My boyfriend said he didn t have the money to give me a love gift, and we met on Jiayuan.com

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If what you say is true, I really don't think much of him! Kick him off! Save yourself time by wasting your time!

    First of all, someone who doesn't take you to heart, no matter how good you are to him, he can't see it. In a word, I don't have a heart. My heart is gone, what are you doing with him!

    Secondly, it is rude. A boy, whether he likes a girl or not, is a basic courtesy to go to a girl's place for the first time to bring a gift. No matter what it is, when everyone is not particularly familiar with each other, basic etiquette is still necessary.

    Even if you forget it the first time, you will have to make up for it next time.

    Third, selfishness. You say that breakfast only thinks about yourself and doesn't think about you. Such a person is a typical selfish ghost, even if he does not think about others. You've only been talking for a month, and it's still a honeymoon period. He's like this now, and he's only going to get worse in the future.

    Fourth, there is no grace. Boys and girls quarrel, no matter what, at least bow your head and coax the girls first. What's more, it's not your fault at all, and you're not arguing. Do you want to coax him, are you planning to find a husband, not a son?

    Fifth, there is no mood. You all pulled together, and I didn't think about giving a gift to show that I was making girls happy, such an unemotional person, I don't want to die when I get married in the future!

    To be honest, for these behaviors, it is okay to say that he is careless, and you are shallow. But from the beginning to the end, I don't feel that he has any positive behavior towards your feelings. Anything bad can be worked on by the two of them, but for a person who doesn't even have the heart to work hard, I don't think you should be with him.

    Listening to you say so much, I think you have a lot of complaints about him. I've heard you say that everything is bad about him, and nothing is good without that sentence. Could it be that your boyfriend is a good-for-nothing person?

    So what are you with him for, and what do you really like about him? If he is really that bad, your vision really needs to be improved! If not, then you can judge your boyfriend rationally!

    Only then will you be able to make the right judgment instead of saying what your friends think of him. After all, it's you, not your friend, who is dating him!

    Since you have so much dissatisfaction with him, then if you don't like it, you can divide it! What else do you have to hesitate about. If you hesitate because you're already living together, there's no need at all.

    Even if you reluctantly continue with him, do you think that after a long time, you will be able to get married? Will you be happy when you get married? Don't think that when you are old, you won't dare to pick your feelings, and you will just get married.

    You will not be married, but for the rest of your life! The most important thing is that anything can be compromised, but feelings cannot be compromised.

    People do have to cherish, but cherishing is just cherishing people who are worth cherishing! Not everyone has to cherish it!

    Finally, I hope you can make your own right decision and find your own happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think your friend is right, so I'd better break it off with him.

    There are two possible reasons for this:

    The first reason: maybe he was originally the kind of person who was rough and leafy, a little wooden. If you're looking for someone who is gentle and considerate to you, it's obviously not your type.

    The second reason: he may be riding a donkey to find a horse type, you are a chicken rib to him, the food is tasteless, and it is a pity to lose it. It doesn't feel like a big deal, but it's okay, and if there's a good one, he won't hesitate to leave you.

    It would be sad to know that you see this. But dear, we are all at an age to find a point, and we can't hesitate to do this kind of thing anymore. Otherwise, it's a waste of your time.

    The so-called authorities are fascinated, and bystanders are clear, whether you are due to the pressure of your family or the desire in your heart to get married and have children as soon as possible. I still hope that you will consider such a man carefully. I hope you can find someone who really loves you as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You've only had that little time, after all, the relationship is not very deep, and the man should say that he doesn't particularly like you. For you, you can barely mix it up like this... I advise you to find another one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe he's the kind of person who is rough, but it seems that you should pull him out, otherwise you will only be unhappy even if you are together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Use the chatting style, knock on the side and say that it is someone else's business, let him give an idea, and if he never or his is not the answer you want, then take him"Click"Look at his performance, go back if you are satisfied, and vice versa"Insect dates".

