Looking for a way to deal with my mother!! In a daze

...Are you sure your mom actually took your mp4.

Your mom doesn't know how to use computers. Then you can say"Mother. Do you know that my mp4 is in**.?

If she pretends to be stupid. Then you also pretend to be stupid. "I really don't know.

Oh! That's miserable, it contains my classmates' learning knowledge. Now it's gone.

How can I explain it to my classmates? "Then you can say the pre-study kind. Usually parents know it's about learning and will approve of it.

Next. You're looking at it.

Are you sure it was your mom who took it?

If that's for sure, that's easy.

o(∩_o...

It's okay to treat others the way they do, and you can also take advantage of her when she doesn't pay attention...

Then you'll get the idea.

If it were me, I'd find it myself.

Even if I found her, I wouldn't have anything to say.

Because didn't she say she didn't take it?

Think about it. Why did your mom do this Is it that she is usually not very good, or is the mp4 you bought without your mother Talk about this is the most important thing If there is no reason for her to take your things, you have to endure Communication can solve all problems.

Tell your dad to buy you one, and your mom will definitely take it out.

Come to the house for a big cleaning, open all the drawers and clean up, you will definitely find him, and by the way, you can show that you are a good child.

Why confiscate your mp4?

I want to figure it out first.

Hey, hey... Why?

You say you're going to sell it, 1,000 bucks!

There are only them in the world.

Bai won't hurt you. Maybe their methods are inappropriate, but they are sincere to you. As for "in-house payment", let me give you a little advice.

Talk to your parents and talk more about your thoughts slowly. In the chat, tell them what kind of way you are suitable to accept the parents' suggestions, and the parents will slowly understand you.

Tell them sincerely how you feel, how you feel. Your needs. Your thoughts.

Think about how you would feel, mood, think, and need if you were them.

Ask them for acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, respect, trust, and love.

Give them acceptance, tolerance, forgiveness, respect, trust, and love.

Your parents punish themselves (angry) for your mistakes

Do you think it's wrong or right? Good or bad for you?

When you were young, everyone had the impulse, think more about how good they were to you, such as how did your parents take you out to play when you were young? What toys did you buy? Just think about it and your mind will calm down.

Obedient! This is the best and most correct approach. Anyone can harm you, but they won't!

Always deal with them with a grateful heart.

Learn to grow up and take responsibility, when your parents see that you are older and have your own analytical ability, they will not care about you so tightly, they will treat you as an adult, you are always naïve, can parents rest assured.

Deal with your parents, wow, because they love you, so you can hurt yourself, make them feel sorry, deal with them mentally!! o(∩_o...Ha ha.

Learn from their strengths and get rid of their faults.

Wholehearted! Filial piety! Thanksgiving!

As long as you don't break the law, you can do whatever you want...

Filial piety for parents is a virtue, and the status of "filial piety" in people's hearts is very important. Don't you think it's ridiculous that you think about dealing with your parents everywhere? However, if your parents are not reasonable, you can communicate with them with your own heart, and try to have a bridge of spiritual communication between yourself and your parents!

How can you say that you can deal with your own parents

He won't hurt you, listen to him.

There is sarcasm in the language (not too obvious), and there is something else behind the scenes.

Independence in exchange for freedom...

But you don't have to be afraid of hard work!

Deal? Are they going to kill you?

Does he have a daughter in his family ? If you have it, you will do it, and if you don't, you will do it with his daughter. The key is that you have to be a man.

Directly have a showdown with the neighbor, and the neighbor will find the village committee if he still doesn't repent, the police.

Ignore him and treat him as if he didn't exist.

The bullying is terrible, and the police are looking for a solution.

Why are you being bullied? Ignore them and you'll get it.

First, it's with your dad to talk about it personally. It can be coerced and enticed.

What a disdain to your father! Announcing the matter between him and Xiao San (you don't need to have real evidence in your hands, just threaten it, even if you don't have evidence, you have to say it as if you have evidence in your hands!) Anyway, it's to make your dad give in and cut off contact with those juniors.

