I think my grandma has a vicious face, and I don t know how to stay at home?

You think your grandmother's face is very vicious, you don't know how to stay at home, since you can go out to work or rent a house, you can just stay with her without contact! But no matter what, it's my grandmother and I'm related by blood, so don't conflict with her, and be more tolerant.

Reduce the number and time of appearing in front of grandma, my sister has less interaction with her, and the mobile phone is set to open the password.

If you can live on campus, you can live on campus.

Oh, brother, you don't want so much resentment. Your grandmother is eccentric, and you can't hate her, you just listen to what she says, with the left ear in and the right ear out. Don't bother to pay attention to her, justice is in the hearts of the people, and when you have a chance in the future, she will regret it.

And the more she dotes on your brother, the more she hurts him, it's a sugar-coated cannonball. Have you ever seen a child who is spoiled and has a future, she is not so good to you will make you more independent, better, and more promising. When you grow up, you won't care what your grandmother does to you, because you can care about a lot of people.

For example, if someone gives a gift to another person for a certain purpose, and she is afraid that the other person will not accept it, she prepares the best and most expensive gift.

As a result, the other party didn't accept the gift, the gift was still hers, and that person didn't have to help her, her purpose was not achieved, so she was extremely depressed and depressed, and it was the best and most expensive gift she prepared. But she couldn't help the man at all.

Your grandmother is the giver of gifts, and for fear that you will not accept them, she has prepared "vicious" gifts as you call them, ready to give them.

As a result, you do not accept this gift, may I ask whose "malevolent" gift is it?

We've also tried, at this time, you just need to be angry, then she will know how to write the word of repentance, sooner or later you will leave, and you don't have to look at her face all the time, just treat her as transparent.

If you don't get along well with your grandmother, you try to get along with them as little as possible.

I don't know what grandma thinks, isn't it different for men and women? Since you don't get along well, talk less. Besides, you should be obedient and be angry, and you will be better than your brother in the next exam, won't you just be angry with those people.

How old are you? If you can leave, stay away from her! This old lady is very annoying, she can disgust you to death, the main thing is how your parents treat you?

Is it the same as her? Tell your parents about it! If you can get out, don't go back.

How old are you? If you can leave, stay away from her! This old lady is very annoying, she can disgust you to death, the main thing is how your parents treat you?

Is it the same as her? Tell your parents about it! If you can get out, don't go back.

If you can stay away, stay away from them. Everyone has eyes, and it is impossible to just listen to her.

There is no way to meet such an old man, this kind of thinking is as it is for decades, deep-rooted, there is no way to change it, distribute more dodge, people's mouths are two skins, follow her, others will see it, do your best.

The old people are like this, and my family has not stopped talking for a day, mainly because if there is something to talk to her, just try to talk to others.

A thousand cuts, stop calling them grandparents! None of them are human! You have to learn to be ruthless with any bad guy!

Don't pay too much attention to them, I remember when I was two years old, I brought them to my grandparents, and now my mother told me that I don't even recognize my mother after two months of bringing them to my grandparents.

My grandmother turned on the TV in the middle of the night, turned on until more than twelve o'clock, and didn't turn off the TV when she fell asleep, just kept it on. The sound is still the loudest, it won't be long to change a station, and it's not going to be a good time to change a tire, I'm really annoyed, that voice is so loud, I can hear it, what are others doing? He said two sentences to you, and what else did I say I am in charge of the weather forecast, and at home I just feel that anyone can respond to what she says.

I have a special experience of this, since she came to our house, our family has not stopped, and because of her.

version exists, my mother's right has no status at all in the family, and it can even be said that she is treated as a nanny. And my brother and I are studying, we need a quiet environment, but she, as long as my brother and I are not in the living room, she immediately turned on the TV, and turned on very loudly, as long as we are in the living room to write and read, her mouth will get up as soon as she talks, as if to annoy us away, to watch TV, you say, when you meet this kind of old man, it is obvious that she herself does not let people respect.

