As a woman who has never experienced childbearing, what do you think scares you about childbirth?

I have no experience with fertility yet, but I am deeply afraid of the following:

Fear of special emotional changes during pregnancy and after giving birth to a child will not only not be understood and pitied by the husband, but will also be judged by hypocrisy.

Fear of crying out for pain when giving birth, asking for anesthesia or caesarean section, not only will not be understood and responded to by the husband, but will also be counted down"If a woman gives birth without pain, others can bear it, but you can't."

Afraid of confinement after giving birth, asking the confinement lady or nanny to take care of the confinement child, even if it is within the financial affordability, will be rejected by the husband, and you will be counted down"There is your mother (or mother-in-law or a relative) who is still asking for a confinement lady, you are spending money indiscriminately, hypocritically, and squeamishly, and the money I earn does not fall from the sky"。

When you are afraid of raising children, no matter how many scientific parenting books you have read, how many previous experiences you have checked, and how many mothers of the same age have been consulted, you can't match a word from your husband"My mom (a relative) has experience, and it's right to listen to them"。You invite him to read or study, but he not only disdains you but also calls you hypocritical.

Afraid of the change in appearance after giving birth, not only will you not be understood and encouraged by your husband, but you will also be ridiculed, and even become the bull's-eye that attacks you during a quarrel.

I am afraid that I will not be able to go to work with my children after giving birth, and from then on all the housework will be yours, and my husband will become the shopkeeper; Cooking and cleaning and taking care of children, the same is not done, not only does your husband not share, but also counts you "stay at home all day, so much time and this little thing is not good", you ask your husband to share, he will only say "I work every day to make money, and I won't let me rest when I come back.""。

I am afraid that after giving birth, I will not be able to go to work and have no time and energy to make money, and I will be interrogated by my husband when I spend money, as long as it does not meet his consumption concept, even if the amount is small, I will count you down, saying that you will not live.

I think the attitude of my husband can largely determine the happiness and happiness of a pregnant woman or a new mother. Even if you have a mother or nanny to share after pregnancy and childbirth, if these things happen, it will still make you depressed, tingling, and crying.

As a nulliparous woman, the most frightening aspects of childbearing are the following; 1. Fear of the pain of childbirth.

Many people report that giving birth to a child is very painful, and most importantly, because dystocia can cost lives if it is not handled properly. Therefore, people who have experience in childbirth think that having a child is like walking through the ghost gate. Experts believe that this is an overly nervous psychological state for childbirth, and now that medicine is developed, many people choose to have a caesarean section, and the pain is also reduced.

Second, I am afraid of losing my body shape after giving birth.

After giving birth, women are not as good as before. Experts suggest that in fact, women should exercise properly during pregnancy and adhere to the appropriate care during pregnancy, and it is easier to restore the original abdominal muscle elasticity after childbirth, and effectively contract the lower abdomen that is supported and deformed. So don't worry too much about that either.

3. Fear of giving birth to deformed children.

This kind of worry is actually not much in real life, because prenatal and postnatal examinations can avoid these bad phenomena, pregnant women usually do not smoke or drink in daily life, do not wear heavy makeup, stay away from radiation and small animals with bacteria, etc., to avoid colds and diseases, and generally will not give birth to deformed babies. Premarital check-ups, prenatal and postnatal check-ups must be done regularly.

Concerns about embryonic development and ectopic pregnancy during the first trimester.

The second stage of pregnancy is the implantation of the fertilized egg, and the implantation of the fertilized egg is only located in the uterus, which is a safe and secure start to the whole conception process. If the implantation of the fertilized egg is outside the fallopian tubes, ovaries or even the uterus, with the growth and development of the embryo, it will cause symptoms such as abdominal pain and internal bleeding of the mother, which will seriously threaten the mother's life and affect future fertility.

The first trimester of embryonic development is very dangerous, at this time pregnant women should have sufficient rest, pay attention to diet, work and other taboos, successfully through the first 3 months of pregnancy, the risk of miscarriage during pregnancy will be greatly reduced.

