My husband s hygiene habits are not very good, and he always quarrels because of this, what should I

Communicate with your husband calmly, patiently help him get rid of these bad habits, and let him establish good hygiene habits, you can take him to clean the room together, and induce him to be attentive to his personal hygiene, wash his hands and brush his teeth frequently, take a bath, strictly control his emotions, and do not intensify the conflict between the two parties.

To understand your husband's thoughts, sometimes don't force your husband, but also learn to understand each other and learn to tolerate each other.

Be sure to strengthen communication, let your husband understand your thoughts, don't be too impulsive when you encounter problems, and don't make the other party always angry.

You slowly change his bad habits, don't blame him, it will improve over time.

From today onwards, you don't want to clean, clean up by yourself, your range of activities can be cleaned up casually, you can make do with water in the bathroom, and if you feel that the bathroom floor is not clean, you can use the shower head to flush it casually.

Hold on for a while, and when the house is dirty and you can't look at it, you can go to a friend's house to live.

Cold**. In the meantime, you don't want to be angry with him, anyway, you can make a mess like him, don't quarrel, if he says "aren't you like this", you tell him that you know you're wrong, so let's just do the same.

First of all, I don't quite understand how you guys got married before you didn't find out. This is actually not a health problem on the surface, this is also a three-view problem, and you don't need to say that you understand what will happen to the marriage of the three-view problem, right?

If you feel that he still has a shining point that you like, it is better to treat this matter as something you have to endure and pretend to be in your stomach and give up taming him from now on.

If you can't take it anymore, then ...

People's endurance is really not very good, very humiliating.

This is a long-term habit that has been formed for a long time, and there is no good way to change it. To be honest, this habit is not directly related to living in the countryside or the city, that is, some people have developed a habit of not caring for hygiene for a long time.

I am also a child in the countryside, and no matter how dirty I am, I can't be as dirty as your husband's family. Love clean is to be educated from a young age, alas, you should marry the people of this family. If you can't change them, don't live with them, or your heart will be tired.

When you accepted him, you were able to tolerate these habits of him, how could you tolerate them before? Now that he can't tolerate it, he will create troubles for himself, and slowly affect him, hoping that the car of family harmony can move forward on the same track. Thank you and hope you can adopt.

Separated from his parents and forced him to take more baths. You can just wash your clothes when you change your clothes.

Communicate with him well, a man should be magnificent.

It doesn't matter if he has money or not.

That's really annoying.

Habits are hard to change, so just put up with them. Otherwise, you won't be able to get by.

Do you live with your parents?

It is really a headache to have a husband who does not pay attention to hygiene at home, every time I have to take care of the children all day long, and I have to do laundry, cooking and hygiene, although it seems to be some ordinary things, but it seems simple, and I am tired all day long, if I complain in front of my husband about how tired and fortunate it is to do housework, in the eyes of men, I will not think that it is hard, because in their eyes, it is the easiest to do housework, and it is not hard work, and it is not exposed to the wind and sun, how tired can it be to do housework?

Only with children every day, housework people can experience that feeling, at the end of the day can really be tired to prostration, but every time my husband comes home, not only do not help me do housework and take care of the children, I also have to do his laundry and cooking, every day I take care of the baby is already busy.

But my husband doesn't pay attention to hygiene at all, he was a little better when he first started to play in love, occasionally wash his clothes, do some hygiene, and cook for me when he is in a good mood, but after getting married, he feels that he is not only too lazy, but also does not like to be clean, he likes to smoke, every time he sits there for an hour or two and a half a pack of cigarettes is gone, the ashtray is full of cigarette butts, he will not wash it, and the ground that has just been cleaned is full of cigarette ash scattered by him, saying that he does not stop, and he really has the urge to beat him every minute!

Every time I take a shower, I always throw away my clothes, and I have to look for his clothes everywhere every day to wash my clothes, and there are trash cans at home but he throws garbage everywhere, looking at him can let me be in place at any time.

A few times I couldn't stand his sloppiness and quarreled with him, but he didn't mean to change, so I discussed with him and let him try to do a day of hygiene, one day I had something to go out for a day, throw the baby to him, and less than half a day to hit several ** urge me to go home, he only knew how tired he was through his own personal experience, and then I came home he felt that he couldn't stand it and cleaned it up, although this method is a bit extreme, but the effect is still good, at least let him change a lot.

Satisfactory answers2012-06-11You quarrel every day are to vent your dissatisfaction with your husband's family, that's too stupid, I'm not saying you're wrong, in fact, I'm very similar to your situation, I didn't know my husband was so filial when I patted the drag, filial piety to my marriage after saying that his parents were not right, the two years of marriage quarreled for two years, I was tired, but I didn't give up, I said to my husband, I said I knew I said that it was wrong for my parents to say this, But you have seen how I am a daughter-in-law, and you have seen how your parents have treated me, do you think that I am wrong? I don't want to quarrel with you, but after filling up like a balloon, it will be **, if you don't want me to quarrel with your parents, you have to be my punching bag, otherwise I will quarrel with your parents every day, my husband has been talking to your parents for so many years now, I am dissatisfied with his parents and will crack and tell him, but he is silent, in fact, he is already standing on your side if he is silent, do you want him to quarrel with you? If he helps the fuck, I don't think you can go on, you haven't been with his family, don't care about them so much, don't you just send them to the day they die

Who are you? So understood.

The problem is that he says I'm annoying.

Every man doesn't like his wife nagging in his ear, not to mention that you say that his parents, the palm of the hand is meat, and the back of the hand is also meat, even if he knows that his parents are doing something wrong, he hopes that you will get along well with his parents, because after all, it is his parents, in other words, if he says that your parents are not all day long, will you be happy? The principle is the same. You don't live with the old man, even if you get angry, it's only a matter of time, after a long time, you won't be sad if you don't see the old man's own heart, the most important thing is your husband, I think your husband still loves you, because he didn't scold you when you nag his parents are not, because many men will help their parents when they hear their wives say that their parents are, which will definitely hurt their wives.

Women, always hope that their husbands are biased towards themselves, but I think that men who are not filial are not good men, so I have no opinion on my husband's filial piety to his parents, but I must not ask me to be filial together, after all, his parents are not good to me, and I think I am not so great.