Why is there always resistance to what others recommend?

There are many such people in life, to a certain extent, they are more inclined to have an inferiority complex, especially in a crowded environment, they will automatically open their psychological defense mechanism, through a certain behavior or expression to protect themselves, to avoid themselves from being harmed, even if this kind of harm is not something you take the initiative to inflict on others. Therefore, when we understand this, we should tolerate their behavior appropriately, and if you really can't accept it or continue to endure it, you should talk to the other person positively, tell them how you feel, and understand the most authentic thoughts about why they are doing it.

I am also a person who likes to share, and I always want to recommend and share the good books, good songs, and delicious foods I encounter with others, and share good things with others, which is a kind of psychology that pursues amplification effect. A good book to read by one person is a beautiful reading experience, and sharing it with many people is a good reading experience. "It is better to be happy alone than to be happy with all", which expresses this kind of psychology.

Nowadays, people's living standards have improved, and the material requirements have been made, and there is also a kind of comparison in the heart, thinking that buying expensive things can prove that you have money, live well, buy cheap things, as if you are very poor, easy to let others look down on, in fact, this is all vanity, buy things regardless of whether it is expensive or cheap, as long as you think it is appropriate, you can afford it.

In today's materialistic society, most of the so-called rich people think that what is expensive is good. They don't care about spending a lot of money on famous brands. And the general comparison psychology is very strong, and it is definitely a problem to feel that something suddenly cheap.

To put it bluntly, it's a matter of vanity. In fact, I think that cheap things are not necessarily bad. Especially when some brands or things are suddenly cheap, it is not necessarily a quality or other problem.

It may be that the merchant is capricious.

In fact, this is not the case, but now many people understand that you get what you pay for, so the possibility of buying good goods cheaply is very small. Because most people have been deceived, they have a shadow in their hearts, and they would rather spend more money to buy the products they like. That's why there is some resistance and rejection of cheap things.

Always remember that there is no such thing as a free lunch.

Nowadays, people are generally more self-conscious and have their own opinions. Originally, this thing was 100 yuan, but suddenly it was sold for 50 yuan. Eighty percent of people will wonder if there is something wrong with your product, and if there is no problem, why is it suddenly cheaper.

Is the food expired? Or is the product outdated and so on. People around us often say that you get what you pay for, but in fact, I think 90% of the goods are really worth the price.

But if it's really expensive, it's better than cheaper? I think people just want to buy a peace of mind. At first, I ordered a **, and then suddenly the price dropped, indicating that the product has lost its original value.

In the process of interpersonal communication, there is a term in psychology called psychological safety distance, which means that people need a certain distance to stabilize the relationship between each other while interacting. If you go beyond this psychological safety distance, it is likely that others will not be able to continue to live in a comfortable environment with you. In addition to the psychological safety distance, there is also an effect in psychology called the hedgehog effect, which describes that no matter how much two hedgehogs love each other, once they want to get close to each other, the thorns on their bodies will sting each other, and finally break up unhappily.

In fact, as long as the quality is about the same, the price is still popular. The so-called brands are mainly made by Western countries, and in order to earn high profits, many of them are actually processed by China and then OEM. I have bought a lot of foreign trade tail list clothes, the price is cheap and the quality is reliable, why not buy it.

Unless it's the kind of rich person who can't look down on it, being rich is capricious.

Summary. That means that you may be in a bad mood, because if the whole person's mood is very low, and it doesn't go by fast enough, you will see a lot of things, either like it very much, or you are very resistant, because you yourself are not happy, so you will feel bad and annoyed by the things you see.

That means that you may be in a bad mood, because if the whole person's mood is very low, you will regret it, and if you don't go by fast enough, you will see a lot of things, and you don't like it very much, and you will be very resistant to judging pants, because you yourself are not happy, so you will feel bad and annoyed when you see things.

I think you can adjust your mindset a little bit.

Dear, I hope mine can be helpful to you.

Thank you. Uh-huh, it's okay, dear

It's not that I'm in a bad mood, but I resist a lot of things, and I only like what I'm interested in.

Then you're the kind of person who likes things in your heart, and you don't like things you don't like, and I think that's fine.

For example, professionally, I like it very much.

That's good, liking your major is the best choice, only if you like you, you will develop better.

Other things, things that are rarely of interest, are now in a situation similar to that of falling into.

I don't think you need to correct your behavior too much, because it's good if you learn your profession well, and it's not good to learn too much.

I don't think you need to correct your behavior too much, because it's good if you learn your profession well, and it's not good to learn too much.

I don't like to go out with friends now, I don't like to exercise, a lot of things are very casual, things are broken casually, buy another one!! Professional knowledge is everywhere in life, and I like to read it on the way to and from work, as long as the mobile phone is in hand, I will read it when I eat.

Gradually, it seems that it has become a habit of life, and it has lost a lot of things in front of the Song of Eggplant, and if Yu Shi is free, he can still play games, and now he doesn't like to tremble Zheng Huan, all kinds of things.

So, what do you think you should do? Or rather, relief.

I think you're just living the same life all day because your life is too ordinary, and you don't have any thoughts to do something.

Is it because of something you've been through?