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm not optimistic about him, he's so old, isn't this a score? I can't cherish you enough.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People who don't put their beloved women in their hearts can go out.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It feels like you're too casual and men won't care about you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not only new love, even if it is an old love, like you are separated from each other, you can only watch ** fantasy, you can't accompany you for a long time, and there will be estrangement between the two!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1, you are getting closer, and there are too many sweet words.

    2. The understanding between each other is getting clearer and clearer, and the mystery disappears.

    3. You only have to have a good chat and ** take measures to enhance your relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Anyway, I haven't met anyone, and I can only talk about three sentences when chatting.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The child has no Amitabha Buddha in the south, and there is no medicine for the brain-damaged.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are countless people who finally come together through online dating, and there are countless of them, and there are many around them, in fact, the Internet is just a platform, and those who can't go together are not much different from those who know each other in reality.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Online romance is a bit similar to QQ dating ......I guess you all started by chatting QQ. Personally, I think it's really difficult to meet a favorite object on the Internet, although the current blind date show is very hot, but that's too fake, I think it's better to meet and talk.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Although there are successes. But very little, very little. Be sure to meet, and too much contact. Get to know better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I have a friend who met a woman in Jiayuan, and when I met the next day, I asked my friend to buy a bag and buy a skirt for her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    How many marriages can be facilitated by the Internet, but it is better to be realistic.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't have a 1314 income, 520 is fine. It's so hard, isn't the thick eraser just asking for money.

    When the landlord has no oil and water to squeeze, he will pull Liang Town to hold the spring dark.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I guess there are other people, or busy with work, or forget, in fact, you can also give him a gift to see how tentative his performance is.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think I'm paying enough attention to you, and if I do, other reasons are not excuses.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He hasn't saved up enough money to buy it for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There can be a variety of reasons, such as recent financial constraints, or forgetting to be too busy at work, or deliberate. The gift is not important, the important thing is that you feel with your heart whether he still loves you or not, such as a greeting on weekdays can be perceived.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I know a man who is like that

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello, I personally think it's not that you're "more picky", but that this girl is not a person worthy of your birthday gift for a lifetime. Internet friends who have never met, people who have no deep contact open their mouths to ask for such expensive gifts, it is obvious that she is a girl who does not understand affection, an unstable girl. She doesn't deserve your continued deep friendship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Such a girl is too casual, under normal circumstances, she will not take the initiative to ask others to send her things (except for her boyfriend), it is normal for you to refuse her, and it will not show that you are slamming the door.

    Such a girl really has no value in knowing, and she has to give her something if she doesn't know each other for a few days, and she doesn't know if it's true or not.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You do this very correctly, I'm afraid that she is a **, brother, don't fall in love online, it's easy to be deceived, if you want to fall in love, find a girlfriend steadily, don't look for it online, ok? Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Can you please smile and give points?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You did the right thing decisively, now there are a lot of **, maybe it's a man sitting in front of the computer and chatting with you, maybe love is based on feelings, and money is the scaffold. If you don't even have a foundation, what is it? Skins and skins traded?

    So what you did is very right, don't pick the door with you, call it cautious.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not worth it! She's testing if you have any money! If you give it to her, you will ask for more expensive in the future! Someone like this will follow you if she gives her something valuable! It's okay to play! Don't come for real.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    To be a master, you must always grasp the development of things in your own hands, don't let sudden things force you to accept, you bought her, can you have the bottom in your heart? What do you don't know about women now? If you are a man, you have to strategize and win a thousand miles!

    Hope you can understand!!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't send it, it's not worth knowing, you want something when you open your mouth, it's not good!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're going to be a fool if you give it away.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What to do about this, no matter how much money your ex-boyfriend transfers to you, he is also an ex-boyfriend, and now your boyfriend, you have to judge whether he really has no money and didn't give you a Valentine's Day gift, or if he has money but doesn't want to give you a gift. These two are very different. If he has money and doesn't want to give it away, then he can also become an ex-boyfriend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Give him back, two thousand dollars

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's up to you what you think. In the eyes of the rich, 2140 is just a number.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't understand what you're talking about, there's no cause and effect, and the plug ends with a sentence.

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