When do you feel disappointed in yourself?

When I can't do anything about a problem or an accident, I feel very disappointed in myself, I feel like I'm worthless, and I hate myself for not being able to break the situation and play my role.

When I feel sad and want to talk to someone, but I find that I can't find it, I feel as if I am remembered by others and not valued by others, so I feel lost.

I set a goal and vowed to do it, but I still didn't do it, and I suddenly felt very useless and disappointed.

My mother saw that I liked dancing and enrolled me in a dance class, but I worked hard for a long time but I still couldn't learn very well, and the teacher didn't teach me anymore, I was too stupid, which made my mother embarrassed.

There was not a single college student in the village, and they all pinned their hopes on me, but I was not admitted to the university, and I was too disappointed in myself to live up.

The anticipation of the whole village.

Just now, I was disappointed in myself. Turning off the computer, I played Dota for another day and found that I hadn't done anything at hand.

When my grandfather died, I couldn't go to see him for the last time, and the feeling of powerlessness was accompanied by disappointment in myself.

I also know what I want, but I can't do it, I always get distracted, I wasn't like that before. Some time ago, it was suddenly like this, and it lasted for more than half a year. Really hate myself.

Now the meaning of life is to love oneself, and I am really tired of myself. I hate the feeling that no matter how many times I talk to myself, I can't make it happen. I hate such a decadent self.

Sometimes it's really out of breath.

Poor self-control, no achievements and no goals, and I don't know what to study in college.

The first time I felt like I wasn't doing anything to someone I liked. I love her, but only I know that I want to go with her for the rest of my life, but I am helpless by my own cowardice.

I probably couldn't find the direction, and I was very disappointed in myself the moment the college entrance examination results came out.

After graduating from university, I couldn't find a job at home, so I kept playing on the computer and slept late and waking up late, and my parents were disappointed in me, and I was disappointed in myself.

Yes I wished I was a great person when I was a kid. Very famous person, when I grew up, I lived an ordinary life. even lived a life like chicken feathers, and was quite disappointed in himself.

The life I longed for as a child felt farther and farther away from me. In fact, my goal is not high, that is, I can live happily, have my own house, and have someone who loves me. Have a stable job.

It seems that all of these are there, and it seems that there are none. I just feel very tiredOnly yourself, the way is also very simple, injured, slowly healed, and then injured again.

In life, we will encounter all kinds of difficulties: we fail to interview for the job we want; Confess to the girl you like, but be rejected ......Life is not easy, and hitting one blow after another can really make people feel very disappointed in life.

Three ways to help you re-examine the frustrations and disappointments in your life.

1. Don't deny it for a lifetime just because of one time.

If you make a completely negative decision because of one thing, it must be too impulsive. But too many people in our lives will say, "If I don't get it this time, then I might lose it forever."

If it was just because of the past failures, Annihilation felt that there was no need to work hard, and it was just to punish himself for his past failures.

2. Don't dwell on the past and blame yourself excessively.

Letting the mood of disappointment, "punishing" oneself excessively, is another common way. Chinese have a habit of always looking for reasons from themselves when they encounter setbacks.

If I failed this interview, it must be that I am not good enough, and I am not worthy of this good position. ”

3. Recognize failure, and come back if you fail

Every failure not only brings us emotional pain, but also provides us with new opportunities. Many people succeed because they persist longer, keep learning and improving, and finally succeed.

In short, cherish every moment of life, be kind to everyone around you, and strive to improve yourself in order to have a meaningful life and not regret it when you were a child.

Real life is an insurmountable wall, facing oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, every day when I open my eyes, I feel that I owe a lot of money, I can't pay the rent, I can't get rid of the sophistication of human feelings, the oppression of reality, the total disappointment is too much, the parents' health is not good, the children should buy things to go to school, the family's property fees, parking fees should be paid, and the car loan is about to expire. Life has become a heavy burden on our shoulders, we dare not let go, we dare not give up easily, no matter how heavy it is, we have to grit our teeth and desperately persevere; No matter how bitter Zen Wei is, he has to swallow the bitter water in his stomach. Sometimes the more I think about it, the more disappointed I become, the disappointment in reality, and the disappointment in my own celery!

Yes, real life is an insurmountable wall, facing oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, every day when I open my eyes, I feel that I owe a lot of money, I can't pay the rent, I can't get rid of the sophistication of human feelings, the oppression of reality, there are always too many disappointed, the parents' health is not good, the children should buy things to go to school, the family's property fees, parking fees should be paid to the state, and the car's loan is about to expire. Life has become a heavy burden on our shoulders, we dare not let go, we dare not give up easily, no matter how heavy it is, we have to grit our teeth and desperately persevere; No matter how bitter it is, you have to swallow the bitter water in your stomach. Sometimes the more I think about it, the more disappointed I become, the more disappointed I am in reality, and I am disappointed in myself!

I was disappointed in myself.