What do you want to do to find your partner?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I don't have any substantive requirements for finding the other half, that is, my girlfriend, as long as I have a better personality, know how to have self-esteem and self-discipline, and other eyes are fine, the main thing is that each other's personalities are suitable, and we can feel happy and happy together, and tolerate each other, so that we can go to the end and love can last for a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My requirements for finding a boyfriend are actually not too high, taller than me, clean, and similar to me, male. There are no other special requirements, in my opinion, the most important thing is the three views, I am fed up with every blind date when my mother introduces the object is a group of old antiques, when it comes to fitness, it is a lie, and when it comes to travel, I think it is a waste of money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When looking for a girlfriend, you can only look at your appearance, but marrying a wife must require a virtuous lady, because a wife is with you for a lifetime, and it is very important to find a suitable personality.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The original requirement was to be beautiful, beautiful, kind and generous, because of the cruel reality, now the standard is that the other party is a person of the opposite sex.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Mature, stable and self-motivated. 2. Optimistic, cheerful and open-minded. 3. Have a kind heart and a good attitude. 4. Be filial to your parents and respect your elders.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People nowadays are also very realistic, so don't say high-sounding words! When I am looking for a boyfriend, I must have a car and a house, a stable job, or a skill to support my family. And to be responsible, to be filial to your parents, of course, you must be good to me!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, we must be responsible and self-motivated, be more filial, and the most important thing is to be good to me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When I look for my other half, I must find someone who has a sense of responsibility, not necessarily a lot of money, but a sense of responsibility.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's okay to look good, but you must have quality and a stable job.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Savvy and literate. Be able to help yourself in your career.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's be honored! 1.The other party's attitude towards me and others: I hope that the other party can respect and respect my parents, treat friends politely, do not fork in the road, do not violate my own beliefs, and the relationship should be sincere.

    2.Attitude towards feelings: the person I like should pay attention to me, don't let me down, and face everything openly; Be honest with each other, trust each other, and sometimes read each other's minds is a top priority.

    3.There are no interactive characteristics: there should be sweet time in life together, the other party needs to be good at interaction, constantly seek one or two plus points from it, give us a distinction between sweetness and justice, and learn to bring vitality to our fun.

    4.Intimacy and space: Love should be able to give us a comfortable sense of balance or security, with mutual concessions, but don't put your own world on each other too big, respect each other's independence, and cultivate self is also very important.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. Friend introductionFirst of all, you have to show the friends around you that you are single and you want to end being single. At this time, you have a good relationship with a friend, and the friend is just right, and there is a friend of the opposite sex who has a good relationship with you who is single, and the friend thinks that your conditions are more suitable, and will introduce you to you. If both parties feel good after meeting, they should get along well, don't step on two boats, or have a playful mentality, which will not only lose a good marriage, but also may lose a good friend.

    2. Classmates and colleagues are relatively familiar with each other's group, they get along day and night, if you like the single opposite sex around you, don't be shy, find company leaders or friends who have a good relationship with each other to be old, pull the line, as long as they are not too bad, the other party generally will not refuse, looking for a boyfriend to find a partner is to take the initiative, boys and girls are too shy can not do it. 3. If you want to find the right person for various activities, it is not possible to stay at home. Some cities always organize blind dates, tours, hiking, mountaineering and other activities from time to time, and single people should actively participate in the activities and perform well in the activities, maybe they can find their favorite other half.

    How to find a partner How to find the right person 4, I believe that many girls find a boyfriend and a boy find a partner unsuccessfully, and they often feel discouraged, but being single does not mean that they are not excellent. We can't deny our charm because we can't get the favor of love for a long time, we have to believe that we are excellent, and everyone's love flowering period is different. You have to be confident and believe that love will always come when you don't expect it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To learn how to communicate with girls, we should pay attention to how to contact girls and master the correct methods. To be able to win the hearts of girls, you must first have a good external image, and it is very important to pay attention to your own clothing. A man should have a career and have a certain strength, so that a man can successfully find a girlfriend and get rid of his single life.

    Participate in more activities, contact more people outside, expand your circle of friends appropriately, and strive to meet the right people. In normal times, don't let your personality be too inward, too boring personality may also hinder your development on the emotional path.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The other half of your life may be looking back inadvertently. Maintain a good optimistic and positive attitude towards life every day, and people will naturally gather around you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to improve yourself, make yourself good, and then go and exude a beautiful new art. Of course, wipe your face, your eyes, don't find a scumbag, a scumbag.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Friends, relatives, teachers, classmates, pick-ups, professional platform organizations, casual fate, public welfare, clubs, Weibo, etc., nothing is unexpected, only too lazy to find.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell your relatives and friends about your conditions and requirements, and let everyone help you together.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Improve your quality and temperament, expand your circle of friends, and participate in some party activities.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, if we want to find our other half, we generally need to know some of our own strengths and weaknesses, because what we need is complementary, if it is exactly the same as our personality and other strengths and weaknesses, then it is difficult to find the right one, and it is easy to quarrel.

    Secondly, if we want to find our other half, we also need to see if the other party can accept our shortcomings, if the other party can accept our shortcomings, then we can say that we have found the right half of our partners.

    After that, if we want to find our other half, we also need to see if we can tolerate the other person's personality and other shortcomings, if the other party's personality and other shortcomings can also be accepted by us, obviously we have found our other half.

    Then, if we want to find our other half, we also need to see if we are both honest with each other, because as long as one party is not honest with each other, obviously, it can be said that we are not looking for our other half, because only by being honest with each other can we compare our hearts with each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My request to my partner is that no matter how busy you are, there must be greetings, as long as you know that you are safe, but you can't go all day without saying a word.

