What would you do if you knew you had cancer and had 3 months to live?

Updated on society 2024-06-06
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone is dead, so why be so worried?

    Be happy, go salmon fishing, and cultivate your sentiments.

    There is a person who knows that he has 2 months left to play.

    He went fishing, but after half a year it was still fine.

    When I went to the hospital for a check-up, I found out that the cancer cells had died.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go to Jiuzhaigou - a place you must go in this life.

    Learn sign language that you've always wanted to learn, learn to make snacks, cook food, and feed your family.

    Go and meet people who have never been able to meet.

    Then go to my brother. Died in his arms.

    It's not creative, but that's what I want.

    Everybody is going to have their own answer, because it's too personal.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a personal question

    Of course, you have to do whatever you want, do what you like!

    But even if I only have three months to live, I'm going to try to survive longer! Because thinking about how many people will be sad and sad for me in three months, it is also the most important thing to ***try to live***!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you have any regrets in your life? If you have one, do it quickly. At least I won't regret it when I die, anyway, I was sentenced. Look away, friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's only three months, just do what you want to do, eat, drink and have fun all at once, anyway, people always have to die, it's best to talk about a vigorous love, then you will die without shock, oh hehehehe!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find the way you feel most comfortable with yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I only had three months to live, I would go with the people I love to go where I want to go. Make footprints in the places you love. Then find a favorite place and wait for the end of life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I will be optimistic. I want to spend a month with my parents, because I have been living in school since junior high school, and I have too little time with my parents, and I don't do too much filial piety, and I hope to spend a month to make them happy. Spend a month with my friends, apologize to the people I have offended, and thank my good friends.

    Another month with my boyfriend, I love him. I'm going to spend a month giving him all the tenderness of my life, and then find a good girlfriend for him to replace me. That's what I thought.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get back the money that others owe you, and pay back what you owe them, so that you can feel at ease.

    What do you want to say to someone closest to you? If you can't say it for a while, write it down, so as not to lose the opportunity in the future. Okay, how much money are you going to use, plan it, how to use it?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Eat well, sleep well, play everywhere, and spend these days in peace.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I know that my life is short, I will cherish everything in front of me to help those in need, and make good use of every moment.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you're in a good mood, you can live for decades!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, cancer is a chronic disease, and many people who have cancer pay attention to protecting themselves and can still live well. I had ovarian cancer in 2014, and when I heard the news, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief. I want to say first that when my mother died, it was because of stomach cancer, which was more than 20 years ago, and at that time, because the most advanced means and methods were not very advanced, my mother only had 2 years from learning that she was sick to her death.

    It dragged on until March of the following year, one afternoon, when I was not too busy, I felt some abdominal swelling, and I talked to a colleague who had a good relationship, and she said, you go and check it, didn't you find out that there was a cyst last year? Thanks to this colleague Li Lijuan, if it wasn't for her reminder, I would have almost forgotten about it.

    That's when I heard that cancer is hereditary. At that time, I was still young, and I felt that these things were so far away from us that I didn't care so much. As I get older, I become more and more convinced of this genetic theory.

    Sometimes in the dark of night, I think, is this really hereditary? Who will inherit it? However, there are very few times like this, after all, I am still young and my family is very young.

    There is a saying that fate will not be satisfied just because it brings you a great misfortune. Sometimes that's how fate comes to be. When I heard that I had cancer, it was a bit easier, and if it could be inherited, then it would be passed on to me, and the rest of my siblings would be able to escape the inheritance.

    In September of the previous year, the company found out that there was a cyst during the physical examination, and I thought that it was not important, in fact, there was also a reason that the company's management was stricter, and it was more difficult to ask for leave, and I had already lent my savings to my sister, and I had no money on hand, and I was afraid that the cost of doing an operation would exceed the budget in my hand.

    I went to the Fuxing Hospital closest to the unit and did a **B ultrasound, when I got the results and looked for a ** doctor, the doctor said that it was cancer, and I laughed at the time, what, just with a B ultrasound? I didn't believe what she said, and besides, it was a second-class hospital.

    Then, I lived to this day, and 5 years have passed, and I can barely remember those painful experiences. However, I remembered the friend who helped me sign and bear my pain, and she called me once a week to ask how I was doing. The friends who came to see me when I was sick made me feel like I wasn't so lonely living alone.

    After all, life is still long. The pain easily passed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It was a heart-dead experience, feeling like my life had come to an end, as if I hadn't done anything, but because of this illness, I cherished the remaining time even more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I haven't had it yet, but I know that it must be very painful to have cancer, because I know that I don't have a long time to live, and I will be very sad.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Having cancer is a very desperate feeling, I feel that I am not far away from death, and I feel that I am really unlucky, why me?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I didn't have cancer, but my grandfather had esophageal cancer, couldn't eat anything, and was maintained by nutrient infusions every day, so he became skinny and had a bad temper.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My relatives just have cancer, they want to eat, but they can't eat, they know that they are about to leave, and they have a lot of regrets, and they are very unwilling.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I felt that my life had been turned upside down, I had to take chemotherapy every day, and my hair was getting thinner and thinner day by day, which made me sad.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Sometimes you find that you don't have the energy to do anything, and then you give up on yourself. You feel like you have no hope in your life, so you will slowly decline on your own.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It hurts. I didn't have this experience, but the person around me left us like this, and I felt that she was in pain, and every day she was treated with chemotherapy and various medications, and our hearts were also very uncomfortable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Having cancer is a very sad thing, cancer is a terminal disease that almost no one can cure, and I hope that everyone can be treated gently by the world.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't know about it in the early stage of cancer, and when I know that I have the disease, it's already in the advanced stage, and there is no way to control it. At this time, it is most important to be distracted.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Having cancer can be said to be a heart-rending and earth-shattering experience. After I got it in 2011, the devastation of chemotherapy, the financial constraints, the children could not be taken care of, and what was even worse was the low resistance and severe lung infection in chemotherapy The ** of self-paid medicine for high fever every day can be said to be worse, and the original family that is not rich is labeled as poor. Later, when the worst of the time, my classmates knew that I could not do it, they came to see me, brought me a small box of Yushutang's cordyceps, boiled water on the microwave oven in the ward every morning to drink, and couldn't eat anything, so I could only drink some cordyceps water like this, drink and drink and finally no fever, I had the strength to speak, and I didn't feel so hard, the medical staff felt that I was the most critical patient they had ever seen, and it was also the most amazing, so it slowly got better, which led to the later chemotherapy and did not dare to do it again, that is, to buy Cordyceps for the cost of chemotherapy to eat. When I go home, I stew a bowl of pork ribs and cordyceps every morning to eat, so that until now, for ten years, many people dare not dare to be what I am now, it can be seen that the mood at that time was mixed, and now I will not give up insisting on diet**, diet is too important to the body.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Having cancer must be a painful, painful thing. I think for a person, there must be a feeling that the sky is falling.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Cancer is a very difficult disease, and people who have cancer will be psychologically devastated first. It is a very important test for both the family and the economy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I will go on a tour.

