How do you get along with someone who can pretend and someone who can slander someone?

That's stronger than anyone's heart, and I personally feel that you must not be polite to this kind of person.

Denigration is a loophole, Guoguozai...

Stay away or be silent,

The main thing is to adjust your mentality. If you feel that gossip doesn't matter anything, as long as you don't do anything bad and are not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door, you will find that it turns out that giving in is also a very good strategy.

Go your own way and let others do it, because you care too much about what others say. I don't care anymore, everything doesn't matter beautiful.

Those who can slander should be careful to cooperate and stay away, and if they can't, there is no need to be serious with such people. Even if you're a master, prioritize them.

If you are a timid person, you can adopt an attitude of ignoring and not thinking about it, and deal with it calmly.

Since ancient times, harmony is precious, patience is the first priority, in fact, it has an inherent beauty.

If you are a person who is left and right, then dealing with these two people is a piece of cake.

Keep a certain distance, the scale must be mastered, in fact, this kind of heart is not bad, vanity is strong, so that others have to look down on him, it is nothing more than nothing.

From the height of my own mentality and cognition, I will not be swayed by these people. You are still yourself, live a wonderful self.

Be yourself and don't be easily changed by others. He who can pretend to be his, and if he sees it, he doesn't bother it. Whoever can slander people, if he slanders you, take revenge in the way you are good at.

For the person who can pretend, you can use his ability to pretend, you know it, you are higher than him, pretend to be more like, he is good to you, you are better to him, maybe the hostility between the two sides disappears and becomes an ally.

1. There is no need to argue with it. Because those who often slander others behind their backs belong to the generation of villains. Arguing with villains makes people feel that you are also a villain, and fighting back and forth will not lead to anything.

Why don't you let him go, his mouth grows on his head, can you seal his mouth? Those who are turbid are self-turbid, and those who are clear are self-purifying. You are innocent, and you will not be turned into obscurity because he slanders you.

The eyes of the masses are clear, and what kind of person you are has your own opinions. Although his slander will cause you temporary damage, it will naturally clear up over time. Therefore, you don't have to worry too much, you don't have to be grieved.

2. Expose those who deface you on the right occasion and at the right opportunity. Of course, the necessary counterattack is okay. If you keep quiet, it's like a fait accompli.

It is necessary to choose the right place and the right opportunity to expose the detractor's three bad methods in public. Only in this way can you keep yourself innocent. The reason why the villain slanders you behind your back is because you are afraid that you will expose him to your face.

As long as you walk right and behave properly, you are not afraid of being slandered by others. Those who slander others will eventually be recognized by everyone.

1. About interests: strong self is the best explanation. For example, those who talk nonsense behind their backs, let them be, don't care, because in fact:

People who talk nonsense put their energy into 'pointing fingers' and attacking others is to give up their own duties, these people are generally 6 months for a cycle, because in this time, you have already risen to a higher level, you just need to do your own things well, and those who have nothing to do, and can not do anything well, will definitely kneel down again and beg you for help, you just need to throw a coin, they will call you boss.

2. Values: It takes time to do the right thing. For example, at that time, I told many students that exaggerating functions, false publicity, such as sea buckthorn products, this is a particularly dangerous thing, not a few people listened, and as a result, this year's crackdown, Guangzhou, Xi'an and other places, even ** sales were allowed to be sentenced to 6 years, qualitatively is'fraud', these people will only understand when they are hit, but anyone who does social e-commerce with me and does self-improvement is getting better and better, so, don't talk more, follow them, let them talk nonsense, time will help you teach this group of people.

In the face of slander, we should first be calm and composed.

1. Don't rush to justify.

If you are attacked and others say something bad, don't explain it urgently, let time prove everything.

2. Don't slump.

It is also a basic workplace skill to have a certain tolerance for some slander from others, because sometimes it is difficult for everyone to live in harmony with each other for their own interests.

3. Don't torture yourself.

Some cheaters always like to punish themselves for the faults of others, and it is very undesirable to do so. We don't need to pay for the malice of others, so don't be unhappy, let alone torture yourself.

4. Don't be submissive.

If the other party is bullying and does not have the courage to attack maliciously, you must recognize the situation quietly, do not let the other party bully, let alone make promises, only appropriate resistance can make the other party relent.

In the face of other people's slander, you can face it like this: first, you can laugh it off and don't care, and secondly, use your ability to prove your innocence and do things carefully.