Man must never doubt himself in life.

When you start thinking that you won't doubt yourself, you're already doubting yourself.

1. In life, it is impossible to be proud and everything goes well. What we are looking for is nothing more than lost years. Most of the things you want are not with you.

Life is always in a constant cycle of gains and losses, and it is a life attitude to be at peace with what you encounter. Only by knowing how to let go can we grasp the present.

Second, youth is a banquet of constant farewell, the person who wants to leave can't stay after all, when drunk should be dispersed, and forget when he should forget.

3. Some people, some things, should be forgotten, people have never put you in their hearts, so don't be sentimental. Not showing up, not bothering, is the last way to love.

4. Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. In the world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear the pain and discomfort by ourselves. No one can really understand you, and if the stone doesn't hit his foot, he'll never feel how much it hurts.

5. Make your anger expensive that no one can afford to consume, and make your happiness cheap and shared freely by everyone.

6. In real life, we see that women always procrastinate and involve marriage, and cut the tangled entanglements that are constantly sorted out, especially women who have children, because children are always pulling their hearts and backs, in the final analysis, it is the weakness of women's economic strength that cannot support real life.

7. Half of the happiness of life must be fought for, and half must be followed. Fight, not with others, but with hardship. Sui, not with the flow, but after knowing and then peace.

Fight, life has fewer regrets; Follow, contented people are always happy. I am most afraid that I will not fight when I should fight, and I will not stop when I should stop, and I am always suffering in the entanglement. Be at peace with what you encounter, and stop with fate.

8. If it backfires, believe that God must have another arrangement, and all that is lost will come back in another way, believe in yourself, and believe that time will not treat you badly.

9. In another way, doing those things that you are used to is to let a new self grow in your heart.

10. We need to treat our children with a firm and kind attitude. "Positive pause" is a small tool that we can use when children make mistakes.

Ten. 1. Live your life well first and make yourself better, so that people with the same frequency can see it; Even if you are in the future, you must have the capital to live a better life.

Ten. 2. Don't forget people's kindness, don't think about people's faults, don't think about people's grievances. The heart is wide and the clouds dissipate, making people clear the sky in one step.

Ten. 3. A slender hair, placed on the palm of the hand, will not feel anything; But if you put it in your eyes, it will be very painful. In the same way, a small thing, for a person with a big heart, will not be taken to heart; But if it falls on the head of a person with a small heart, it will react very strongly, and it will always be haunted and unable to let go.

14. You are always like this, anxiously worried about the future, and on the other hand, you are generously wasting your life, most afraid of doing nothing in your life, and comforting yourself that you are ordinary and precious!

Ten. Fifth, those things that I want to say but don't dare to say have become **, it's not that I'm not good at words, but I don't dare to express it.

1: Always be grateful for those inexplicable likes, sincere loves, affectionate hugs, and kindness, which are the deepest relationships between people.

2: I see a lot of people clearly, but I can't debunk them at will. I hate a lot of people, but I can't turn my face easily. When life is to force yourself to become submissive and not frightened.

3: If you never start, you will never arrive; Don't forget to promise yourself, where you want to go and what you originally dreamed of.

4: Never doubt yourself because of what others say, and don't look down on yourself because of who you like. All your strengths and weaknesses are for someone who can accept you as you are.

5: Write all the mountains, the pen is you, look at the stars, the beauty is you, the book is yellowed, the title page is you, the mountains and rivers are thousands of rivers, the place is you, the iron horse is you, and the glacier is also you.

6: Black is black, white is white, let time tell; No matter what happens, face the sun and have hope; Don't think that the people you can't let go of will also not be able to let go of you, the fish will die without water, and the water will be clearer without fish.

7: I definitely can't be the best, but I will be the best; Although I can't be the person who is most worthy of you, I will make myself the best me to match you.

8: I'm just in love with you, so I'm humbled by you, smaller than you, despised by you, despised by you, and not cherished by you.

9: Sometimes I just feel very tired, I don't want to say anything, in fact, no one wants to listen to you spit out bitterness, a bunch of negative energy bursting words, really no one wants to listen, so I want to be alone, quietly listening to the song and drinking wine, trying to see through yourself and comfort yourself.

10: There is no problem that cannot be solved, only the mind that cannot be solved; There is no experience that cannot be passed, only oneself that cannot be walked out.

11: Since you live, you must live well. Sometimes we lose too much because we are too careful and too concerned about the trivial things around us, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Don't always take anything seriously, don't always give it to the horns, don't be too face-conscious, don't be careful. I don't care, that's a kind of open-mindedness, a kind of free and easy.

