Ask a love expert to help me analyze the problem?

Let me tell you that this kind of thing is a thing that requires managers to go through a lot of run-in periods, there is a hazy period, a hot period, and a dull period. It's all like this, in fact, after five years of love, you don't have the same kind of fanaticism as before, because you already know each other and know each other well, so on the bright side, your relationship is already very stable, this is a very good thing, but what is happening to you now can be said to happen in every couple, don't make too much fuss, this is normal, but on the girl's side, to be honest, women are becoming more and more practical as they get older, More and more aware of what she needs, she said that she wants to buy a house and get married again, which shows that she has grown up, and she is no longer the little girl she used to be, she takes marriage very seriously, in short, both of you have a reason Both of you have a little grumpy, and you don't know how to let each other go, you are even more, girls are used to hurt, how can you be angry with him for such a small thing? A girl who follows you when you have nothing, she loves you very much, believe me, if you still want this love, if you still love her, cherish her.

The little things in life should be let her from time to time, she will feel it, if you really do it, your relationship will be the same as before, and she said about buying a house, to be honest, we are men, the house is very important to a family, if you really love her, give her a promise... And then work towards that goal!! You will be the happiest couple ...

Best wishes to you!! Don't make any more trouble with the little couple.,,Put it well.。。。 Hehe..

I haven't lived your life of two people, but I can understand your feelings. Often as a bystander, there is much more truth than experience. You have been together for so many years, and you have lived together, in fact, it is no different from married life, but you are still young, and many things cannot be completely let go.

It is inevitable that two people will be noisy together, and they must know how to accept and let go. Don't mention the breakup at every turn, if you break up too much, two people will be numb, although the relationship will become dull, but you still need two people to work together to manage it.

I am also a Beipiao family, but I have always lived a single life, and with my sisters, I don't have so many emotional troubles and troubles, but sometimes it is inevitable to breed a lot of envy. It's not easy for you to be together, the pressure in this city is so great, the pressure on men is even greater, many men are discouraged from marriage, in addition to an unruly heart in a big city, there are many economic inconfidences, you can share weal and woe together to get to the present is not easy, there are no principled substantive contradictions and problems that still need you to tolerate and understand each other. Learn to communicate, if there are any concerns and contradictions, two people sit together to communicate, and express their dissatisfaction, which can enhance mutual understanding and feelings.

And sometimes, small things, men have to get by, women love to play small, and it is better to treat her as a child at that time.

As a North Drifter man, I know that you have a great responsibility, sometimes the pressure is overwhelming, learn to be satisfied with yourself, think about the challenging city you have established, you have a lover who has been with you for 5 years, so complete, so lucky, what else can not be let go.

I've always adhered to one credo: normalcy. This gives me a lot of feelings of calm and contentment. Look at those ordinary and extraordinary things in the world with a normal heart, do not give up ideals, and believe in your heart that with love, your world is perfect, and you are the happiest.

I wish your love run to fruition as soon as possible.

Both men and women will have their own troubles, but they can't be solved, and they will only find the person closest to them to vent, but he won't hurt you, will he? Sit down and have a good talk, my girlfriend and I too, also dropped things, but after talking, let me understand her, never like this again, the quarrel is nothing more than the socks are not washed or something, it's very interesting, if he really loves you, you might as well sit down and talk about it, let him know that you understand him very well, men are like this, there will always be a feeling that women don't understand themselves, in fact, the most understanding is the woman herself, I wish you all to get better.

In fact, love is fire, and it turns to ashes after burning violently. In fact, love does not last very long, maybe you get married and understand that marriage is actually just to keep the relationship between two people, and the previous situation will change a lot! I think your love is gone, and now only feelings remain.

If you get married early, maybe you will keep this love, if it goes on like this, your relationship will also go away unconsciously, I hope you can understand!

Hey, I can understand you.

I'm a mm, and my boyfriend doesn't have a house and his job is unstable.

