The behavior of an unreasonable, selfish and sloppy man in married life?

A selfish person, he cares about himself, if you are a househusband, then he will feel that he is working hard to earn money to support you, he will not consider what you give, he will only think that she is spending money to support you, and you have nothing to do at home. Sloppy men are actually even more terrifying, because if you meet a wife who is obsessed with cleanliness, then it is really a catastrophe ...... centurySmelly socks littered, and I didn't even flush the toilet properly when I went to ...... toiletIt won't be cleaned up after eating, and it will still be left there, even if it is moldy, it will not be cleaned up, and it is really terrifying to think about it......Unreasonable men are also terrible ......How can a self-centered person care about others? How could he take care of others?

We married this man in the hope that we could take care of each other, not be a free babysitter ......

Such a man must be in real life, she is very few friends, and there is no one who can talk to her. So it's very normal for him to be able to live in his own inner world. This kind of person must not associate with him, if the relationship lasts for a long time, it will always be you who is hurt.

The girl was very unreasonable and selfish. I don't love my man at all. They all want to cover the sky with one hand. A little man's. The status is not given to him either. Better than your own man is not as good as your own pet dog.

It is certainly not good for a man who is unreasonable, selfish and sloppy to be in married life, and I don't like that.

If a man is more sloppy, then it means that he is lazy, and in a way, you see that this man is more frugal, then it can only mean that he is more picky, the real thrift is the kind of very diligent, able to take care of himself in all aspects, look clean and do not need to spend too much money, so if you ask whether you should get along with him, the suggestion is to think more, observe more, and see if it is as the situation mentioned above If he is really more picky and lazy, Then you will suffer very much with him.

You use the word sloppy to describe him, which shows that you don't like him too much. Thrift is not a reason to be sloppy, and if you can't do even the most basic appearance and hygiene, don't associate with him.

I think it's better not to have a relationship. Many men don't take their sloppiness seriously, if you are with him, there will be endless housework and dirty clothes waiting for you, because first, he is likely to not clean up so he wants to find someone who can do housework, and the second is that he thinks that boys are sloppy is understandable, because doing housework is a woman's business, not his responsibility. If you stay with him in the future, not only will he not do anything for you, but he will let you do it, maybe he will find fault with you, and then continue to make garbage by himself.

Let's talk about thrift, this quality does not mean that he is not willing to spend money is thrifty, I now think that thrift is not to throw away good things, not to eat extravagantly and wastefully, and not to spend money on things that have no practical significance, for example, many boys do not make much money, but most of the money is used to charge money to play games, this is not thrifty.

But as a person who meets for the first time or has met a few times and may develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend, you must go to a better place to eat when you go out to eat, and it doesn't matter if you eat some cheap snacks or cook your own food after establishing a relationship, but the opposite sex of the person who has met a few times should ensure the basic quality of the meal, if it is really a regular store, such as eating rice noodles and the like, it is okay, but if it is just cheap, it is not thrifty or slamming. With such a man, he will save up his money and be reluctant to give you flowers, and it is usually impossible to take you to eat a Western meal and buy a bouquet of flowers on your birthday or Valentine's Day.

Speaking and doing things looks very high-quality does not mean that this person can really give you happiness, it may just be the reason for the occupation and the environment when he is studying, if his overall condition is really so good, even if it is a single man's house, it should be clean, and he will be willing to take you to eat something good, and he can introduce you to such a person, you should have a good chat with the introducer.

If a man is sloppy and frugal, should I get along with him? Little sister, if this man is sloppy and frugal, you must not get along with him. Sloppy means dirty, thrifty to put it bluntly, it is buckle, one is that he has no ability to take care of himself, and the other is that he does not have good interpersonal skills, do you want to be with him?

I advise you, a boy who can really see sloppy on the outside, you can't imagine how sloppy he is behind his back, you can't even think about it. I have a roommate, usually don't wash clothes, in the Northeast dialect is a thief buried, clothes are not washed and worn, close to the body smell, I live with him I feel uncomfortable, not to mention socks, girls smell may not be able to eat for 2 days, I often tell the boy, tidy up and find a partner! Shall we be clean and clean for the New Year?

It's useless, I also said that I will do it in the future, my big brother may be stupid, how can you have a girlfriend like a bear? You must not be the one who rescues the fool, unless you are even more stupid, a sloppy boy who can't even give the most basic appearance to others, what reason is there to get along?

The other is thrift, thrift doesn't matter, but you must be like a man, if you don't distinguish what the occasion, just blindly thrifty, that's not called thrift, that's slamming the door, you should be able to distinguish what is called thrift and thrift, don't be confused. When you two get married in the future, and you want to buy a bag for more than 200 yuan, you will feel that you have made a big mistake, and he thinks that you are a loser! Why do you think people can't get along with themselves?

There are thousands of good men in the world, why choose sloppy and thrifty people? Little sister, you want to open something!

I should not be able to accept being with a sloppy and frugal man. Because even if he is particularly capable, it will make me very repulsed.

The first is sloppy. Because I'm a cleanliness person, I can't accept a sloppy man just from my heart. You think, what a painful thing it must be to face a dirty man every day!

Because if we are together in the future, the state of life will become that I clean and he will be responsible for messing up the hygiene. And it's okay to just have an untidy house, because many men are bigger and lazy. But if I don't pay attention to personal hygiene, I feel too disgusted.

