How are you doing when you returned to your hometown after graduation?

It's very helpless.,I used to stay in a quasi-first-tier city to study.,And then I returned to a third-tier city (really.。 Third line), it feels really different, especially the concept of the people around me, and then life is all kinds of boring, and I have lost the motivation to study and study, and I have to be ridiculed.

Alas, the bad batch, can't find a suitable job, after leaving the job to change several companies, tomorrow I have to go to the interview, I hope that after this year, everything will be full of good.

Generally speaking, Nanjing is already quite good, my home Changzhou third line, studying in Nanjing, going to Beijing for internship and then returning to Nanjing and settling, of course, it is definitely worse than Beijing, mainly reflected in employment, the quality and salary gap of some high-tech jobs is quite large.

It's very comfortable, personal pursuit, I like a comfortable life, I don't feel impetuous at home, I especially feel that this is the real life, and now I'm ready to take the civil service exam in a down-to-earth manner, nothing.

It's good, the work pressure here in my hometown is not so great, and it's close to home, you can go back at any time if you want to, it's good.

Confused, when I got home, I found that it was not what I wanted, but I couldn't escape from this system, and the whole person was very sad but didn't want to compromise.

Happy, changed jobs, and was promoted two levels in the first two days, and is expected to meet the standard of pedestrian street this year. I was chased by an international student at work, and the boss appreciated me very much and asked me to strive to become a junior partner at the end of the year.

It hasn't changed much, I worked for three months in the office for 2,000 yuan a month to watch movies, and then I decided to jump ship to sell, earning 8,000 last month, and my goal this month is to earn 15,000.

First of all, my answer is that I don't want to go back to my hometown after graduation, at least not for now.

My hometown is relatively backward in terms of economy and transportation, and there are fewer employment opportunities in rural areas compared to urban areas. There are no factories in the countryside, only a few small shops, and the wages for working in these small shops are very small, or even not at all, because most of them are mom-and-pop shops. Young people's lives are simply not guaranteed.

Figure I Rural areas.

Every year when I graduate and look for a job, I vacillate on the question of whether to choose a big city or return to a small county, and I don't know how to choose. Some people want to stay in big cities, believing that big cities have more opportunities and possibilities; There are also some people who think that the competition in big cities is too fierce, and it is more comfortable to live in a small county town in comparison. Personally, I prefer the big cities for the following reasons:

One is hard work; The second is opportunity, both of which are indispensable. Large cities, dense population, rapid economic development, a large number of talents, a variety of high-tech enterprises, jobs continue to emerge, can bring us more choices and opportunities. If we can grasp any of these opportunities, then the entire trajectory of our lives could be changed.

Figure 2 Selection.

2. Big cities are childhood dreams

There are dreams that I had when I was young, and if I don't realize them, I won't have a chance. I would like to ask you shallowly, who never imagined that one day he could stand on the Oriental Pearl and overlook the whole of Shanghai when he was young; Who never fantasized about being able to have his own courtyard house in Beijing when he was a child; Who did not fantasize about having their own place in Shenzhen and Guangzhou, the most developed places in science and technology and economy when they were children. The big city is a childhood dream, but it shouldn't just be a dream.

At least each of us should reach out and try to touch it once, even once.

Figure 3 The big city you aspire to.

Maybe when I stay out for a long time, I may be very willing to go back to my hometown, which is very small and the price of goods should not be high compared to the big cities. Life is relatively stressful. In your hometown, your relatives and friends are here, and in this era when the human touch is getting weaker, there won't be much loneliness.

Personally, I would like to return to my hometown.

First of all, I myself am a person with a strong local complex, so I chose to take the civil service examination in the choice of postgraduate examination and public examination, because there are still some posts in my hometown, which can be closer to my family, there are more elderly people in my family, and my grandparents and grandparents are alive, but after all, I am old, and it is inevitable that there will be some minor illnesses and pains, especially my grandfather and grandfather's body have suffered from relatively large diseases, and now they are basically relying on medicine to maintain physical fitness, although I am a junior in the family, But if there is something at home, I can get home a little earlier, this is a little selfishness of mine.

The second is that my personality is relatively quiet, and I prefer a stable job and life compared to the big city where you chase me and pursue the top of the pyramid. Although the salary may not be as good as that of white-collar workers in large companies, it is enough to solve the problem of food and clothing.

In addition, my hometown is still a small county town on the 18th line, and some infrastructure is not perfect, and when I went back to my hometown this year, some people still lived in tiled houses, and there were very few areas with street lights. There are also more farmers in their hometowns, many people still have fields at home, but their planting technology and planting concepts are relatively backward, like to follow the trend, which sells more money to plant which, which leads to the final oversupply situation, they work hard to grow agricultural products may eventually be rotten in the ground because they can't sell them, which causes food waste and they put in production but can not get the corresponding returns, farmers' enthusiasm for production will be hit. My grandmother is an old farmer, and her planting materials basically depend on which variety of agricultural products outside are sold high, and she will plant which, but in the end, she is losing money at 80 percent, because she may not be able to sell if the price is not reduced.

My heart is to take the civil service examination in my hometown, become one of the thousands of people who lead the people to a better life, guide farmers to develop in a better direction, maximize the benefits of the fields, improve the infrastructure of my hometown, so that everyone can live a better life, so that more people can enjoy the dividends brought by China's rapid development in recent years, and more people can contribute to the future development of their hometown.

