I can t have children, and my boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think he should be blamed, loving someone is all that he loves, and nothing can stop him.

    If he breaks up with you because of that, it still proves that he doesn't love you.

    Of course, he is to blame.

    This is just my personal opinion, please forgive me for anything wrong.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's no wonder, everyone chooses life and love differently, even if he is gone, you can still find your own happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can only say that he is not suitable for you, find a dink, there are many children now, life is your business, you are not a machine for inheritance! The 21st century is people-oriented, not the feudal era!

    Let's separate, enjoy your life happily! There is not only one man in the world!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Blame him. Now a lot of reasons are because you can't have children, so you break up, I really don't understand, is it that we women are production machines, and now that science is so advanced, even if it's not biological, it's okay to adopt, and women are with men just to have children? It's so unfair...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's nothing, his parents haven't changed, it's just that he is no longer the same person he used to be. If his love is still there, why is it happening now, six years later. Break up, if it's just such an excuse, it's better to break up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone has a different understanding of the meaning of marriage.

    It means you're wrong, and it's not his fault.

    It means that you're not looking for the right person, you're not finding someone you can convince for life.

    Don't be discouraged and hope you find someone who truly loves you and what you love

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No one can blame this, it's all because of the family's fault.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a thing! How to say it! I blame him! Don't have children! I'll break up with you! Too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on your age! Raising children is the most troublesome thing now.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Kindness. Kindness.

    It's a social problem. Kindness. Kindness.

    Then you just go and tell your boyfriend.

    Let's see if he can turn back?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No one is to blame, society is not to blame.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After the two parties have settled the property, child custody and child support, they can separate. It is advisable for both parties to sign an agreement. If there is a dispute over property and custody, you can go to the people's court to file a lawsuit.

    1. What should I do if I get married and have children with others.

    The division of property and the custody of children mainly involved in the dispute shall be determined by the court if the party at fault divides less or no property. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price. The innocent party may claim damages from the at-fault party.

    To claim compensation from the other party, the other party needs to be at fault. For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income.

    If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

    Article 1054 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China provides that an invalid or annulled marriage is not legally binding from the beginning, and the parties do not have the rights and obligations of husband and wife. Property acquired during the period of cohabitation shall be disposed of by agreement of the parties; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment on the basis of the principle of taking care of the innocent party. The disposition of property in an invalid marriage resulting from bigamy must not infringe upon the property rights and interests of the parties to a lawful marriage.

    The provisions of this Law on parents and children shall apply to children born to the parties. If the marriage is invalid or annulled, the innocent party has the right to claim damages.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What kind of person does your boyfriend have? You know this best. I'm going to give you the following advice on a case-by-case basis:

    1.If your boyfriend is a responsible man, not having children now doesn't mean he wants to break up with you. It may be that he thinks that the time is not yet ripe, and that he is not yet qualified enough to shoulder the responsibilities of being a father.

    2.If your boyfriend is an immature boy (I don't know how old your boyfriend is), he may be more entangled in having a child and hesitant, then you can try to encourage him to have a look.

    3.If from a bad point of view, he is an irresponsible man, then he must run away as soon as he hears that he has a child, such a man, he just doesn't want to take too much responsibility, girl, you can do it yourself

    In summary, having a child is a lifelong event just like getting married, you need to communicate with your boyfriend to see what kind of idea he has, and you can also tell your own thoughts to see if your boyfriend will be considerate of your thoughts. There is always someone who needs to make a compromise when two people are together, you say.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe he's not ready to be a father, if he doesn't want to get married, it's really unreliable, and not having children may be psychologically immature.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No. Many men don't want to have children early, maybe they are afraid of being responsible, they may think that children will disturb the world of the two of you, or they may never want children to be dinks, or they may not be mentally and financially prepared at the moment.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's just temporary, you communicate with him more, see what he thinks, and then make a decision.

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