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After the loss of two children.
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The other party's parents disagreed and had no choice but to break up.
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People generally end their relationship with their other half after experiencing a lot of dead-ending situations, such as the other party did something to disappoint him, and the mistakes he made accumulated over time will slowly become chilling, and he will end the relationship with her.
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Endless temptation, eternal distrust, but teaching others to trust In the end, like a fly, mosquitoes in the ear and mosquitoes and mosquitoes I really don't have to be with you Everyone is happy to be together It's tiring to be together like this Isn't it interesting?
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When you feel that this relationship can no longer bring any good feelings, and all you need to bring is negative energy, and when you are uneasy or depressed every day, you will choose to give up.
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People can become emotionally unstable when they are under too much mental stress, and it is easy to break up with the other person at this time.
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will feel that this person is not worth the way he wants, or that the two of them have nothing in common.
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If you are disappointed and desperate, or because the other party has been doing something wrong and never changed, he just didn't reassure you, and you will break up.
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There will be a lot of situations here, no one can say for sure, it depends on the situation.
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My view is that when a person no longer expects anything from the other person, or when the person has become discouraged, she may choose to break up with the other person.
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is angry to a certain extent, disappointed to a certain extent, and after making up his mind, he will break up with him, and when he doesn't want to be together, he will also break up.
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If it's a serious breakup, it should be a case of extreme anger and extreme disappointment, after all, disappointment is a thing that accumulates day by day. And the word breakup is said to hurt once, don't say it if you can.
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The first is that the two of them have been in a long time, their relationship has faded, and they have been defeated by firewood, rice, oil and salt. The second is that there is a third person between two people, and there is emotional discord. The third is to be influenced by the family and the family environment, and to be defeated by material things.
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Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.
When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.
If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?
In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.
And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.
If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.
His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness.
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When you are in a relationship with someone, you need to have a comprehensive understanding of her personal situation to determine if you are a good fit for each other. However, caring about the other half's past, Xun Qing does not mean that she cares about her past experiences. ......The reason why I say this is because there are three reasons why both parties need to know each other, understand the past of the other half to determine whether they are suitable for each other, and the two parties in a relationship should give each other enough space.
1. Both parties in a relationship need to understand each other. This is the foundation of a romantic relationship.
Love is for the purpose of marriage, and two people are ultimately going to live together. ......Therefore, lovers need to understand each other in order to communicate and communicate better and be close together. This is a very critical premise and foundation for love.
A relationship that lacks mutual understanding cannot last long. If lovers don't understand each other, it's impossible to be together at all. ......Therefore, lovers need to have some understanding of the other half's past in Changzhong.
2. Only by understanding the past of the other half can we determine whether they are suitable for each other.
The key to whether lovers can be together is whether they understand each other. ......Only by understanding the past experience of the other half can you determine whether the other party is really suitable for you, and can you further clarify whether two people can fall in love and be together for a long time. ......From this point of view, lovers should have a fairly deep understanding of each other's past.
This is a key factor in the maintenance and deepening of the relationship between two people.
3. Lovers should leave enough personal space for each other.
Lovers need to get to know each other, but they should leave enough personal space for each other. ......Only in this way can the relationship between each other be more harmonious, so as not to affect the feelings between each other because of personal matters. ......This is crucial for lovers.
There are many lovers who break up because they don't deal with this aspect well. ......Therefore, lovers need to care about each other's past, but they must not mind, let alone be entangled. In that case, it will hurt each other's feelings, and the relationship will not be able to continue......As long as you pay attention to the above points, you can ensure that your love is happy, sweet, romantic and warm.
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Some people mind very much, afraid that the other party's past has not passed, afraid that the ex will cry, and the current will lose, some people don't care, and they don't have to participate in the first half of the other party's life, so they will try to be the rest of their lives.
In fact, if you care too much about the other party's past, or even linger on it, only the Zen world will estranged the current feelings and eat away at each other's trust, and in the end it must be a parting of ways, and it really doesn't make sense to punish the present with the past. The past is in the past, there is no way to erase it, and there is no way to change it, and what we can do is to cherish the present and join hands in the future.
Anyone has a past experience, and if you want to say that you don't mind at all, it's a lie, how to say it, if you really care about the other person, you will still let go of the past. After all, the present and the future are more important. In fact, everyone has some kind of experience, whether it is good or bad, those unforgettable will still leave traces in their hearts after all.
