In college, if a girl likes a boy, should she take the initiative to chase it?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Consider giving up. I'll give you a very simple example, you like a guy very much, and then you are very good, and you pester him and get him to agree to be with you, in this case, if the guy likes you very much, and to be honest, it's quite sweet, and you end up together. However, in fact, after being together, not only at the beginning is a point in time, but after being together, you will also face the bits and pieces of your life later, and there are many run-in parts.

    And in the process of this run-in, you will gradually find that women are actually chasing men. It's not as good as men chasing women, because in essence, girls will be more emotional than boys, that is, emotional.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Ren will fall in love with one or several people all his life, inevitably hurt, after crying and hurting, one day after a long, long time, when he finally meets the love that truly belongs to him, he will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces on memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you meet someone you really like and are perfect, please be brave enough to chase it.

    Many people oppose girls chasing boys, thinking that it is too cheap for girls to chase boys, and girls should take the initiative to chase after boys. But I think it's not the same for a boy to chase a girl and a girl to chase a boy? People are all equal, and when you meet someone you like, you chase it, what is cheap and not cheap.

    Some boys are also very shy and afraid to speak, okay? Some people also say that it is difficult for girls to chase boys, but think about it empathically, boys chasing girls, isn't it also the next mountain?

    And I think the subject is really inviting the right person.2333....I've chased about six guys myself, and I'm still a single dog (macho girl crying). So many boys are strangers, and then they go to WeChat through various means, and then start chatting. And most of them don't want to talk about half of the chat, some delete it, and some of the good chats become friends.

    Do I regret it, you ask? I'm half regretful and half not regretful. I regret it because I chase people who are not perfect, and I just look at my heart (see the color) and look for it with a heart to find a boyfriend quickly, which has no quality at all, and it is also a waste of time.

    I don't regret it because I have experienced so much, and finally understood a truth of seeking quality over quantity, but I generally don't chase what I like, because your mentality can't give you too much motivation, and I slowly get tired of it. If you particularly like it, you will be brave enough to chase it again, after all, it will be difficult for people to miss this time again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Absolutely! Of course, I'm not saying that girls should take the initiative like boys pursuing girls, but in a relatively tactful, more suggestive way to take the initiative, after all, it's a girl. From the perspective of emotional feelings, it is really not easy to meet a boy who you like very much and want to take the initiative to pursue in your life.

    Why should such an uneasy person to meet be easily let slip away?

    When you are with him, you must be a fawn and nervous;

    Every word he says, you ponder carefully;

    He's a little slower by 1 minute, and maybe you're thinking about it;

    When he smiles at you, you feel like the whole world lights up, and maybe a second ago you were angry about something else.

    There are a few people in the world who can make you feel like this, and such a wonderful feeling, so exciting to him, just don't make any effort, just silently let him be with other girls, and even he never knows that you like him, are you willing? Probably, he is also a boy who is not very good at expressing himself, he also likes you, but he doesn't know how to express it, and he is afraid that you will refuse, so at this moment, if you can give him a signal that you also like him, maybe he will muster up the courage to pursue you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just because a guy pursues or is in a relationship with a girl doesn't necessarily mean that the guy really likes the girl. Sometimes, a guy will take the initiative to pursue or date a girl out of curiosity, thinking of opportunity, superficial attraction, etc., but he doesn't really like the girl.

    In addition, the feeling of liking someone is very subjective and complex, and everyone expresses it differently and in a different way. As a result, some guys may express their feelings very clearly, while others may be more subtle or silent. At the same time, boys may also be afraid or unwilling to express their love directly for various reasons.

    In general, a boy's pursuit or relationship with a girl does not necessarily mean that the boy really likes the girl, and it needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, if you're a guy you're courting by a girl, it means that he may have agreed to date you because he didn't want to hurt your self-esteem. Maybe he doesn't hate you, but that doesn't mean he likes you. You can let him discover your charm after a long period of dating, such as being very feminine, very temperamental, gentle and virtuous, caring and understanding of people and other good qualities, and then he must really like and even fall in love with you

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A boy chases a girl and wants to date this girl, which means that the boy likes that girl, and if he doesn't like this girl, the boy will not take the initiative to date her, nor will he contact her, and if the man wants to chase a girl, it means that he likes the girl, wants to care about her, and loves her. I want to be in a relationship with her, and I want to get to know girls.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not necessarily, he may be because of the novelty, or he may like a certain point of this girl, he is tired of it for a long time, and after his freshness is over, he will leave.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It doesn't necessarily mean that the man likes her, because sometimes the man loses his truth or dare, and he takes this as a bet, or the girl is good-looking, the boy is, and he wants to get something out of this woman.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Boys who like girls will pursue this girl, and if you are dating this girl, you must like this girl.

    Of course, there are other boys who pedal multiple boats.

