What should I do if I have an only child but don t want to get married and have children?

I think it's normal, I'm also an only child. Schoolgirl. Imagine being alone for more than 20 years, the pearl of the palm of your home.

Suddenly a guy intrudes into your life, suddenly there's a pillow person, there's suddenly 2 pairs of chopsticks on the table, and everything seems a little unreal. You are no longer free, no longer so free, when it gets dark, you want to go home instead of continuing to go out to surf, or when it gets dark you start to call him ** and ask him when he will come home, if he doesn't go home to eat at night, you will eat alone by yourself, wash the pot, watch TV, and wait for him to come home. He binds you.

I think that instead of getting married and adapting to all kinds of discomfort with him, it is better to be free and be a single dog by myself.

As long as you are strong enough, have enough financial strength to support yourself, have your own lifelong career, and always like this profession, you will not be lonely in this life, and you will not be swayed by your relatives and people around you. If you can have a few more good friends, you won't be lonely. There are also two or three bachelors among my doctoral classmates, and no one feels bad, as long as they want to.

Moreover, in the academic world, it is not uncommon for scholars to be single all their lives. Getting married and having children is really a troublesome thing.

Although I have this thought, I haven't thought about how to implement that I don't want to have a child because I'm a bad kid myself, and I think I'm going to take care of a child who is about as bad as me in the future. Even if it's my own child, I can't help but want to kick it away. Therefore, you still have to be strong in your own ability, and you must be independent in all aspects of the economy.

Let your parents feel that you won't be lonely when you are old, and try to discuss it with your relatives without worrying them?

Time will wear away all such problems, the only thing that is that you and your parents are independent and have their own lives. Whether you get married or have children, there is no so-called right or wrong, just choose the lifestyle that suits you. If you don't get married and don't have children, make it clear before you fall in love, be responsible for each other, don't be scumbag, don't cheat, and don't regret it.

It's okay, my husband also had this idea from you before he met me, and when you meet that person, you will naturally change, don't worry. In addition, let your parents see that whether you are married or not, it will not affect your own happiness and happiness, and it will be better, of course, provided that you can't be a scumbag.

Marriage isn't a big deal, right? Wouldn't it be nice to marry someone you like? It's just that "liking" this thing can cause a lot of trouble. But having a baby is too much trouble...I really don't dare to think about it, I feel that the vast majority of post-95s like me don't want to have children.

People in modern society don't need to live together like the older generation when looking for a partner. After all, the material conditions are abundant, and you can make money and bread independently, and the rest is only a lack of spiritual satisfaction. If two people together are 1+1 2, it is not as good as a 1.

The main reasons are as follows:

In the past, there was a saying that raising children to prevent old age, so the vast majority of people will go to the marriage hall, will organize a family, and then will give birth to children, and when they are old, the children will support the elderly, and if they get married, they will have their spouses by their side when they are older, and they will not be so lonely.

However, now that it is the 21st century, everyone's thinking has changed a lot, and more and more young people will not get married, because there will be a lot of pressure after marriage, but it is better to be at ease and live as you want.

For people in the 21st century, there is no need to worry when they get older, because the infrastructure will become more and more complete in the future, especially in nursing homes.

When you get older, you can go to a nursing home to care for the elderly, and there will be a lot of elderly people who can accompany you, which is also very good.

Because parents with children are old, most of them also go to nursing homes. Basically, very few children will sacrifice everything, such as abandoning their careers, families, and jobs to take care of the elderly, and they are not physically up to the requirements. So this is not a problem, don't worry about the only child, besides, there are many brothers and sisters in our generation, and there are not many people who really want to take care of their parents, and the only child, the second husband and wife, has to take care of four old people, which is basically impossible.

The key is whether there is money or not, if you have money, you can buy an endowment insurance, if you have money, you can still give birth to men in your seventies and eighties, and women will have some trouble, but if you have money, relatives are also willing to take care of it, although it is for the inheritance.

Summary. Hello, only children are reluctant to get married, first of all, the first point is that the cost of marriage is high.

Hello, only children are reluctant to get married, first of all, the first point is that the cost of marriage is high.

Women spend more time, energy, and physical strength than men in marriage and family, but the material and spiritual rewards they get in marriage are lower than the investment, so many women would rather live alone than pay and dedicate themselves to these two things.

The second point is that after getting married, there is a lot of pressure, and a couple has 4 elderly people to take care of, which is very stressful.

The third point is that women can live a wonderful life without getting married and having children, they can continue to learn and grow themselves, they can travel everywhere, they can do all kinds of interesting things to fill their spare time, and they will not feel bored and lonely;

Summary. Yes, dear.

Yes, dear.

The one-child policy is for the parents of the only child, and it should be the neighborhood committee where the household registration is located to be responsible for the one-child policy, that is, when the parents of the only child reach a certain age, they will give some subsidies, and the specific amount may vary from place to place.

For the only child himself, such as the area of the room, etc.

The compensation standard for land acquisition is a wide imitation of the only child with a single child certificate in the demolition, Universiade is entitled to the distribution of demolition compensation by one person according to two people, and enjoys priority in the division of homesteads, and enjoys preferential welfare policies such as multiple points in the distribution of land acquisition compensation, and if the age of the only child has not reached the legal age of marriage, one person can be taken care of and resettled according to the construction area of 30.

After getting married, some policies for me are gone, thank you.

Even if it's not in time for me, give it a thumbs up, it's not easy for everyone.

The policy treatment that only children can enjoy after marriage: first, nursing leave. If there are elderly people in the family, sometimes when you are sick, there is only one child at home, and generally the children have jobs, and sometimes it is not so convenient to ask for leave, and sometimes it is impossible to take care of the elderly and work.

In response to this situation, the state has specially introduced a policy of nursing leave for the only child, and this leave must be paid leave, if the only child takes leave to take care of his parents, the unit cannot deduct the salary. Second, 2,000 yuan of personal income tax is exempted. As we all know, China's personal income tax is levied from 5,000, as long as your salary exceeds this amount, it means that you need to pay taxes.

However, if the only child is over 60 years old, the parents can deduct 2,000 yuan of personal income tax. Third, extra points in the college entrance examination. The college entrance examination, this exam can change the fate of many people.

If you can add points, then you have a better chance of getting into a good university. It's just that this bonus point is not applicable to all regions, and it is not accepted in general areas, only in some economically backward areas and areas with lack of educational resources, and the bonus points also depend on local policies. However, even if there is no separation, as long as the only child is admitted to university, he can receive a subsidy in the admission letter.