The owner of the second floor is also 20 people. If you have a chance to keep an eye on your dad, you can do it yourself! You can collect the evidence yourself!

Or try to find a private investigator and gather evidence against your dad! And then really show it to him. You can also find the details of those juniors, and talk directly to those juniors!

If you have the conditions, go to investigate the details of Xiao San'er first, know yourself and know that the other side can win all battles, and no matter how shameless Xiao San'er is, she also has weaknesses.

Find out some of the experiences your parents had when they fell in love, and talk to your father more often.

Just collect evidence and divorce, otherwise it will be too tiring to have descendants except for one.

Hello, I have the same situation as you, but instead of looking for a job, I was admitted to the university year, because the school I was admitted to was a tertiary institution, and my cousin went to a prestigious university, so my family looked down on me. I remember when we had dinner together that day, I had the same experience as you, and the 10-year-old kid said that I was not promising. I don't think children know a lot about it, and they can't think of anything like that.

Surely the so-called"Relatives "taught a "good child". But I didn't tell my family, I was also afraid that my family would get angry when they found out and affect the whole family, from that day on, I secretly made up my mind that although the school is not a good school, there are many people who go to study, and those who go to Tsinghua University and Peking University may not all be useful. Then after three years of hard work, when I graduated, I was the president of the student union of the college, the leader of the party group of the college, the party age has been one year, and the unit I found was a large state-owned enterprise, with a monthly salary of nearly 3,000.

Later, I was admitted to the national civil service after two years of hard work, and now my monthly salary is nearly 8,000.

When they came home for the Chinese New Year last year, those "relatives" taught their "good children" to study like their older brothers. I didn't give my younger siblings money. It was to give 2,000 yuan to each of the grandparents.

When I heard these words, I remembered the way they had done to me. I feel that there is no closest person in this society, except for my own parents. And it is you who decide your own destiny, I hope you will not be overwhelmed by the current situation, first of all, you must have confidence.

You mentioned empathy, and since you know that let, the viewers, put yourself in your shoes, why don't you put yourself in the shoes of your relatives? Why did they do this to you? I believe that this makes sense, maybe it's not just that you don't look for a job after graduation and don't study well, think about whether there are other reasons.

It can be said that many of us have come over like this when we were young, especially when we just graduated from school, it is a transition process from blank to busy, and you can also think about it, are you too sensitive? Even to your relatives a move, a look is very concerned and calculating.

Try to be open-minded, don't keep these little things that are not worth talking about, people live for a comfortable time, there is no need to hate others because of this, and it is not worth taking revenge on others.

Go out and find a job by yourself, find a job that you can do, free yourself from the confusion, and have a job, that is, you have your first goal after leaving school, and it will be used as a springboard to complete the second goal you set.

In fact, if you talk to us about these things, as well as the ideas we give you, they may not be able to help you, but you can also feel more comfortable when you say things, but the most important thing is that you still have to rely on yourself to work hard, don't always say that they don't understand me, they won't empathize and so on, either they will make achievements, so that others dare not underestimate themselves, or let people underestimate themselves for a lifetime. If you want to succeed, you have to grit your teeth, no matter how bitter, no matter how difficult, no matter how sad you are, you can swallow it in your stomach, and when you want to cry, tell yourself: Lao Tzu just wants to be a man, this little sin, Lao Tzu can resist!

In the end, the days of distress will pass, and if one day, you see the clouds, all these experiences can become the things you are most proud of!!

I wish you a smooth rush out of the confusion.

I don't think you should put your mind on resentment towards them, it's useless at all, you can only think about how I am going to succeed, how to make money, how to make a lot of money, only then can you raise your head at home.

There is a saying that rich people fart fragrantly.

Remember, take it easy and think about how you can succeed, friend.

