Help me with some real, practical advice about life decisions.

If you want to think about marginal quantity, you must have learned it.

See how much it will benefit you to go to graduate school more.

However, I personally think that the postgraduate entrance examination will not have much impact on the future work (unless it is highly professional). The employment rate of graduate and university students is not much different now. If you learn well, you don't have to worry about work.

Now the company is mainly strength and relationships. It's okay to hear you. Worrying about employment means that you are not capable.

Even if you are a graduate student, unless it is the kind of job that is chaotic, personal ability is the most important, don't always think about having a high degree. Your abilities are to be honed in society.

No matter what, it's all about making money, the competition is not fierce now, it's that college students are too high-minded and look down on any small unit, in fact, finding a place where they can give full play to their strength is the most important thing, that's right, now undergraduates can't find jobs, why? No practical experience! If you have the strength, it is feasible to take the postgraduate examination, but you must become famous as soon as possible, and you must enter the society as soon as possible.

It is more difficult for undergraduates to find a job. I don't go to graduate school, and I won't be able to find a good job when I come out."

Not necessarily ......I'll give you an analysis: if you want to go to graduate school, it will take two to three years, the higher the education, the better, and you have to consider your age and family problems......

If you don't go to graduate school, you can do it! Participate in social practice now, it will be easy to find employment in the future, and now you have to set your employment direction, if it is the best, then there is no worry. If you don't have a good decision, you have to decide quickly, it's best to take the four or six certificates now, and then there will be no big problem with employment, if you have good English, you want to take a higher level.

It's not difficult to get a job, but it's hard to get a job.

It's not enough for you to have a degree.

The ability of both men and women is of paramount importance.

Whether to test or not, weigh it according to what you know about yourself.

If you are admitted to graduate school, you may not be able to get a job.

This is a problem to face, what to say to your wife, it depends on your determination, you also have children, you don't think about it as little as before, after you think about it, you will naturally know how to tell your wife, just because your determination is not enough, your wife will stop you, will not have confidence in you, figure it out for yourself, no one can help you, because this is your family, your parents, your wife, your daughter.

Important life decisions, are they important?

Maybe after a few years you feel that that decision is not so important in your life.

If you think back to your previous life, you may understand.

When you look at it as an outsider, you may feel that the entanglement at that time is not so meaningful.

Send you a word, just do it. Act now, focus on the future.

You are cautious, not hesitant, don't be too pessimistic.

The true meaning of life is to pursue things that make you happy, and to work hard for them, and know how to be satisfiedIf you think that ordinary is happiness, then you can find a person like you, who lives a life in peace and stability, and does not envy the vigor of others, so watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court.

If you think that pursuing something will make you happy, then put in the effort, give the same sweat and tears as happiness, pursue such a thing, and then enjoy such a thing, and think that it is the best.

I wrote the above only to find out that it was the same as the meaning expressed in another sentence Shame I don't write it Hee hee I believe the landlord understands what I wrote.

Rain is born from the sky, falls to the ground and dies, and the process in between is life. Life is a process, it has nothing to do with the beginning, nothing to do with the end, because life is your beginning, and death is your end.

The moment that embodies the value of life is the moment you close your eyes, inner peace and contentment. All kinds of inspirational books are teaching you how to succeed, but success is originally a matter of opinion, and what people should do in their life is to find their own success and realize their self-worth. Life is to give you the opportunity to realize yourself, and to seize this opportunity, you must torture your heart, what you really want, what role you should play in society, and these, as "The Secret" says, only you know.

All the power of people is in their own hearts, life is to find the power in the heart and release it, so that the process from life to death is full of beauty, until the temporary, I can comfortably tell myself that what I want to do has been done, I should compensate for it, I have no regrets. I think this kind of life has become worthwhile.

The above is a little personal thought, encouragement.

The true meaning of life may simply be for us to find our hearts. Happy, unhappy. Happy, painful.

It's all our hearts. Only with heart can there be life. Decades is too short for this world, life and death, since we are only arranged by God to come to this world to walk around, we will not take anything away and leave nothing.

Why bother caring so much. It is enough to find your own heart and keep your heart alive.

The true meaning is that no matter how painful and desperate you were before, it is your life!

The true meaning is that no matter how hard you work and are confused in the future, it is your life!

Face your life, learn to regulate your emotions, cherish the people around you, learn to be grateful, and learn to love yourself!

It depends on the angle from which you comprehend this true meaning. I think people come and go empty, in general, people just come to the world to walk once, just like a long dream, but this dream is woven by yourself, what kind of dream do you think is beautiful and tangled, choose for yourself. Since it's a dream, why not finish it beautifully.

Don't be so entangled, it's the same for yourself and everyone else.

No matter what happens in life, a happy life is the true meaning of life every day....Otherwise, life will have no meaning.

Suggestion: Have a grateful heart, a contented heart, a normal heart, treat some things with an optimistic attitude, and keep touching everything with love.

Enjoy the ups and downs of life, and be good at making fun of bitterness.

A heart of gratitude.

Take yourself and everything seriously. You will find that life is so simple in ordinary days.

To live freely, there is only this life in a person's life.

Just think about that paragraph, do you want to busy your life for the high-rise building, or go to live in the 3-foot thatched house and live a chic life?

I choose the latter.

My answer is just my perception of life, if you really want to know, you can feel it yourself.

Find a garbage bureau chief, extort him casually, you can work for two lifetimes, and the jackals will be fat this year.

In fact, what you want is a career with a high salary, no risk, and a relatively promising career, and you think about it comprehensively, but things in the world are not always perfect. What career has the most potential depends on your ability. The person who knows you best is yourself, and the right career is the best one.

