Friend, tell me how your life is when you marry an only child?

Marrying an only child, the mother-in-law will take special care of the baby son, always feel that the son is like an unweaned child who has to take care of everything, everything has to worry, the baby son does a little thing and shouts tired to death, he is so distressed that he almost faints, others can't say that the baby son is not good at all, the son does a little little thing, I want the whole world to know, look, my son is so sensible, my son can be moved to cry when she clips a dish, maybe this is a mom Bao Nan, but I don't feel that I have a bad life, after all, it's right to hurt the child, But my husband loves me just as much.

My other half is an only child, because I think the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult enough, so fortunately there is no concubine relationship, otherwise people with low emotional intelligence like me would not be able to take care of it at all. There is another one I think, I don't want to be compared, the two daughters-in-law of many such families around me will be compared from appearance to personality, and then to life, to give birth to boys and girls, of course, the baby will naturally be compared in the future, learning to look good, well-behaved, hey, endless comparisons. Now that's not much to worry about.

My husband is an only child, he also has a sister, but it is adopted, my mother-in-law is all physically and mentally put on my husband, the family conditions are very good, economic problems do not have to worry about a little bit, my first child is a daughter, immediately gave birth to a second child, I don't know whether it is a man or a woman, my mother-in-law said that regardless of men and women, I don't have to go out to work after the second child is born, just take it at home, I have no opinion, after all, the family conditions are OK, my mother-in-law now has her own job, I think everything is discussed, and a better solution can always be found.

My husband is an only child, and my in-laws are less than 50 years old. I didn't live with us in the first year after I got married, I didn't help me with anything when I was pregnant, whether it was economic or life, I love my husband and a few years younger than he did before he got married, he didn't cook before he got married, and he wanted to drink soup was fishy, and then led two fish to his cousin's house just to drink a bowl of fish soup, and now he doesn't need them to raise children's milk powder and even the rent of two bedrooms and a living room has to give us out, the key is not to give me a child, my husband's salary is just right moonlight, and I paid the rent for the children's milk powder, and we have a family's food expenses. . . I feel stressed to go to work and bring me a month why I don't want to bring it, I said it is good to hear that she goes to work to give me a thousand subsidies a month to live, but I didn't see her a cent, my husband is five or six thousand a month, and my in-laws are also six thousand a month, the key is that food and accommodation are ours, and they don't have any expenses at all

Generally, parents of only children have the desire to have another daughter, which makes it easier for them to accept their son's wife and treat it as their own daughter, my mother-in-law thinks so, so after I marry into his family, it can be said that it is still very smooth, my mother-in-law will prepare everything very properly, I don't have to worry about my husband and me, and now I am waiting to hold my grandson.

My husband is an only child, but his parents are thin, and the money for his wedding bride price is given by ourselves, his father took 20,000 yuan out at the time, and the gift money received was given to him for the rest of the wine money, and then he paid him 10,000, he can still make money with a daughter-in-law, and it is also powerful, and then he gave birth all the way, bought a car, bought a house, and didn't support it, just forget it, cold words, and shake the black face at every turn, I once suspected that he was not biological, although he looked very similar to his father, his mother was a little sincere to him, But everything is up to his father, this bit of sincerity is also relatively cheap, married for eight years along the way is really tired, countless times want to divorce, the child is really a big tie, at least not the last step, I also want him to have a sound family, this year I bought a house and finally have my own home. If you want to be self-sufficient, my humanity will not stand the test, and if there is really that day, they and I can only forget about each other.

My husband is not an only child, but we live a good life, my eldest sister treats me like a sister, because my mother-in-law left early, so my father-in-law did not live with us, he lives alone, we go to have a meal every once in a while, I feel that it is very good now.

What is the most important thing in this society now, people, what is more trustworthy than brothers and sisters, of course, the relationship is harmonious, I have a sister and a sister, both married, and my parents give a lot of dowries, all happy, now my brother-in-law and brother-in-law are also very good, our relationship is also very good, no matter what happens, I have confidence in my heart, after all, it is family! I can't imagine how lonely I should be if I met something that my friends couldn't talk about, and I didn't even have someone to talk to.

The other half of the only child, the 31-year-old man who spoils the pain is not independent, selfish, machismo, and his personality is as strong as his mother-in-law. I found out that this man is useless, my mother-in-law is afraid that he will grow up, and I have been taking care of him, and I went to the 6th floor of the hotel yesterday to listen to the shop publicity meeting, and my mother-in-law has been there and said to him, let you fill in the information and don't fill in, let you pay the deposit, don't pay it, see if there are other people on the first floor who also listen, how to call you **Let you go, whether others have received an invitation**, and then say don't forget it. There are so many things like this that a man is raised.