    Every couple of lovers has different feelings and requirements when they get along with each other. The reason why I say this is because I have personal experience, and that kind of "worry" is really hard to suffer, and all kinds of reverie in my head.

    Tell me about my experience:

    My boyfriend and I met at a friend's party after joining the job, it was love at first sight, his talent attracted me, and my quietness attracted him. After about half a year together, the relationship was established and we had a common goal. In this way, we are all working hard for each other's careers and working together in order to enter the marriage hall.

    The two of us sometimes don't see each other for a week, but we know each other tacitly, and he will send some messages every day to report his safety, talk about some things in work and life, and have endless topics. Overall, communication was good.

    But suddenly one day, he didn't send me a message, and I didn't want to bother him, for fear that he would be embarrassed if he had something to do. In this way, time passed little by little, and my heart was in infinite torment, and even all kinds of reverie: Do you not love me anymore?

    Or what's wrong with the drive? Or are you having a hard time at work? Or what happened to his parents?

    In short, it's a hundred thousand whys, which makes me exhausted, and I can't sleep all night, but I don't want to bother (personality reasons).

    The next day, he called me early in the morning, and at first I didn't say a word, and he could see that I was angry. Explained that it was because I went out to socialize, but I drank too much. After about 20 minutes, I decided that not talking was the right way to do it, and I said:

    No matter how busy you are in the future, what is going on, or if you are drunk and wake up in the middle of the night, you must remember to send me a message to report safety. My boyfriend expressed understanding and was ashamed, because he knew that I had her in my heart.

    Although everyone is an individual and has their own ideas and requirements, these slides can be understood by the party. But as a partner, you should learn to communicate well and be honest with each other, only in this way can the problem be solved, and the road to love will be smoother.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    For the other half, our most basic requirement is to have good character and a sense of responsibility.

    In this way, when we communicate and get along more smoothly, we can truly respect and understand each other, and think more from each other's point of view, so that we can help each other, and we can make our future life happier and happier.

    1.Clarity. Whether speaking or writing, clearly communicating your message and goals is the first step, both verbally and emotifially.

    Think before you speak: Why are you communicating with the other person? If you are not sure about yourself, it will be more difficult for the other person to be sure of your expressed opinions and ideas.

    2.Succinct. If you want the other person to understand what you're talking about, remove unnecessary information. Don't go around and around, if you can express it in 3 sentences, don't use 6 sentences.

    3.Accurate. Accuracy here refers to being able to make the other party understand accurately. The vocabulary and language you use should be accurate, and your descriptions should be so that the other party does not have a bias in their understanding.

    4.Coherent. Your statement needs to be inherently logical. All the points you say need to be connected so that they are more conducive to the topic you are elaborating.

    5.Complete. If your statement is complete, the other party will not miss your message or meaning, for example, when you explain the background of a thing, you need to tell the other person what to do, and what conditions and preparations he needs to have to do it.

    6.Humility. Polite and humble communication is not only friendly in attitude, but also polite and sincere, without hidden denial and inactivity, and there is no passive communication. When you respond to the other person, their opinion has been fully respected and considered.

    Thinking clearly about your purpose also enables you to quickly redirect the communication back to the direction you want in the communication process once there is a conversation that deviates from the purpose, and avoid falling into meaningless and ineffective communication.

    7.Conscientious. You can show that you are listening to the other person by giving a prompt response verbally, by nodding his head and looking at him sincerely, or by asking questions about what is in the other person's words.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When I was in love, I would choose to talk to my parents about my thoughts, and my parents would give me a lot of advice, which I think is very good, because I am young after all, and some things are not well thought out, and my parents just use their experience to tell me what to do?

    In real life, people's views on mate selection are different, the conditions for mate selection are very different, and the number of mate selection strips and limbs is also very different, which is normal, because everyone's own conditions are different, and the living environment, life feelings, and life pursuits are also different. However, no matter who chooses a mate, they should at least consider each other from the following aspects, and consider themselves at the same time.

    Love or not, how much love. There is no love and there should be no marriage. Love should be a prerequisite and a necessary foundation for marriage.

    Most people can't "fall in love at first sight", but Bi Zhu Hui is that when they meet for the first time or don't get along for a long time, they at least have "feelings", excitement, heartbeat, impulsiveness, and like. It is the happiest thing to find a person who loves you deeply and you love deeply, it is the most helpless thing to find a person who loves you and you don't love or you don't love yourself and you love yourself, and it is the saddest thing to find someone who doesn't love each other. Whether you love each other or not and whether the other party loves you or not is the first and most important condition and factor for both parties to consider.

    If both parties love each other deeply, other conditions can be diluted, and parents should also support and bless them. Because this is the most important foundation for marital happiness, it is also a result of many other conditions.

    Character. Whether it is decent, loyal, upright, healthy, whether there is bad luxury, whether it is optimistic, whether there are personality defects, etc. Character, also known as "virtue", is the most important and basic quality of a person.

    In examining the object of love, we should first examine his morality in the same way that our party examines cadres, and we should put morality first. Only with virtue can you succeed, it is difficult to achieve without virtue without talent, and it is easy to do bad things without virtue without talent.

    Ability. Examine their academic qualifications, the basis of their development, their current performance, the differences among their peers, the current status of their development, their dedication, responsibility, gratitude and love of learning, and their potential for development. Due to the relative youth, it is usually difficult to find a realistic "high-performance stock", so you should work hard to find a "potential stock".

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