51 year old mother moves bricks on the construction site, 27 year old son gnaws at home How many par

I read a message before, about a 50-year-old woman on the construction site begged someone to find a job for her son, but every time someone helped find a job, but within a week, her son fired the boss for various reasons and went home to continue playing games.

This mother moves bricks at the construction site every day to make a living, while the young and strong son can't stand the hardship, and plays games at home every day, and uses his mother's hard-earned money to buy equipment.

The mother works hard, but she is reluctant to buy a nutritious lunch, and the son buys equipment and throws hundreds of thousands.

After the workers learned about her situation, they persuaded her to cut off the support of her son, who had hands and feet, and was strong and strong, so he should come out to work, but she said that her son had never suffered since he was a child, and he couldn't work, and she couldn't bear it, so she couldn't bear it.

At first, everyone watched a woman move bricks very hard and sympathetic, but after a long time, everyone stopped talking, because people agreed that she deserved it.

I was angry when I saw this news, and I felt that this man was still gnawing at the old age when he was so old, and he didn't feel that his mother was working hard at all, but he used his mother's hard-earned money to buy game equipment, which was simply not human, but after thinking about it carefully, he looked back at his mother's attitude, who is to blame for such a result? A child who was not raised by his mother was so old that he said that he was reluctant to endure hardships and did not stop his child's wanton behavior.

Many children eventually grow into white-eyed wolves, and their parents tear their faces with their children in their old age, crying and grabbing the ground, but if you think about your parents' educational experience carefully, you will know that there is no bad for no reason in this world, all cause and effect are orderly, there are causes and effects before and after, and there are certain numbers.

1. It is not advisable to spoil children.

Parents themselves are reluctant to eat and drink, but they are lavish with their children, but whenever the child makes a request, it is to "smash the pot and sell iron" to meet the child's requirements. I'm afraid that my children will suffer a little.

2. Take care of everything.

From birth to growing up, parents never let go, help their children take care of everything, always feel that the child is still too young, can't do anything well, and are afraid that the child will not do well but bring trouble, so it is better to help with everything.

Take eating as an example, many parents will worry that their children will stain their clothes, dirty the ground, and clean up, which is too troublesome, so they simply do everything and keep feeding the children so that they will not eat by themselves when they go to kindergarten.

This is just one of them, and if this aspect is taken care of, the others must be taken care of as well. Children who grow up in this way lack independence, cannot do many things independently, and when they grow up, they will rely on their parents and become veritable "gnawing old people".

All the gnawing old people are actually used to their parents.

For children, parents can't spoil what they have to do at what age, but they harm their children and make them miss the opportunity to be independent when they should be independent. From the age of 2 to 6 years after the birth of a child is the best age to help children shape their character and establish rules, but many parents miss a good opportunity to discipline their children because their children are reluctant, and it is really too late to discipline their children when they grow up.

This phenomenon is still relatively common, parents do not know how to educate, blindly indulge and spoil their children.

I don't think parents should spoil their children, no matter what, let them work on their own and earn money to support themselves, because they will always have to live alone in the future.

I think it's a really bad situation, 27 years old is in the prime of life, you should try to go out and work.

Personally, I think that it is true that Chinese parents are too willing to pay for their children, resulting in their children not having the ability to do it at all, and I think it is better for parents to let go now.