Unwilling. There is a big difference between your hometown and your city, if you have the ability and ability to establish yourself in the local city after graduation. Nature is the best and what most graduates aspire to.

But how can it be so easy, like Beijing, Shanghai and other first-tier cities. Life is too fast-paced and stressful. It is very difficult to survive in such a place.

Rent is very expensive. If you don't have a good job, you can't survive at all.

Want to survive in a first-tier city. Your abilities, your academic qualifications are everything to you. Compared with the lazy and casual life in his hometown, it is obvious. Cities will be much meaner.

How wonderful it is to live in the city! I can't feel that feeling at all in my hometown. There are many beautiful women and handsome guys. There are also many job opportunities. There's no reason not to stay there compared to home.

So when you graduate from university, try to find a good job in the local area or in another big city. If you have the ability, you can give it a try. Such a job treatment and salary are completely absent in my hometown.

Once you've found a suitable job here, live here. Occasionally, when I miss my parents, I go back to see my hometown.

You have to prioritize your life, and only you can make the decisions in your life. When you encounter a good job opportunity, you must firmly grasp it, even if it is a little harder or more difficult. As long as you grasp it, it is the wealth of life.

All in all, hometown is good as hometown. The city has the good of the city. It depends on how you choose, mainly depending on your own situation. However, the idea of ordinary people is definitely that they do not want to go back, and everyone has their own desires and ambitions.

All want to live a good life. If you were born in a rural area, follow the logical thinking of normal people when you succeed in your studies and graduate. It's impossible to be willing to stay in your hometown, even if it's a small county nearby.

People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. If you can stay in the city, try to stay in the city. Yes, that's the reality of society.

The dreams we pursue depend on our pattern. Dreams require us to go out and explore in the city. to fulfill and fulfill our dreams so that we can have a greater sense of accomplishment.

Hometown can be returned, but it is not a long-term place for our college graduates.

After graduation, I will choose to return to my hometown to work, especially the girl stays outside for too long, and the parents are not at ease, so under the urging again and again, I still choose to return to my hometown, which may not be very suitable at the beginning, but after a period of time, I found that the family is still very good. <>

First, I will choose to return to my hometown

Many people will stay in the city where they went to school at that time after graduation, or develop in the big city, boys and girls pursue different things, so the choice is not the same after graduation, after graduation is also to stay in Zhengzhou, work in Zhengzhou for three years, but after experiencing various events, or choose to return to their hometown, in Zhengzhou during that time parents are also worried, themselves are also worried. After returning to my hometown, I found that I didn't have so much pressure in a small city, and my life was still very comfortable. <>

Second, girls pursue fewer things

Because I'm a girl, I don't have such a high pursuit, and I feel that as long as I can support myself with my salary and save some money, it's already okay. A stable job is also indispensable, although you can't make so much money in a small city, but the job is still relatively stable, there are a lot of holidays, the boss is very good, and you are very comfortable and happy to live in such an environment, and sometimes you even wonder why you didn't return to your hometown for the first time after graduation. <>

Third, the girl is always outside and does not feel very safe

Parents always feel that girls are not safe outside, and they are afraid that their daughters will marry outside and have more requirements for girls. But it's different for boys, many boys will not choose to return to their hometown directly after graduation, but to break through, struggle and start a successful business may be okay, even if they fail, they can find a more stable job, and the salary they get a month is definitely more than in a small county, and parents think that their children have the ability.

I will choose to go back to my hometown to work, because after returning to my hometown, I can choose to take the national or provincial examination, and the probability of being able to find employment in my hometown is relatively more, and my relatives and friends are around, and my happiness in the future life will be very high.

After graduation, I will choose to go back to the countryside to work, because I feel that after graduation, I will be very happy to work in my hometown, and I can also build my hometown.

I would definitely choose to go back to my hometown to work because there is no lot of pressure and I feel very relaxed in my life. Anxiety and comparisons may occur.

No, because there is no good development space in my hometown, and there is no way to provide corresponding jobs, I can only choose to go to some big cities for development.

After graduation, many people are reluctant to return to their hometown to work, because some people feel that they are also a college student, and when they return to their hometown to work, they will definitely be gossiped about by others, and everyone may feel that there are fewer opportunities to return to their hometown to work and develop. If you go back to your hometown, you'll only be able to do some dead-paying jobs. In fact, I think that if you really want to go back to your hometown to work, but you are afraid that others will say what you say, there is no need for this, because now many college students return to their hometowns and bring goods through live broadcasts or through some ways to promote the development of their hometowns, if this is the case, we have indeed made a great contribution to our hometown.

First of all, many graduates, within three or four years of college, are already fully familiar with life in the big city. If these graduates are allowed to return to their hometowns to live and work, they will feel very unaccustomed to it, and there will always be some elders who will urge them to get married, which will also make everyone feel very uncomfortable. The second is the salary in the hometown, which is generally very low, and the development prospects of the hometown are not particularly good.

I don't think that's the case, we can clearly find that some people have driven the overall economy of their hometown after returning to their hometown for development, and they have also made a lot of money. We can send the local products of our hometown to the Internet, attract the attention of netizens, and then take the goods, so that the development of our hometown can be better and better.

I think that as long as everyone has a certain dream in their hearts, whether it is working in **? They are all able to get ahead, we must do one thing with our hearts, and we must insist on doing one thing.