    Growing up, I always had a desire to travel, but because I was poor, I never fulfilled it.

    If I only have three months left, then I will definitely spend a month to travel, and I will float to **, and there is no home, I will go where I want to play, and I will rest wherever I go.

    I'm also going to take a set of wedding photos. Although I am married and have children, the biggest regret in my heart may be that I didn't take wedding photos, if I die, I don't have a wedding photo, I will feel very regretful, so I will pull my husband to take pictures, even if he is no longer the person I love the most, I have to take a picture to keep a souvenir.

    Another thing is, of course, to repay my borrowing, if I leave my borrowing and not pay it off, it will definitely affect my family, so before leaving, I will definitely pay off all the borrowing, so that I will have no worries when I leave.

    If I really only have three months left, then I will treat it well and have no regrets!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Go on a backpacker trip. Life is coming to an end, and I hope that I can do everything I didn't have the courage to do in the past, and do everything I didn't dare to try. Only when I know that there is not much time left for myself will cherish time incomparably, every minute and every second is a waste of life, my words, I haven't been to a few places since I was a child, and I haven't seen much of the world, so I will leave all the selfishness of the last time to myself to control, go outside to see the world, and see different things.

    At that time, when I watched "Honey and Clover", I was particularly envious of Takemoto's graduation trip to find his own direction. I think that traveling outside and gaining insight can train me to be very mature, and after seeing more things, I will have a different view of the world, and I will have my own ideas, and I am no longer limited to other people's mouths and other people's books. I hope that I can forget about my misfortunes for a while, get in touch with more things that I have never seen and heard before, and want to stop being stuck in one place and slowly wear out my will.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I should choose to travel, let myself see more of the beauty of the world, go to my favorite big cities, and feel the bustling atmosphere of the city. During the tour, I want to buy everything I want, as long as I want to eat everything I want to have fun. The city I must visit is Shanghai, where I have always wanted to experience its high-rise buildings and fast-paced lifestyle.

    There is also the need to spend more time with your parents. Parents are now getting older year by year, if you don't have any time, you have to learn to accompany your parents and give them a good memory. After all, the most unbearable thing is your parents, and you won't regret doing what you like.

    And this kind of is a very negative energy if, my life does not have this kind of if. I have to continue to strive to give my parents the best life in my life, and I have to accompany my parents for a long, long time, and I can't think about such negative things.

    We don't know what will happen in the future, but don't always think about some bad things, think more about how successful you will be in the future, this attitude towards life is right.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you have three months left, you can't do anything, because every moment is painful.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Waiting to die for three months, why not find a way to relax your muscles and invigorate your blood**, it may not be a glimmer of hope, but an 80% hope. It's the best hope, and you can't go wrong.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In addition to traveling, I will enjoy the remaining few days, stay with my family, eat, chat, and walk, so that they can minimize some pain, use their last time, take care of them, care for them, and enjoy this quiet time together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I will try my best to make the most of these three months and do as much as I want to do. Make yourself happy and happy, and at the same time add some burden to the family as little as possible.

    The second thing I have to do is go eat a lot of food that I want to eat. After all, there are still three months left, and I don't need to limit my weight too much. You can eat whatever you want, and you don't care about those calories.

    The third thing I would choose to go is where I want to go. The provinces I want to go to at the moment are Shandong and Shanghai. So I hope to be able to leave a better memory here.

    I will let myself go without regrets, and I will not let the people in my family take too much care of me, so I will not leave too many traces of me before leaving, because I think it is a pain.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What would I do if I had a terminal illness and three months left? First of all, I will definitely cherish the time I spend with my family and try to remember their faces. Cook with my mother, buy a cookbook, learn to cook a variety of dishes, and let my family taste all the dishes I make.

    Climb the mountain with my dad and make a small wooden house. Accompany younger siblings to do homework and play ball. Learn to make cakes, make cakes for family, good friends.

    There are also many places to travel and see places of interest; Draw a comic of your own; Buy what you want and spend all your money! A lot of people say they'll confess to someone they like, but I don't think I'll do that. If you tell him, but he rejects you without knowing it, says something bad, and later finds out that you have left this world, you may feel guilty.

    Also, if he likes you too, but will you be with him? Will you bear to leave him behind? So I'm not going to do it!

    But all this is hypothetical, no one wants such a thing to happen, cherish the present life, grasp the present is the most important thing. I also hope that those who are really sick will get better!

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