I can understand you, really, and I believe that this will be the biggest shadow of my upbringing, and I will think back to it whenever I am lost.

I understand that the elders are not good-tempered and have good feelings for themselves.

Du affects the character inevitably zhi

Yes, now he's at our house, so I can't do my homework.

My grandmother also copied this annoyance, and when I see her now, I am deeply disgusted physically and psychologically, because he is very small, so I don't like her, and sometimes I quarrel with her, and he tells me to see how good the granddaughter of which family is to grandma, and he tells me with a righteous and sad expression, and he doesn't look at how he treats me, so he is very speechless. He has always told me that I should help him do something, and if he has to eat, he tastes a few bites first and thinks it is not delicious or too sweet, and then tells me to eat it. Many times he did this, for example, when he came to my room and saw the waste paper in my room, he said that he was going to take it and burn it, and then he didn't move, and he looked east and west, and I was very annoyed and said to him, why don't you take it away, and she said to me with confidence, you come and take it for me, are you really angry?

Well, now that my hand is injured, I am more confident, and I don't pretend to be alone when I am alone, and I show all my selfishness, so I feel that the child doesn't understand anything, and she raises her injured hand in front of me. Anyway, my grandparents are all wonderful, there are many cases, I don't want to talk about them, they are all uneducated but self-righteous people.

Grandma is like this because you don't have a good dad. If the role of dad is fair, fair and rational, grandma will not always be unreasonable. If you want to have a good grandmother, first talk to your dad about how to deal with these conflicts.

You must love you very much.

Grandma, otherwise you wouldn't care so much about her attitude towards you. There is a saying that dao: love is the eternal version.

Patience You can try the right to endure her in everything, I know it's difficult, but I think that by doing this, slowly she will feel that her attitude is not good; Don't say she's annoying, after all, old people will have some of this situation

Of course, it would be better if you could calmly lay out the problem with her. But I think it's also something we need to do to respect the elderly.

I understand you very well, because I've had this situation before, but try to be tolerant, patient, and now I don't have a problem

yes, don't worry about it.

My grandma was also not good to me.

I don't like it all day long (because I wasn't brought up by her, she was very good to my brother), ignore her, do what you should do. I can't be filial to myself, otherwise it will be the same as an unreasonable grandmother.

Same as my grandmother

I was so ignorant of my dad's people that I was so cold to them

In this way, whether it is my grandmother or others, it will always be a little more restrained.

Treat the elderly like children, we can't make sense of that"Endure"Finish!

Convince people with reason, convince people with reason, you can bring out all your big truths, and people will listen to reason, for example, when killing people, if you say to **, wait a minute, basically he didn't make a move, he will wait for a while, of course, inertia is not ruled out.

It is a waste of time to reason with people who do not understand reason. You can afford to hide!! Flash now!!

Grandma cares too much about you, and you, as a young man, are more grumpy. It is necessary to calm down and approach grandma and other things with a peaceful mind.

Maybe it's because grandma cares about you too much, so she keeps nagging you, you should understand his approach from multiple grandma's perspectives, and you can usually communicate your thoughts with grandma.

It doesn't matter if grandma hates it, anyway, that grandma won't be able to control you in the future.

Honoring the elderly is the duty and responsibility of each of us as children and future generations. As for the elderly, due to their different life experiences, and the fact that they are inevitably confused in old age, conflicts with their children are also common. People who live with the elderly are often blamed by other relatives, and it is not uncommon for the elderly to complain.

I feel the same way. But we can't just ignore the old man because of that, right?

Filial piety still has to be done, and the old man should be more tolerant, and for some of her words or things, you might as well come to a "yang and yin violation" that is, just agree on the surface and make the old man happy. Then distinguish between right and wrong, listen to what should be heard, and if it is not right, just do what you want. Don't go head-on.

