None of the girls I came into contact with were afraid to talk to me

You are not annoyed, there are two sides to any matter, and if you don't like to talk, you will naturally have fewer opportunities to offend people through words. Of course, there are downsides. After a long time, your girlfriend will slowly get used to it.

If your girlfriend doesn't like to talk either, then I advise you to change your personality, otherwise life will be boring.

Your girlfriend is afraid to talk to you, it is estimated that you may not have been dating for a long time, if this is the case, you should contact your girlfriend more, of course, not chatting, the two of you can go on an outing and let you get to know each other through some specific details of life.

If you know each other well, it may be that you have a personality problem, and it may be that you are stronger.

Probably due to your personality, you are more introverted, you can talk to them more about topics of mutual interest, or talk about your own experiences or something.

Hehe, hesitant people. It's up to both of you. Either he changes, or you take the initiative, and I basically don't talk to ordinary girls. But I have a girlfriend (whom I also have inexplicably) who are very natural together and don't run out of words.

It's because you're so boring.

You're too ugly, too introverted. There is no strength.

Dare to say the first sentence, take the initiative to say the first sentence, and you will slowly alleviate the situation.

Believe in yourself.

Big brother, the old saying: girls are used to coax, you are a boy, you have to take the initiative, don't let the other party can't get off the stage.

This shows that you are so scary.

Well, this one.。。 It's usually a manifestation of social phobia... But there are many possibilities for this disease, both congenital and acquired.

For example, common nervousness is also one of them, it is normal to have nervousness, but when tension appears, it cannot be overcome, and there is a more and more serious trend, it needs to be taken seriously, in fact, most of the time, our approach is to give their own bad psychological hints, plus the fear of tension, lack of cognition of tension, the accumulation of tension, failure, self-denial, under the superposition, it is easy to set self-limits, self-denial, a long time to escape, and so on The negative energy is getting heavier and heavier. So much so that it became habitual and nervous, and a vicious circle began...

It is not difficult to develop the ability to overcome tension, but it is not possible to know a few skills to overcome tension, which involves the correct method + change of thinking, state correction, how to break the existing framework, how to apply the method to practice, how to improve energy, strengthen self-confidence, and so on.

If you want to learn effective methods, you can turn knowing into getting, relieve the current tension, strengthen self-confidence, make yourself happy, open yourself, and master and cultivate the ability to overcome tension.

Shyness and fear of contact are also a kind of introversion.

Your symptoms are the antithetical symptoms of social, which is the most popular social.