See clearly what you need in your future life, and what kind of life do you want? So what does such a life need to do now? You'll be able to sort out your thoughts slowly.

Then concretize your dreams, and then divide them little by little, and achieve them step by step.

I'm 23, I want to go out after graduating from college and you, but I haven't left, I've been staying in this boring place to work, my classmates are better than me, and I'm not very stressed, but I think about it, now the so-called iron rice bowl is not very good, and you have a house, but this society is very realistic, you have to go out and do something, you have to have relationships, you have to have funds, you have to have interpersonal contacts, and you have to live by your mouth!! But I want to think about your situation, the personality is average, I advise you not to quit, the house is there, I don't know if I get married, I have to consider this, in addition, everyone is different, there are better than you, there will be worse than you, don't go out and break in! When you get married, decorate your house, save some money, and then think about starting a business, start a small business in terms of business, think about your hobbies and specialties, maybe it can be reflected!!

The so-called live for yourself, don't look at others! The human experience is not the same, remember!! Let's be a little more stable in this society.

I'm sorry I'm 23 talking to your 30's guy.

Don't go online to find answers, what can they tell you, who really understands you and cares about you, gives you the best advice, who do you go to if you regret it, do you blame netizens or yourself?

Go back and ask your parents and some other elders for their opinions, mainly your parents, they have not walked so much more than you in vain, they are also the people who really understand you and care about you, and then ask your friends around you, listen to the opinions of all parties and listen to all kinds of different voices.

Then, a person, think about it carefully, think about it seriously, don't be too harsh on your current work, don't be overly enthusiastic about wandering the rivers and lakes, think about it objectively, you can take a piece of paper, write the reason for resignation on the left, write the reason for not resigning on the right, write everything you think, no matter how small it is, and then think about it, if gaining and losing are inevitable, how will you choose.

As a reminder, if you do resign, please have a little more specific direction for the future, and no matter what choice you make, you can't regret it.

If the heart is in a dream, the key is to have self-confidence, failure is not terrible, the most terrible when you dare not act, people can fail many times in their lives, but success once is enough! Look at the founders of KFC! It was founded at the age of 60 and completed at the age of 80!

Now is the economic crisis, opportunities and challenges coexist! By the way, what do you do? If there is an endowment insurance, if you don't want to be rich and rich, marry a wife and have children, you can live a lifetime of ordinary people!

It is a poor middle-aged life, carefree in old age, happy and healthy!

It is recommended that you do not resign. Although it is said that life has to fight hard, but your shortcoming is a fatal injury, don't take risks, go out if you don't do a good job from 0. It would be painful at that time! It is advisable not to go out. Be thoughtful and sensible.

Friend, you don't have to be impulsive, just keep this job. It's not easy to break into the world outside, these shortcomings of yours are not tolerated as a modern person, and if you really quit this job, the troubles you bring are endless. Besides, you are all thirty, how many thirty can you have in your life!

I am in favor of breaking in, young people should, but always consider their own character.

Character determines destiny.

Listen to the opinions of the elderly, and they will tell you with their life experience.

If it's not suitable for you, then take a posture and work hard.

It's not easy to have a stable job, so settle down early, and you won't have to worry about it--- experience.

You can only get where you want to go!

Thirty years old is not very old, so let's go ahead while you still have the strength to do it.

Don't take success or failure too seriously, what matters is what you get in the end.

30 is not too big. You can go if you want to. Think about what you want to do. This is important. When the time comes, take a month's off to do it. Resign when you feel better; If you don't feel good, forget it.

You have to make a move when it's time to shoot, and don't move when you shouldn't.

First of all, we must choose a community. The size of the community directly affects the grade of the community, and the high-rise in the villa is naturally much better than the high-rise environment and supporting facilities of the ordinary community, for example, for example, the small high-rise villa area of Guanghua Ana Xihu in Chongqing Chayuan New District, the ecological lake environment in the community is incomparable with the general real estate.

Also choose the type and style. Classical or modern, Shouyuliang Western or Chinese, no matter what the style, only if it is done very to the rough position, can it remain classic, and the house design is the most comfortable classic house type with good dynamic and static partitions, dry and wet partitions.

Having said that, the actual situation is up to you to decide.

First of all, you have to recall the happiest and most wonderful memories of your 21-year-old life, unforgettable.

Secondly, you have to think about how many times in your life you have been in a situation of "never give up, no matter what, no matter what", and think about what these times are for.

Also, if you want to turn on a TV with 500 channels and see the last one from the first one, which ones do you like?

Then, you need to recall some of the things that you feel most accomplished about, or that make you feel that you are the most successful, the most gratifying, the most refreshed, the most memorable, and the most wanting to show off.

To sum up, these memories are a kind of carpet scanning of all the experiences in your life, so that you can initially know what kind of path your body and soul are suitable for, and what kind of life you are suitable for.

Maybe sometimes you find the answer you want in your memories. If you don't have an answer yet, then I'll continue to say it another day, it's not early today.

Hopefully, the following tips have inspired you:

Suggestion 1: Most people will eventually start a family and dedicate their lives to it.

In that case, aim to "find your partner."

Or when you find the woman you love, you will understand what you should do;

"Love" can make people "reborn", and it can also greatly improve a person's "willpower".

Suggestion 2: Take a shower first;

Sit or lie down gently;

Close your eyes and take a deep breath to calm your mind;

Slowly imagine in your mind a happy life in the future ...

It's okay if you're still young and can't think about it, and if you think about it every day when you go to bed, you will think about it one day (that is your goal or dream).