The elderly, like children, are extremely fragile and sensitive, and if they are not satisfied, she will be sad and nag for a long time.

The hardest thing is the accusation of relatives. The ancients said that "it is easy to see each other well, but it is difficult to live for a long time", occasionally when they meet, they can't kiss, they are together every day, and it is difficult to be a good person. But the one who is truly filial is the one who can live with the elderly!

The best way is to let the elderly live with other children for a period of time, if possible. One home for at least one month. Let everyone experience the habits and thoughts of the elderly.

Then, it is up to the elderly to choose who they live with, and at the same time, all the children discuss and discuss together to increase mutual understanding and support. In particular, we should support people who live with the elderly.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, because family is interceding rather than reasonable. But if someone in your family really criticizes you too much, then whoever blames will let him take care of it for a year, and set an example for us to learn.

Let me tell you about one of my experiences: I have a relative who lives with my mother-in-law after getting married. She is straightforward and kind-hearted, and his sister-in-law is shrewd and cunning, and she has lived for less than a year, and has repeatedly accused my relatives of being unfilial.

Even to the court. Her mother-in-law is also crowded, as if she was suffering from a disaster, and finally had to be mediated by the court, my relatives and husband gave everything they had, giving money and food, giving what they wanted, and the old man lived with his sister-in-law. As a result, more than ten days after the handover of things was completed, the mother-in-law was swept out of the house by her sister-in-law, and only a set of auxiliary cover rolls was given and thrown on the street.

The old man was still cared for by my sister and brother-in-law until he died. It's just that there is no more gossip from others. Honoring the old man can't negotiate the price, but she has suffered some hardships after this catastrophe, although it hurts to think about it, there are also his own factors, and sometimes it is a last resort.

Those who talk about filial piety and criticize others may wish to give them a chance to perform.

Some old people are more old-fashioned, but some are good and some are bad. You can try to do what you think is right, you can also communicate with him well, talk, understand what he needs, what you need to do, many old people are very lonely, maybe he just wants a little more care, I hope someone to accompany him from time to time, let him try to understand your feelings, I think this way he will be less accusatory and critical, and your relatives will not have too much prejudice against you.

The old man, like his girlfriend, has to rely on coaxing, and everything is easy to do!

Old children, good people should also be coaxed

This kind of thing is very common, especially when there are many brothers, and the final result is usually that the stronger side wins, even if it can't achieve all the goals, it can be partially achieved, in short, to get some benefits.

It is difficult for external forces to intervene because it is difficult to cut off household chores. Now that your family is at a disadvantage, it will be difficult to salvage the situation.

1. Reconcile family contradictions and unify thoughts, the purpose of which is to unify with the outside world and make the other party's differentiation policy invalid. This is the most difficult, you have to get rid of the evasive behavior, take the initiative to intervene in family disputes, suppress your grievances and anger, and make rational choices. (If the emotional relationship between family members is used reasonably, there may be a major breakthrough).

2. Someone must stand up and show a tough attitude, not only to defend themselves, but also to take the initiative to attack, so that the other party has some scruples. It is necessary to divide the other party, and the reason why your uncle does not dare to provoke directly is because of his lack of strength, so he brings out the elders (most likely deceived with lies) to increase the chips. Direct confrontation or emotional breakthrough, be sure to keep your grandma neutral or hesitant; Then directly attack your uncle (exposing and abusive) so that he doesn't have the courage to shout, and then tell grandma about your uncle's behavior to prove that he is lying (it doesn't matter if it's true or not).

3. Complete the relevant procedures as soon as possible to create a fait accompli. Change the luggage.

If you care about family feelings, I don't say it. The most important thing is not to let external forces intervene, to ensure that this is an internal family matter, then everything has room to turn around.

Scolding is not illegal, how do you want to sue? She's not right, it's hers, and it's over with a clear conscience yourself.

Calmly watch her scold, stand up to her, and don't do anything with her. Wait for her to calm down and then negotiate with her.