Do you think your friends are good enough?

It's very good, my friends around me, there are two direct research institutes, one was admitted to a particularly good school, and one went abroad directly after graduation, seeing them so good, I have to work hard.

I think it's pretty good, but I don't know if it's good enough.

A good friend of mine has never asked his family for living expenses in college, but in addition to this, he has good grades, and he can do business and understand human accidents. I just feel that he is very good, and I think his future will not be bad.

I feel that they are good enough, and some of my friends have gone abroad for further study, and some have gone abroad to work, and I feel that they all have their own pursuits and are very good.

Very good friend, when I was in high school, she told me that she was going to be admitted to Tsinghua University, and there was only one year left, and I felt very hopeful, because she was not the kind of person who loved to learn, and I didn't know that she was really good until the day I received the university notice.

My friend is good enough to overshadow all my aura, because being close to her will give me the confidence to work together.

My friend, quite awesome, at first the teacher praised her paintings, and later her paintings sold for tens of thousands.

Excellent, half of my braggadocio has her, jealousy will start first, but I just really hope she's good.

A good friend from college, the one who always pushes me to study when we take exams and classes together, she is very good.

My friend thinks she is excellent because she has her own opinions, has a great influence on me, and lets herself know where she stands.

The two friends around me are both people with superior emotional intelligence, and more importantly, they are both more beautiful than me.

Excellent makes me jealous, but this jealousy will also be my motivation to move forward, and together with her, it is also an encouragement.

A male friend of mine, who is a super fine artist and extremely talented, exhibited his works in various exhibitions at the age of 20, and was invited to study in the United States.

The idea of kissing is incorrect. There is no direct connection between the excellent Li Sue Lead and his friends. Whether a person has friends or not depends mainly on factors such as his social skills, personality, interests, etc., rather than his achievements or abilities.

In fact, many excellent people know how to build and maintain good interpersonal relationships, and maintain good communication and trust with others. Their interactions with their friends may also give them more inspiration, support, and encouragement to make the most of their talents. Therefore, whether a person has friends or not is not related to whether he is good or not.

Anyway, these excellent people give outsiders the feeling that they have very few friends around them, and they have no friends.

So why is this happening? It stands to reason that excellent people should have a lot of friends around them, right? Why is it that in reality, the better the person, the fewer friends around?

Is it because of these excellent people, when they become excellent, because the whole person becomes arrogant, so they have fewer friends?

Actually, no, I think these excellent people have fewer friends around them, which is nothing more than the following 3 reasons.

In fact, for those excellent people, most of the time, they are either busy with their careers and busy working, or when they are not working, in their free time, they are quietly reading and studying.

Usually in the eyes of those excellent people, in this world, there is nothing more important than doing your own career and reading books to learn to improve yourself, compared to these, making friends is a very secondary thing.

In their opinion, instead of wasting time making friends who don't know whether they are reliable or not, it is better to work their own careers and read books to learn to improve themselves.

This is the first reason why I think that those who are good people have fewer friends around them.

When a person becomes more and more excellent, the person's ideological realm will also be improved, and slowly the person will find that the ideological realm of the people around him seems to be incompatible with himself.

At this time, it seems that there is no topic to talk about with the people around you, and I don't know what to talk about.

At this time, excellent people tend to look for people who are in the same ideological realm as themselves to communicate, so naturally, they will ignore the friends around them, and the relationship will become more and more distant from those friends who have different ideological realms around them.

This is the second reason why I think that those good people have fewer friends around them.

For those who are good, being alone tends to become a norm in their lives, and they will enjoy the joy that being alone brings to them.

In the eyes of excellent people, being alone is more helpful and beneficial to oneself than being busy all day.

Usually when a person is alone, he can make himself enter deep thinking, and if there are some problems that cannot be figured out, some problems that are difficult to solve, we can often find answers and solutions when we think deeply.

And deep thinking can only be started when you are alone, only when you are quiet.

It is precisely because these excellent people have tasted the benefits of being alone that these people would rather be alone than spend too much time making friends and taking care of relationships with old friends.

Then this is the third reason why excellent people have fewer friends around them.

Generally speaking, excellent people have fewer friends around them, which is nothing more than no time to make friends, no topic to talk to friends, and used to being alone, do you think these are the reasons? Or is it something else?