Ask the girls now, will you find a boy who is a little younger than you?

In fact, not too many girls mind the age problem now, but there will be some people who can't accept this boundary, if it's me, age and distance are not a problem, as long as we can live happily and happily, it's enough, but this is just my personal thoughts, your problem, it depends on how she sees it, but it doesn't rule out the possibility of this, age and distance are just a reason to reject you, have you self-reflected, do you get along, in the end the problem is in **?! You have to think about this before you take action. I believe that as long as you are sincere to that girl, she will accept you sooner or later.

Wishing you happiness!

No, everyone's philosophy is different, and I don't accept it anyway.

Age is not a problem, height is not distance.

Contemporary women are becoming more and more fond of young men.

People's minds change with the times, in the past, women preferred older men, but now women mostly prefer younger men.

Performance 1: "Little Fresh Meat" has become the mainstream.

I remember that "uncle" was popular for a while a few years ago, but that time was so short that many people have forgotten it.

In recent years, Xiao Xianrou has always been the object of everyone's pursuit, especially in the entertainment industry, Xiao Xianrou has become the mainstream.

Star chasers are all women, so the popularity of small fresh meat symbolizes the aesthetics of contemporary women.

It is precisely because girls like young and handsome men that the little fresh meat in the entertainment industry can become the top stream.

Performance 2: The prevalence of "sister and brother love".

In real life, sibling love can be seen everywhere, especially sibling love between 1 and 4 years old, which has often been regarded as the norm.

The Civil Affairs Bureau's data is the most powerful proof of this, and it is evidence that can never be faked.

The main reason for this result is the change in women's view of mate selection, in the past, women were only willing to accept men older than themselves, and now many women prefer men who are a few years younger than themselves.

In this way, there will naturally be more and more sibling love.

What is the older man losing in?

The subtext that sibling love has become popular is that older men will have a harder time getting out of the single, older women like men younger than themselves, and younger girls like men their own age.

As a result, the probability of older men getting off the list will naturally get lower and lower.

In the matter of marriage and love, men's competitors are always men, and the reason why older men are not selected is often because they have the following disadvantages compared to younger men.

First, appearance disadvantage.

As we all know, women are appearance associations, which is the main reason why small fresh meat is popular.

In terms of appearance, no one can stand through the years, and the contrast between men in their 30s and men in their 20s is obvious.

They will have traces of age on their faces, some men will even have beer bellies, and even have begun to lose their hair.

Second, ideological disadvantage.

Why are more and more women starting to like younger men? Because they find it easier to get along with younger men and are more able to be cared for and respected.

The birth year is different, the living environment is different, and the thinking is naturally different.

Many older men have patriarchal thinking in their bones, they are machismo, they don't know how to be considerate of women, and even feel that laundry, cooking, and taking care of their in-laws are all women's things.

Young men, on the other hand, do not have this kind of thinking, not only do they not have many harsh requirements for women, but they are also very good at housework and can take good care of their wives.

In this contrast, women naturally know what to choose.

In the perception of many people, women generally tend to find peers, or older than themselves.

In recent years, this perception has been gradually broken.

In more and more film and television dramas, sweet sister and brother love have begun to appear, and in real life, the number of sister and brother love is gradually increasing, and last year's marriage registration has nearly 40% of the proportion, and women are older than men.

Compared with the past, I have to admit that the number of sibling relationships is rising day by day.

Even, the younger the man, the more he does not reject the love of sisters and brothers, and feels that age is not a problem.

There are more and more sibling loves, which seems very unusual, but in fact, there is nothing difficult to understand.

In the previous era, most women needed to rely on men to survive, so in marriage and love, there were not many choices, only the orders of their parents, the words of matchmakers, according to other people's ideas, most of them could only marry men older than themselves.

With the progress of the times, in this day and age, women are equally highly educated and equally capable of supporting themselves.

And when a woman has become independent enough, both ideologically and financially, she will be more attractive herself, and she will have more rights to make choices about her feelings.

She can choose someone who is much older than herself, she can choose someone who is the same age as herself, and in the same way, she can choose someone who is slightly younger than herself, even if it is much younger.

In marriage and love relationships, whether it is a man or a woman, strength has always been particularly important.

Without strength, no matter who it is, there may not be many choices, and when you have enough strength and the range of choices you can choose from, it will really be much larger, and the objects you can choose will really not be so limited.