you are very lucky, he likes you very much, you should be separated for a period of time in this situation, calm down your emotions, and then go on like this! You can also talk to him very formally and say what you think, and he will change for you ...

I wish you all happiness!

When two people are together, they understand each other, tolerate each other, and run in with each other, so that you can have a future.

No one is born to be together, he nags you, it's just that he wants to feel cared about by you, and he cares about you, in fact, playing a ** in the past doesn't mean that you have to nag anything, listen to each other, feel the other person's existence, feel that he cares about you.

Is it tiring to be a real listener? One a day** You feel that you have nothing to say, and you can hang up when you have talked enough.

If you annoy him by doing this, when he really doesn't, will you still find him annoyed by the way he used to behave like this?

Everyone has a different way of expressing it, and if you can't understand tolerance, you can just explain it and let the other party change it.

The best way to fall in love is to do things together, not to talk to each other together...

Pull, pull, and fade.

Marriage has been in love for seven years, and I want to fall in love too! Maybe it's better to stick to the past!

Love is your own business, and don't regret making a decision.

Let each other rest for a while, don't contact each other, let each other calm down, and then decide [it is recommended that you do not contact for a month or two,] after that