Since two people can be together, they should let go of the past. In the face of the present and the future in the future, those past things have passed, we don't have to deliberately forget those memories, it's good to be plain, it's good to be happy.
What many people mind is not whether the object has been in love before, but whether he has really let go of that relationship and sincerely live the current life.
The things that went before, the days before are an integral part of a person. Perhaps it is precisely because of his experiences that he has created a different person now, which has made him enter our eyes and hearts among thousands of people, entangled in the past, it is meaningless, the important thing is the present. As long as the new and wholehearted investment in the present relationship is enough.
Love is an infinite longing for everyone, and being able to join hands with your first love is of course the result that everyone wants.
But there is also a lot of love, and there is no way to get to the end of He Beilim, and he has to break up for some reasons.
Life has to go on, and the wounds of falling out of love will slowly heal over time, so who doesn't have a few romances in their life, these are all normal.
Who doesn't have the past, but some people don't mind the other half's past, the past is the past, and the most important thing is the present, and some people don't mind the other half of the past very much.
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When you are in love, you need to be honest. But there are some people who are very small-minded, and when they are in love, if they confess their love history to each other, they will make their other half jealous. So whether you should confess your love history to your lover or not, I think it depends on the situation.
1. If the other party's heart is not very big and cares about his past, I feel the need to confess. I think some people have very small hearts, and they feel that their object should follow them wholeheartedly. He wouldn't be able to accept it if he found out that his object had kissed, held hands, hugged, or made more intimate gestures with her ex.
I think that in the face of such a lover, you should tell him the situation in time, otherwise he will not be able to accept it when he knows these situations from other people's mouths in the future. He will feel that you are cheating on him. When you get married, he will be dissatisfied with you, and it will affect your marriage.
I think that in the face of such a person, we should only let him know the truth as soon as possible, continue to be together if he can accept it, and separate as soon as possible if he can't accept it, otherwise I will be hurt by myself after the Pi family.
Second, if the other party doesn't care about his past, I don't think there's any need to confess. Some people have more cheerful personalities and open-mindedness, and they don't care about some of each other's love history. I think it's okay to face such a person without telling him about his love experience.
Because in the future, when he knows these things from others, he can accept them, and now tell him that he can still accept them. Therefore, you must tell him these situations without being in a mess, so as not to add some unnecessary trouble to your feelings. So when you are in love, whether you want to confess your love history to the other party depends on the situation, if the other party cares about your past, then confess, if the other party doesn't care, you don't have to confess, because it doesn't make much sense to confess, just face the current good feelings.
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I don't think two people should mind the other half's past if they're together.
01. Everyone has their own privacy, and there is no need to be honest about this privacy. You must know that everyone has their own privacy, even a very close boyfriend and girlfriend, each will have their own privacy. As a couple, I think what we need to do is respect each other's privacy.
You must know that some things are actually personal memories, and there is no need to explain everything about this kind of thing, which is not only to protect yourself, but also to respect yourself and others. Honesty is indeed a good quality, but it still depends on the nature of the matter, and some things will only bring some negative results after being honest, and in the end it will only produce some unnecessary trouble.
02. The two are actually together to be happy, so they should enjoy the moment. The reason why two people are together is actually to pursue companionship, in order to pursue a better nature, and when two people come together, they should pursue the happiness of the moment, rather than dwell on each other's past. If not, then don't come together, it's just asking for trouble.
03. Everyone will have the past, but there is no way for us to go back to the past to erase the facts that have happened. For everyone, in fact, there will be their own past, some of the past may be sweeter, but some of the past will make people feel sad. But no matter what, there is no way for us to go back to the past again to erase all these facts that have happened, everyone will have their own emotional world, which is also an indelible fact.
Therefore, whether you are facing your own past or someone else's past, you should solve it in a more rational way, rather than taking the other person's past as a burden on your own life. If two people are together, always mentioning some unpleasant past events will not only bring harm to themselves, but also bring unnecessary pain to the other party.
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No, this kind of thing still can't be minded, if you mind, then no matter who you fall in love with, there will be problems, or look forward and don't think about the past.
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If your partner has let go of his past, then you should let go of it and not be attached to the things in the past that cannot be changed. If you keep holding on to it, it will not only be detrimental to your good mood, but also not conducive to continuing to develop your relationship.
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