With a salary of more than 2,000 a month, and almost half a month of rest, let him live comfortably like this, afraid that some of his work is too hard, and there is no need to do hard work if people don't starve to death.

My husband is an only child, because the relationship between the members is relatively simple, and there is no mess of concubines, but the pressure is still there, both parents want us to raise, and now I plan to have children, and I will raise 5 people in the future, which is hard for my husband and me, but it also depends on what kind of life you pursue, I hope we can live better. So now we are working hard, and both parents are very understanding of us.

My husband is also an only child, and I have an older sister who is married and has two children, but she is divorced, and she takes me like a sister. My husband is more irritable, his parents can't control it, and my personality is also relatively stingy, and if I don't pick up, I ignore him for a day or two, so as long as I **dozen, I will immediately come and go from the real recruitment****, what are you doing. I can't make jokes, honestly.

His parents are also sensible people, there is no such relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and I am also married, it takes ten minutes to drive, I want to go home, I can go back at any time.

My husband is an only child, and I feel that it is still simpler than a family with many brothers. The in-laws are also wholeheartedly for our good, and the father-in-law is typical, hardworking, kind, and open-minded. My mother-in-law is also reasonable and tolerant of me.

Nothing matter, help with the children....Thanksgiving, for a girl who came out with a bad family relationship, this is simply a blessing for me. It's a pity that my husband treats me not salty, not romantic, a bit like my dad (own father), but I can't handle the marriage relationship. Terrible, always admonishing yourself to control your emotions.

But there is no desire, there is no desire....

It's good to be an only child. If you have brothers and sisters, you will have partiality, and even if I don't want my in-laws to pay, it will be uncomfortable to see partiality. My in-laws, the only child, are okay with me, sometimes they quarrel, and it's okay if they quarrel, anyway, he only loves him as a son.

When she is old, I will accept my fate to support her, or how to raise her if she has a brother.

Although I am not married to an only child, I have the pressure of being an only child. The reason is that my brother-in-law is sick, and the money of my parents-in-law should be left for his youngest son to see a doctor, and we buy a house, decorate household appliances and furniture and earn it ourselves, or my mother's family helps, and now I still owe more than 300,000 yuan to the bank. We are under too much pressure now, and we do everything by ourselves, but after our in-laws are old, the pension is our own, and the in-laws have no pension, so we don't dare to think about it now.

My husband also has a sister, but it's also very good, except for my sister's a little willful child's temper, it's okay, my in-laws are very fair, my child has been sleeping with my grandmother at night after weaning, it's quite hard, although I live together, but there is no big contradiction, I have low emotional intelligence and few eyes, and it's easy to offend people straight up, but my husband is very good at dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and is very protective of me, so that contradiction is basically negligible.

I'm not an only child, but I'm married to an only child, my mother-in-law has been taking care of me since I was pregnant, helping us take care of the child, and now I'm 9 years old, my father-in-law gave us all the money from the sale of the house in my hometown, and we still owe money for the house in Beijing, my mother's family never gave me a penny, I also handed over my salary to my mother's family for safekeeping before I got married, but my parents didn't take it out when I got married, and I didn't give a dowry when I got married.

My husband is an only child, after getting married, I went out with my husband to play, and my mother-in-law also had to follow, and I said that I was tired before I started to go shopping, and said that my son kissed his daughter-in-law, not with her, during pregnancy, I cooked, she was not this pain or that pain all day long, and it was even more excessive after giving birth to a baby, and the child in a month was only a few pounds and said that he couldn't hold it, and my husband hugged the child and said who gave birth to who hugged, and it has been tormenting for the past 3 years

I am an only child, and my husband has two brothers, so I will try not to look for two brothers in the future. There are many things, and the in-laws are eccentric, even if you don't care, your heart will be very uncomfortable. The key is that your husband still doesn't understand you and thinks you are too small-hearted.

One is forbearance in exchange for not understanding and tired.

It mainly depends on the character, the character of the parents of the only child is not good, and the chicken and dog are still restless and selfish.