In case of spontaneous miscarriage, do you think that the embryos in the uterus that have a spontaneous abortion will be discharged? Don't be too naïve, spontaneous abortion also needs to be cleared, as long as the uterus is cleared, it will inevitably cause damage to the endometrium.

Worry about your health in the second trimester.

As time goes by, the belly gets bigger and bigger, going down, compressing the bladder, rectum, etc., and going up, the constantly expanding uterus will cause the lungs, heart, and stomach to move up or be compressed to varying degrees. Therefore, in the second and third trimesters, expectant mothers will have symptoms such as frequent urination, constipation, wheezing, acid reflux, and palpitation. If constipation is severe enough to a certain extent, it is easy to cause miscarriage or high blood pressure.

Gestational hypertension and gestational diabetes can last until the postpartum period, and if the lifestyle habits during pregnancy are not healthy, the chance of getting these two diseases is still very high.

Labor concerns about the safety of the fetus and one's own safety.

When it comes to labor, fetal distress, fetal inversion, placenta previa, etc. will pose a threat to the life safety of the fetus, and obstetricians need to make correct judgments according to the physical condition of the pregnant woman. It has become a consensus that natural delivery is good for the fetus and the mother, but when encountering some conditions that are not suitable for natural delivery, such as the above and macrosomia, etc., caesarean section is required, and there are surgical risks such as heavy bleeding during cesarean section, and there will be wound healing risks such as amniotic fluid embolism and pulmonary embolism after delivery.

It can be said that all the way from pregnancy to childbirth, it is difficult to withstand 81 ninety-nine-eighty-one.

Today this is probably the most terrifying: giving birth to a baby makes a woman's cells "old" by 11 years!

This is not a casual complaint from a Buddhist youth or mother, but a serious study from George Mason University.

We all know that childbirth inevitably has huge changes in a woman's body and mind. Now, researchers are discovering that the effects are even down to the cellular level

The genetic markers of those women who have had children have changed, and the rate of cellular aging has accelerated!

The researchers analyzed DNA data from nearly 2,000 U.S. women of childbearing age (ages 20 to 40), and after adjusting for age, race, education, BMI, income status, menarche, smoking, and more, they were surprised to find that women who had at least one child had shorter telomeres on average compared to women who had not given birth.

What does it mean when telomeres become shorter? "It doesn't seem like much!

No, no, no, "it's an amazing result"!

This mean means that there are 116 fewer base pairs per mother, which is equivalent to 11 years of accelerated cell aging!

What's even more surprising is that this kind of baby-giving caused aging is even more "powerful" than smoking and obesity, and previous studies have shown that smoking will trigger accelerated cell aging, and obesity is the year.

To make matters worse, the researchers found that the extent of telomere shortening appeared to depend on how many children the woman had. The birth of one is shortened, the regeneration of another is shortened, and after giving birth to five or more, the telomeres are shortened!

As a woman who has not given birth, the most frightening thing about childbirth may be the pain and sin of giving birth, and there is also a little mess that I am worried that the child will be deformed, so that the child himself will suffer a special sin, and it will be very uncomfortable to be a relative to accompany the parents to say that it will be very uncomfortable!

Fear of childbirth pain All mothers who have children have different degrees of fear of childbirth, but the post-80s expectant mothers who grew up in the greenhouse, because they have not suffered from returning to Wangqiao and have poor endurance, so their fear of childbirth seems to be more intense, and many of them could have given birth naturally, but finally chose to have a caesarean section because of fear of pain.

First of all, the pain of women giving birth to children is unbearable, and the process is arduous. Secondly, You Tanfeng, after the child is born, you also need to spend a lot of money and energy to take care of it, which requires you to be mentally prepared in advance.

Because of the great maternal love, therefore, never be filial piety Zheng has fear, fear will only affect people's endocrine, acceptance and responsibility, love children will not have fear in their hearts.

As a nulliar woman, what scares you most about childbirth is the uncertainty of the future.