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Rural people bury the elderly in their own fields, this is no one can object, because this is the tradition left in the countryside for thousands of years, burying their deceased elderly is a matter of course, just burying the old people, too close to your house, only about 15 meters, so that it has an adverse impact on your life Suffer a certain amount of damage to the soul, so how can you solve it by asking for help, according to my experience, I will give you three solutions as a reference, I hope it can help you.
The first option, if the neighbor's house is in front of your house, this problem is easy to solve, build a brick wall with a masonry structure in your own homestead, the height of the wall is about two meters, so that people stand in the yard, they will not see the grave in front, but it is worth noting that the gate must be changed to the front door of Fangshan, so that when you open the door every day, you can't see the grave, so that you can reduce the trouble of touching the grave every day, and live your life peacefully.
The second option, this is very simple, no matter which direction the grave is in, just in the direction of the grave, on your own land, plant a dozen trees, and when the trees grow, you can block the grave in front of you, so that the grave of the neighbor's old man will disappear from your sight, which is called out of sight and out of mind.
The third option, this one is more complicated, because you don't want to build a wall in front of the house, and you don't want to plant a tree in front of your house, so you should first negotiate with your neighbor and explain to him that you are sensitive to the grave, you can't sleep day and night, and you are very afraid of the existence of the grave, so that you will win the sympathy of the neighbor. In this way, you strike while the iron is hot, have a showdown with your neighbors, say your best plan, and let the neighbor's grave move, but the premise must be that you bear all the costs, because no one wants to move the grave for no reason, if the neighbor sees that you are really sincere, for the sake of many years of neighbor friendship, maybe the same age request, so that although you break a little money, you can also achieve your psychological comfort, so that you can sleep peacefully every day, which is called spending money to avoid disasters.
In summary, in fact, there are many ways to solve this problem, which is called running around the door to see if you can find it, as long as you find a way, you can solve it. But this is also an experience, if this happens again, take precautions in advance, greet your family in advance, and tell him not to bury his family too close to your home, so that the neighbors will not be close to people, regardless of your disgust and fear, they will bury their old people far away from home, until you are satisfied. It depends on your human touch, the above my plan is helpful to you, do you say this is okay?
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You should adjust your mindset and look at this with a calm mind, because no one else has done anything wrong.
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You can take the initiative to tell the other party, which is particularly incorrect. And it will make yourself particularly scared, which is a bad practice, hoping that the other person can change.
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You can call the police to deal with it, which violates the right to neighborhoods in China's Civil Code, and you can ask the other party to deal with it.
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My family is also experiencing (our village has begun to implement the old man died and buried in his own land, and there is no such thing as returning to the ancestral grave), but the family looked at my parents honestly, and buried one before My parents said not to be buried in my home, but now they have passed away and come again (this part of the land is our family's cultivated land, and now the place where its grave is also cultivated land Before, when my parents planted tea, they said where their ancestral grave was, so they left an acre, As a result, people are still saying that a few people are going to be carried into my field).