Life in the world, it is inevitable to be disappointed, at this time you may doubt life, many people will ask, what is the meaning of life, when you are disgusted with the world, you feel meaningless, but you still have a lot of can't let go, so you have to give yourself a meaning. In life, there are pros and cons. A gentleman acts, but a villain is difficult; The villain acts, and the gentleman stops it.

so that none of them can be easily obtained; So you start to be competitive, you come and go, fight each other, and life is more exciting; As long as you keep working hard, you will eventually get things done. Life in the world, pursue a lot, this matter is difficult to achieve, turn to other things, when the time is ripe, turn back and take it, maybe it will be done. In short, the meaning of life is sometimes decided by others, but more often, it is the meaning of life that you give yourself!

You are right, people must not doubt themselves in life, what kind of mentality there is, what kind of life there is, and people must have a positive and sunny life. Not only to be responsible for yourself, but also to be responsible. Have faith in yourself, have faith in life, and live yourself as you want to be.

Psychological life [accidentally got sick].

In the first half of 2017, people who saw me said that I had lost a lot of weight, but I didn't care, thinking that it might be due to work pressure and loss of appetite, and I had always been thinner, so I didn't feel that my body shape had changed much.

In April 2017, I participated in the unit training, training in the wind and rain, and always felt that my physical strength was unbearable. And due to the high physical consumption of training at that time, the weather was constantly cloudy and rainy, and my cold did not get better during training.

One day in June 2017, I suddenly felt very sore in my back, and after only two days, the backache developed into low back pain, which began to torment me in the middle of the night, and the pain that lasted for about 3 hours a day seriously affected my normal work and rest. During this period, I successively saw doctors in traditional Chinese medicine and gastroenterology, and did B ultrasound and drank traditional Chinese medicine, but to no avail. At that time, the superficial lymph nodes were not enlarged, but there were enlarged lymph nodes in the abdomen, but they were oval and elongated, and the gastroenterologist thought that it was not caused by malignant tumors, so he did not let me go further for further examination and continued to observe.

One day at the end of June, I suddenly had a swollen lymph node on my collarbone, and my mother was very upset when she saw it, urging me to see a doctor (maybe it was my mother's hunch). I remember that it was a rainy day, and it was raining very hard, and on such a day, my mother still dragged me to the hospital. After checking the lymph nodes on my collarbone, the ultrasound doctor immediately asked the director of the ultrasound department to come over and check together.

After getting the ultrasound sheet, the vice president of the hospital immediately said to us, your disease is not very good, considering malignant tumors, combined with your back pain, it is recommended that you immediately go to the municipal and provincial hospitals for a pathological puncture.

But don't go too far. Everything has to have a degree, and beyond that degree, it will be wrong.

It's not for money, houses, cars, feelings, enjoyment, it's more of a growing experience, we continue to pursue a sense of existence, often choose material and constant possession on the road of competition, the world of feelings continues to have, women crave security and warmth, meticulous, men's continuous conquest of challenges, inflated desire to challenge themselves, but what we should have in the end is to face calmly, no regrets after the experience, exhaustion and injury, overwork, the end of this life, the unknown next generation to give, may not be a good thing, many people hope that their descendants don't have to work so hard, but protecting too much doting can only make them more incompetent, how to know that it is not easy to come by without experiencing suffering, how to know how to cherish? The journey of mind cultivation itself is the cause and effect of different choices!

What is the meaning of being alive? This is a big topic.

First, it should be a fortunate thing that God has arranged for us to come into this world.

Second, living itself is the greatest meaning, whether it is good to live or to live;

Third, we actively strive to live a wonderful life, which is the meaning of life.

Believe in you, no longer doubt life, but confident in life, believe that you live better than others!

But is that a little love? Do you know your answer at this time? Young people fall in love!

Choose what you have to do sensibly! ......What else can we do and how to do it in the end!

But I personally think that people should look away and look farther. I saw the birth, old age, sickness and death of a person's life, imagined that my mother was pregnant in October, and thought of the hardships that my parents did not want to reciprocate and raise myself. even thought that his family would inevitably die of old age and not be able to take away a penny!

Thinking of his relatives in the end, they are also separated! I believe that many people want to know the answer to this question! Be a person with real wisdom roots!

You can get to this state! Look at the problem wisely, I hope you can understand! Thanksgiving, not worth mentioning!

You should know how to love by now, you must learn to be grateful, repay gratitude, and I am sure to tell you that your current state has reached the time of enlightenment! What is the meaning of human life! It's not very convenient to type on the phone, but there is no definite answer to tell the world hello to this friend.