    But the vast majority of boys are emotionally single-minded and responsible. Today's boys only have the energy to pursue a girl, and they are also single-minded in the process of dating girls.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, if you don't like someone, why chase him? Isn't this a hooligan? How can you casually chase someone you don't like, isn't this a deceptive feeling, this is a scumbag behavior. So to pursue someone means to like someone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A boy chasing a girl and dating a girl, so to speak, means that the boy likes this girl, because she is willing to associate with this girl, which is already an indirect confession.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, there is no doubt about it, he likes each other and will only date girls if he has a crush on her. If he doesn't like each other, it is impossible for him to spend his time chasing girls and being with girls. Hope it works for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There will be obvious manifestations. As a woman, you should be able to easily feel that you will.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is not necessarily, a boy who marries a girl may not like this girl, not to mention dating a girl, he may have many other purposes, such as a girl who has money and wants to eat soft rice, may use this girl as a spare tire, may find a random girl to play with, it is possible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's right. It means that the boy likes this girl, if you don't like it, there is no need to spend time chasing this girl, you must like to be with her. I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy day!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Boys chase one, girls and girls socialize. It should be able to show that the boy has a good impression of the girl, wants to pursue him, and wants to communicate with him further. But it is not absolute, it is possible that the boy has some other reason or purpose, such as falling in love with the girl's family wealth.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I definitely like that girl. If a boy doesn't like it, he won't waste time and energy pursuing a girl, and only if he likes and cares about a girl, the boy will choose to date her.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Definitely, it must be because you like it to pursue hard, and strive to be good to the person you like, and I hope that the person you like can also like yourself and pursue girls. This is the most direct manifestation of a boy's liking for this girl. So don't doubt it, just like it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It should be liked, it may be considered to be a feeling.

    But I don't know if I really love it or not, and it may be that I want to experience the feeling of liking people.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, a guy dating this girl shows that the guy likes the girl. Because the guy likes the girl, the guy will also find ways to get close to the girl.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, a boy chasing a girl shows that he likes that girl very much, and there are a very small number of mischievous boys chasing girls, and the latter does not mean that he likes that girl.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If a guy chases a girl because he wants to know everything about him, and then he can't see him, he will miss him. Keep an eye on him all the time. That shows that he likes this girl, and if a boy chases a girl, of course, it may be because he is more attentive, and he just wants to play with this girl and show off to others.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's for sure, a boy chasing a girl must mean that the boy likes this girl very much, if he is an ordinary friend, he can't chase him like this and associate with him like this.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That's right. If you don't like it, you won't chase others, so when you get it, the two of you will be together, and in the long run, it is possible to spend a lifetime together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    must like it, otherwise why would a boy pursue her and date her. Usually if you have a good impression, or think that the girl has a good personality and likes her, there will be further contact, and you will pursue her offensively.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A guy chasing a girl must be because the guy likes the girl. No one will waste their time on someone they don't like, because chasing girls not only takes time, but also invests their feelings and money.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When a guy is dating a girl, it means that he likes the girl, and if he doesn't like it, he won't take the initiative to date her. I have a good impression of this girl to chat with her, and I want to get closer to this girl slowly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't think feelings are always static! Just because a guy chases a girl doesn't necessarily mean he likes the girl! It depends on whether the boy likes you or not, and you have to judge whether he really loves you from whether he usually cares about you and whether he can stand up when you encounter something!

    But it is not ruled out that the boy chases after her because he likes her!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    A boy chases a girl and has a relationship, which means that the boy has a good impression of the girl and wants to get to know each other further, generally speaking, this behavior represents liking the girl.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It doesn't have to be liked, it may just be a lack of people, many men are irresponsible in love, that is, they want to fall in love and don't want to get married, and there are many people with this mentality in life. So, don't say that if you pursue it, you like it, but you must see the real purpose of this man. And not blindly believing.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    This must mean that the boy likes this girl very much, and if the boy doesn't like this girl, it was actually very clear in the previous relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, because I like you, that's why I will pursue you, and dating a girl is because I like her. Most guys will go after the girl they like.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Not necessarily, it depends on whether the boy is good to the girl, whether he is sincere, it is not that the boy chasing the girl means that he likes the girl, and he may not really like it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, falling in love is really a wonderful thing, if you are very in love, you can get unexpected things in this relationship, and feel that you must sum up experience in love, so that you can make both parties more comfortable. As a boy, when you fall in love with a girl, will you take the initiative to pursue her?

    As a boy, I feel that boys must be brave, if you like this girl very much, you have to take the initiative, don't twist and pinch, once you miss this best period, you may miss this girl, so it is recommended that you must be brave to express your thoughts to girls, don't be afraid that girls will reject themselves. And you took the initiative to confess to this girl, in fact, you gave yourself a chance.

    But in real life, some boys are too introverted, so even if they like the girl very much, they may not take the initiative to pursue it, because the boy feels that he will be embarrassed after being rejected. In fact, I think this is understandable, because everyone's personality is different, and some very introverted boys may not really take the initiative to pursue the girls they like, and these boys generally have some problems when socializing, so it is understandable that these boys dare not take the initiative to pursue the girls they like. But I think if you really like this girl, you still have to overcome this difficulty.

    I feel that it is not easy to meet the person you like in a person's life, and in the future you will know how difficult it is to actively pursue a girl, because you will think more about things in the future, and it is still relatively simple when you fall in love now, so at this stage, it is also recommended that you muster up the courage to confess to the girl you like.

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