Why did my parents force me to go out and play

Your identity is not only a student, but also a child of other people, learning is your first priority, but you must also accompany your parents, not to mention whether it is good for you to hang out with them, just from the perspective of making your parents happy, there is no reason not to go.

Maybe you stay at home all the time and don't go out, and your parents are worried that you will have autism because of this, as long as you can prove that your parents' worries are unnecessary, they won't force you, after all, everyone has their own way of life, and you can't say which lifestyle is the best, as long as it suits you and doesn't have a bad impact on you, it's good.

Because your parents may want you to step into the society in Japan, I, like you, now the society needs not only academic qualifications, but also social experience.

In fact, parents also do this to make you happy, you talk to them well, or find friends who can have fun with you, and they are relieved to go out and play by yourself.

You can try to force them to stay home and let them know what the reluctance is like. There really isn't a need to be too idealistic about the other person's arrangement, what if you go out, if you want to go out, and you especially like to go out, they will never force you again. If you want to take it, you must give it first, you should know this truth!

They are not forcing you to go out, they are forcing you to accompany them.

The landlord is naturally well-behaved, and his academic performance is among the best, and the landlord's parents have a strong sense of control. But the landlord is now a student in the second year of junior high school, and the school will be in the third year of junior high school. This age is known as adolescence.

Psychologists have found that adolescent children have a strong sense of autonomy and independence, rapid development of physiological secondary sexual characteristics, and various functions tend to mature. Adolescent children are emotionally unstable, with ups and downs, coupled with the emergence of a sense of independence, entering a rebellious period that people fear.

It is a good premise for the landlord to be aware and communicate with his parents. But you're not paying attention to your parents' needs. For a child who has always been very obedient, he lost contact for 5 hours and returned home at 10 o'clock in the evening, during which the parents' worries can be imagined.

So you don't think it matters much, but your parents don't. They were worried about losing control, and they didn't want to lose that feeling.

The landlord should communicate with the parents on the topic:

I am an independent and complete person, and I have the right to choose my own mode of life. I take full responsibility for what I do.

Children have to grow up eventually, and so do I. One day will leave the parents. I'll take care of myself. Lead by example and implement it.

Parents love their children, and we have to see the starting point of everything.

It is recommended that the landlord express it like this in the future: Mom and Dad, I know that you say (do) to care, care, and love me, but when you say (do), I feel sad, wronged, uncomfortable, and uncomfortable (your feelings), can we do this in the future (how do you want to say and do).

Finally, I wish the landlord and his parents good communication, a family, there is nothing that cannot be solved. Remember that parents always love their children, and this love is unconditional.

In fact, the eyes of adults are different from the eyes of our children. Parents don't like to owe favors to others, and in their eyes, perhaps the hospitality of others to their children is a kind of favor. They are worried that the person who entertains you will use this to ask them for some favors, and that your parents will not be able to do it and reject them, leaving some bad gossip for others.

So you have to try to communicate with your parents, calm down, and think from the perspective of their age.

Parental love can sometimes become a problem, so let's communicate more. If it's a girl, it's understandable, after all, there is so much social news now. The reason for taking advantage of others is not valid, whether it is now, or adults entering the society, interpersonal communication is essential, it is normal for you to come and go, it is not possible to talk about who takes advantage of whom, who you want to invite to dinner, people do not necessarily give face.

Self-confidence and cheerfulness do not mean that there is, now that you are young, your interpersonal circle is simple, and it is relatively safe, accumulate more experience, exercise emotional intelligence, and be less deceived in the future.

Your parents are a little too much.

The question was like this, because my father often restricted me and didn't let me go out, saying that it was for me to say that I was too young to even go out with my cousin.

It's very annoying, but if you want to go farther, you won't be allowed to go.

You can also ask them to take you along to play.

Or try to please them, do more housework, help your parents more, let them reduce their burden, and when your parents are in a good mood, they will let you go [happy] [happy].

Have a great day!