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Society is actually like this, it is impossible to have no friends in this society, you should change yourself, cultivate more feelings with them, I used to be the same as you, every time I do something, it is always me who suffers, so others have to show their happy side no matter what.

Each stage of life has a different perception. Remember how you feel now, when you meet someone you can know and love, you will feel that your current self is childish and cute.

It is Yao Ruolong, whose works also include "Burial Heart", "Good Man", "Ocean of Men", Zhang Shao's "Gray Space", "Dangerous Thoughts" and "What to Fight". The classic is a confession written for Lu Yi and written for JJ.

Life is your own, so it doesn't matter how you live to others, you just need to live well.

In fact, a person is good, a person, a backpack, a single-lens reflex, a heart that says go, and sees all the scenery.

Well, your mental level may be higher than most people, big brother is inappropriate, for example, you are now a 30+ urban youth who has traveled to a young child of the same generation. Don't ask everyone to meet your requirements, everyone is not the perfect person in your mind, why live in one person's world, one more person coming to your world won't bring more and better life to your life, right?

Nowadays, society is becoming more and more complicated, and I always try to get rid of this complexity and seek a sense of peace, but often I can't do it.

However, the words of a boatman made me suddenly enlightened and taught me the art of Jean.

That time, it was rafting in the Grand Canyon of western Zhejiang. Sitting on a long bamboo raft, looking at the beautiful scenery on both sides of the strait, and facing the cool breeze blowing slowly is very pleasant. The beautiful natural scenery here has not been developed and has remained untouched.

Everything was so silent, and the occasional crisp birdsong made my heartstrings flutter. Our group silently observed everything around us, walked from the bustling city, and stepped into a peaceful pure land.

The water was so clear that I could clearly see the sand and rocks at the bottom, and I couldn't help but put my hand in the water and the fish kissed my finger curiously. Suddenly, the current of the water was rapid, and the rocks protruding from the water increased. I quickly withdrew my hand, a little nervous.

But the boatman was still very relaxed, and the long penny tapped left and right, and walked as smoothly in the turbulent water as if he were walking on flat ground. Seeing me staring at him, he smiled innocently: "Be careful, the water is in a hurry, be careful of falling into the water!"

I smiled at him, but I knew very well in my heart, what danger would there be in his boat? Every time he touched a rock, he was about to hit it, but he suddenly gave way and avoided the danger; Every time we encounter a whirlpool, we are terrified, but we give way, and the whirlpool skillfully passes by.

Uncle, you are really capable, you must know every danger here! How else do you deftly avoid it? I said admiringly to the relaxed boatman.

How do I know, the raft that has lasted for so many years, I only know that it is safe, and the raft can pass smoothly, what do you want to avoid danger? "The boatman was still so calm.

I was stunned, we were all wrong, we all thought about how to get out of the way, but we didn't think about how to find safety. Perhaps, if the boatman is only concerned with getting out of the way of the rocks and whirlpools, how can the many dangers be avoided? It's better to find a path that is not dangerous and walk through it smoothly.

I suddenly understood Jean's technique, the complexity of life has nothing to do with me, I don't have to think about letting go of them all day long, but it is better to pick up a piece of tranquility in my heart, find a peaceful path of life, and go on smoothly. To be a hermit of the soul, why do you have to let go of the complexity of the world?

A person can keep every drop of his own perception, every taste of sour, sweet, bitter and spicy is already very good. At the very least, you have the opportunity to read yourself.

Because you don't see the good side.

I also want to believe that I can't trust boys after breaking up, maybe because I haven't met a very suitable boy yet! Hopefully we can find it together.

If you want to really love someone, I think as a boy should take the initiative The most important thing is to be generous, maybe girls like you, but girls are very introverted, you can't be introverted, you have to make the other person feel that you love her, it doesn't matter if you're older, just adapt slowly.

Women like confident men, slowly experience the feeling of being in love, as long as she likes it, she has to do her best to do it for her, don't think about getting anything in return soon, be a little patient, she will like you. Love is as sweet as honey, and lovesickness will break the bowels! The lives of two people are colorful, go and try it bravely, I wish you success!

1.Expand your circle of friends.

For example, through the Internet, you can get to know each other and develop in reality, attend night classes, participate in social interest activities, public welfare activities, and various parties.

2.Ask your sisters or friends and relatives to help you introduce you.

3.I saw the boy I liked take the initiative to pursue.