Even if such a person is very capable of doing things, after getting along for a long time, people will find out that you are such a sloppy person, and they will probably be disgusted in their hearts.

It's even harder for me to accept frugality. Because I often hear that girls should be frugal and pick the door. Because if a boy is so frugal, how can he get mixed in this society.

Because socialization between men is nothing more than wine and meat. If you are so economical in this regard, how can you continue to develop in society? And what's more, if you're so frugal even with girls, it's a typical type who doesn't want to please a wife.

In the end, the first girl married was not to be a nanny for you to clean up, and the second was not to marry to help you save money just to pass on the lineage. So for this kind of man and girl, don't try to be together. Because in the end, it will only delay your youth.

Even if he's very capable? If you keep being so sloppy and so frugal, you will be eliminated by society. So girls don't joke about their future.

Sloppy and frugal, you mean ugly and stingy.

My boyfriend is the same, lazy, he has to call him a thousand times to do a laundry; Gluttony, I want to eat a small snack every day, like a child; Fat, really a fat man, I even set the caller on my mobile phone to be fat, and the annoying thing is that he is not ashamed but proud. But it's such a boyfriend, and I'm married to him. I like him not because he is lazy and fat, but because he is humorous, tolerant to me, cares about my feelings and thoughts, gives me a sense of security, and treats me as a baby, although his baby is fat and stupid, he never dislikes it.

So girl, you see, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and if you like someone, it must be because of his strengths, not because of his shortcomings. Sloppy and thrifty are his shortcomings, but he may have other advantages, such as more money, such as high education, such as kindness, handsomeness, and humor, these should be the points you like about him, and these talents are the motivation for you to get along with him all the time: like his advantages and be able to tolerate his shortcomings.

In fact, you should not get along with each other, before you ask a question, you already have the answer in your heart. It's just that you want more people to support your point of view. When you like someone, you will be especially determined to go on with him, and others can't gossip a word, this is the blind nature of love.

But when you don't like him, you will unconsciously collect his shortcomings, and then stand on the moral high ground, waving the banner of criticism, expecting more people to follow you, cheer you up, and reduce your guilt.

A person who used to love and like so much, a person who once only found advantages in him, now, only sloppy and thrifty remains, girl, in fact, you don't want to go down with him, because, the person I love, if I talk about his shortcomings, I have to say a hundred of his advantages.

I don't have a good impression of sloppy men, but if he is still stingy at this time, I feel more and more that I don't need to get along with him, okay? I don't even want to know each other.

Can you bear a man who always whispers in your ear when you buy something is too expensive, let's buy something cheaper, or spend a little money and talk about it all day long, or you are reluctant to buy anything, and you will be careful when you buy a little something. If you say that you can tolerate this, to be honest, if this is the case, I admire you a lot, because if it were me, I would definitely not be able to bear it.

If a man is sloppy, but at the same time thrifty, does such a man have a small family, and then at the same time he is careful at the same time, is he sloppy in order to save money, such a question is not known, it can only be said that this man who is a teacher is not very good, the most important thing to pay attention to when living alone is whether the man's bedroom is very clean, because I think such a man's living habits are very bad, and he is unwilling to clean his room. In this way, you don't pay attention to your inner cultivation, even if you live alone, don't you feel very bad when you see that kind of environment? So I think this teacher is just a superficial appearance, and he doesn't have any special abilities. A man needs to be generous more than frugal.

It is said that when a man is in a relationship with a woman, many problems at the beginning are not revealing his true face, but then he likes to make some actions that make him more disgusted, and the first impression is so unpopular, so what else can the man do in the back? In addition to being sloppy, there is also frugality, and thrift here is all about quotes, because this man may be stingy, and I don't think it's suitable to continue dating.

A man is sloppy and frugal, of course don't get along with him, what about after getting along with him? Follow him and clean him up? If you have greeted him before going to his house, let alone get along, you don't even want to do it on the surface, are you lazy or unwilling or wait for you to clean up?

What's more, when you go on a blind date, you don't know how to choose a place with a beautiful environment, and you can get married after getting along.

A man's image outside is very important, he is a teacher, and he also knows how to be a teacher, teach knowledge, teach to be a man, and I probably know it in my heart, our high school political teacher, usually looks sloppy at school, and occasionally talks to us about himself when he is studying on his own, he is also at the age when he should get married, and the family is also urging, so he listened to the words of the family and went on a blind date a few times, and the people who went on a blind date with him thought he was not good, although he was a high school teacher, the family had a car and a house, and the conditions were not bad, but he was really sloppy, After a few times, he changed his image, and it was very simple to get it clean, and the blind date was successful, and now the family of three is very harmonious.

Also, people are good at pretending in front of others, and the sloppy, thrifty, and high-quality he shows you may just be the image of him that he wants you to see. Also, if it's a blind date, the family should know, when my uncle goes on a blind date, my aunt will tell him not to let the girl pay, find a good place, the environment looks good, talk about it, it doesn't matter. If a man who is on a blind date with me shows me this kind of look, I would rather miss it than get along, I decided to go on a blind date, and if I get along right, I naturally want to get married, a person who is sloppy and thrifty on a blind date, no matter how high the quality is, I don't think it matches, such a contradictory character, I don't dating.