I think it's good to have a sister or sister.,When there's something to do, there's a lot of care.,There won't be anything to bring which family.,There are many contradictions for which family.,My sister's son has her mother-in-law to bring back from time to time, I also like it.,And my child is the age difference of the mother-in-law has the heart to help her bring me I don't have any opinion.,I like it a lot.。

My husband and I are both only children, and we are both only children + only children on our side, and then have a child. The direct feeling is that the relatives are all from the parents' generation, and the number of relatives in our generation is too small, and the children's generation is even less.

At present, it is very good, my in-laws are dedicated to us, spending money on daily life, and helping to take care of the baby, the problem is that my husband says that he wants to have a second child at every turn, saying how lonely he is when he is a child, how pitiful, I have stifled his idea many times, but there is still a tendency to emerge.

My husband is an only child, and it's good that my parents are not around when I am not married, and when I get married, my parents live together, and I become a shopkeeper who doesn't do anything, and his mother does it, and any big and small things are counted on by his parents. If you can delay something, you can put it off, and if you can shirk it, you can shirk it.

My husband is an only child, that is, my father-in-law and mother-in-law divorced early, and we are faced with the trivial matter of their reorganization of the family, but my father-in-law often gives me money, and my mother-in-law treats me well and is quite satisfied.

My husband is an only child, and I have an older sister who has been married out a long time ago! The relationship between family members is relatively simple and natural, and they get along more harmoniously.

My husband is an only child, his parents have never been by his side, they can't control him, after marrying me, they listen to me very much, my parents-in-law have little culture, and I am generally in charge of family affairs.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, but he seems to never grow up, and he feels so tired living together.

When many people reach the age of talking about marriage, they will begin to discuss marriage with their other half, and everyone will also consider the parents of both parties when considering marriage, and will also consider the real situation of the other party's family, and then comprehensively judge whether it is suitable or not, so is it good to marry a one-child family? Is it good to find an only boyfriend? Let's take a look.

Whether a family married to an only child is good or not needs to be judged according to how much the other party loves themselves and the other party's family situation. If the other party loves himself very much, he will think from his own perspective when doing anything, and the boy can solve the problem from a fair perspective when he has a conflict with the other party's parents, and if the other party's mother is also an amiable person and will not care about small things in ordinary life, then such a family is also relatively happy, in this case you can consider marrying each other. But if the other party is a mother or a boy listens to his parents for most things, marrying such a boy may cause him to be uncomfortable after marriage, and may also lead to his inability to handle the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which needs to be carefully considered in this case.

Each only child has a different personality and way of dealing with people, and girls also need to consider each other's family when considering whether to marry each other, and also need to consider whether they can get along well with each other's parents, and then decide whether to marry each other after comprehensive consideration.

My personal experience has taught me that it is easier to marry an only child, but it is more liberating to marry a family with brothers.

Many people choose to marry an only child, thinking that there is only one son in the family, and the in-laws will wholeheartedly help them take care of the children in the future, and the money will also subsidize themselves in all aspects, and all the property after the only child will be their own and their husband's in the future.

Indeed, mothers-in-law in single-child families are generally better to their daughters-in-law and will help take care of the children. But it is precisely because there is only one child that many mothers-in-law put all their minds on this one son, staring at the life of their son and daughter-in-law all day long, urging them to have children, interfering in the lives of the younger couple, and the younger couple are not so free. Moreover, many mothers-in-law of only children are particularly dependent on their sons, and when their daughter-in-law marries, it is easy to compete with their daughter-in-law for favor, and their future life will not be so easy.

But marrying into a family with brothers is relatively free.

An only child will have a lot less conflict, but a family with a brother will have little and a lot of pressure.

Many people choose to marry an only child because there are few people, and there are not so many things in their later life. If you marry a family with many brothers, and your mother-in-law is partial, then the relationship between the concubines is really comparable to a palace fighting drama. Married to a family of two brothers, if the in-laws are eccentric, it is difficult for the two concubines to get along harmoniously, and they will not only face the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, but also the contradiction between the concubine.

But marrying a family with brothers, if the relationship between the two brothers is better, the parents-in-law are more fair and reasonable, and the two families get along well. In the future, the pressure will really be much less, usually there is a companion for big and small things, and when there is really difficulty, brothers are always better than outsiders. And when the parents are older, the family of two chaotic orange brothers can really reduce the pressure of many young people to provide for the elderly.

Everything in the world has two sides, as the so-called ruler is short, inch is long, the only child has the advantage of being an only child, and the two brothers have the benefits of two brothers, whether it is marrying or marrying, we should respect the decision of the person concerned and value the character of the other party's family members.