Take this as a motivation to motivate yourself, don't care about their attitude, you are still young, you have your way to go, as long as you take life seriously, life is still beautiful, you didn't study well before because you are a child, you have to grow up quickly, don't blame your relatives in the future, because people are selfish, people are also heart-to-heart, they can snub you, you don't have to smile at them, the more they feel that you are scolding them.

I would still laugh at them now. It seems to respect them very much, but I won't bother them with anything, and then, after I find a job and work hard, after getting ahead, I look at the mentality at that time, or I don't exist in front of them. Or it's okay to be nice to them on the surface, once you want to trouble me to do something.

Then I'm sorry.

Turn anger into strength, don't think about them all day, the more you think about it, the more angry you get, go out and find a job by yourself.

Your relatives are not used to seeing you, not working, relying on your parents to support you.

You should look for a job on your own, it shouldn't be difficult to find a job after graduating from a junior college, you probably don't want to do a job that is too high and too tired, right?

Ay. Be considerate, every family has a difficult scripture.

What you are worried about now should not be this block thing, you should think more about your own affairs, since they don't recognize you, you can do it yourself, everything is difficult at the beginning, but you are persistent, then it must be a victory, the most important thing is to believe in your own ability, no matter what others say, right?

If you don't get good grades, you can't make a great career? Says who?

My husband hasn't finished junior high school yet, but all of his colleagues in his company have graduated from college, or even master's degrees, do those diplomas matter? Ability and technology are everything!!

Life depends on what joy, death depends on what suffering.

This family can't stay anymore and leave to support themselves.

If I were you, I wouldn't ask my relatives for help. Work or find your own, no matter what apprenticeship you can do, learn is your own ability, don't think about what good job others will give you, if you want to have your own ability, go for it! There will be no pie in the sky, I always remember the words that my teacher gave me!

It's the same with you, your relatives won't have any good jobs to introduce to you, so you can start from the bottom yourself, even if the apprentice is not paid, I am willing to do it, and I must do it well!

I used to be similar to you, I couldn't do anything by myself, but now at least I can eat by myself, no worse than others!

It's okay to be angry, but why do you want someone to help you find a job? It's easy to find a job, but it's hard to find a good job. No matter what job you do first, you can make money and find it again.

In this way, you will not be looked down upon by others, and the more others are like this, the more you have to make achievements, and staying at home for half a year is simply a waste of your own time. It's not okay to test others. Go for it!

To be sure, they are telling the truth, and you have nothing to argue with. Even if you go out and do a small job, you will have more face than if you were at home now. You're not developing your strengths, and you're missing the moment.

The best thing to do ......Maybe it's to find a job to make ends meet first, and then work hard with a positive attitude.

That's right

Fight for some anger yourself1

After the New Year, go out and look for a job

Go your own way and let the dogs bark!

You're a little bit more angry! Now put yourself right and look for a job well, so that you don't have to look at other people's faces! Of course, jobs aren't so easy to find!

Always take your time! Don't take it to heart if you let them bark before they get a job! If only you knew your own business!

When we encounter such a situation, we should think in the direction that human nature is selfish. But they're a little too much.

Anyway, we are sound people Prompt the landlord to have a suitable job, don't pick and choose, work first, and then start a business, and then say that not having a job is not a problem of relatives' bad attitude, but a problem of your quality of life in the future.

Let's start working hard for ourselves.

Turn grief and anger into strength.

You are not alone in this phenomenon, and quite a few people have experienced it. Either you have low self-esteem and will never recover, so that they continue to ignore you. Either you work hard and change your life.

I think you'd rather be the latter, so don't just have your heart and no action, and start changing your destiny now.

Don't blame the society, blame others, everything is fair, study not well is your previous efforts failed, but your future efforts have not begun, no one can decide your future path, to discover your own strengths and weaknesses, improve yourself.

Don't be resentful of your relatives on weekdays, and don't think about how to retaliate against them when you are developed in the future, they are just a relatively cheesy little people's thinking, and you shouldn't care about these trivial matters if you want to become a big tool. Only by enduring humiliation can we bear the weight and do what we are good at.

Have had the same experience as you.