I've seen his parents, he's met mine, and his parents like me, but my parents don't like him because his family is not in good condition and his job is unstable.

But I never told him what my parents thought of him, because I was afraid that he would be as stressed as you are.

Actually, it's not that he doesn't want you, maybe he's the same as me, sometimes the family says something to her, and she doesn't tell you well, she will also think that you don't understand her, the two of you still lack communication, sit down and talk. Tell the other person everything you want to say, and it is recommended to change the tone and tone of your voice, and restrain yourself

Generally, if you have lived together for three years or more. They know each other so well that everyone knows what kind of person each other is. No one will hide their shortcomings. Basically, if you have been together for too long, you will not enter the palace of marriage!

I don't love it enough. Or you just don't have love at all. It's because we need each other to come together! Really loved, no matter what he does, you will support it! He should be happy at all times

I thought, how can you drop something every time you fight, you're a man, aren't you? What is the air in the whole room frozen, I feel so uncomfortable, I can't stand this, so I came out with my schoolbag and spent the night outside.? What does this mean, I can only say that you have no faith in your relationship with you.

To love him or her is to love everything about him or her. Both the advantages and the disadvantages!

We're in the same situation, and I'm annoyed

There is no analysis, it is you who study well for yourself, if she doesn't know what you are doing these things for, and she leaves you just because of a short period of companionship, I think, she is not suitable to accompany you through the road of life.

Do your own thing first, as for her, it's okay to see her once or twice a week, she has to continue to talk to others, you can only give up on her, abandon me, I never stay, what about you?

It is a drop of glory to study hard for my wife.

But don't forget that everything should be based on your wife, and if you can't have the idea that you can give up everything for your wife, you shouldn't be too strict with your wife, let alone just a girlfriend.

Caring a little more, taking care of and tolerating your girlfriend is a necessary responsibility, apply actions to tell her that you love her very much, slowly win her love, give her full freedom and full of sincere blessings, and always and forever protect her with love.

I can understand that you have such troubles, feelings are like this, but as a man I think you should be more sensible, there is nothing wrong with you liking her, and I feel that you like her very, very much, but can you confirm that her feelings for you are the same, through what you said, I feel that you have done what a man should do, if you start a family, you must be a good husband, if I were a girl, I would like to marry you, but she is not, what is the problem, or your attitude towards her is not what she wants, Either you are not the one in her heart, that is, he doesn't feel it, maybe you have been together for too long, there is no feeling of love, you have already done what you should do, it is enough, if this relationship is still far away from you, then I think you should know how to do it next, remember a sentence, feelings are not forced.

Men are either a beauty with one hand or two hands empty-handed, but I think it's better to study hard First, show her Second, if you break up in the future, you can find an ideal job Maybe you can find a better girl than this in the unit (men are the most handsome when they work) But in your case, I advise you to either go to see her and snatch her over, but I think the chance should not be big My girlfriend was very similar to you at the time also came out to play with me when she had a boyfriend (at that time she had a relationship with his boyfriend and you are now) and finally became my girlfriend You are now your girlfriend may not be very interested in you I advise you to let go Find a girl around you to start If you are unwilling, it only depends on whether you have the confidence to snatch her over.

In these years, you may not be able to see what is in front of you, let alone the remote ones, how tired you are.

Dude, there is no grass at the end of the world

Concentrate on your studies and do well in your studies

In the future, I will have my own ideal career, what woman doesn't have It's a good idea

Sit down with her and have a good talk, exchange ideas, and find out what the problem is, so that you can effectively solve your problems. Now that you have established a relationship, the most important thing is trust and loyalty, talk openly and honestly, show how much you love her, and show that you don't like your girlfriend's attitude of getting too close to other guys. In short, don't be angry when something goes wrong, talk about it well.

Studying is always the best excuse. Don't be with her anymore.

You should first train your self-confidence.

Sometimes you take a person too seriously, and it can be counterproductive, and I am an example, a friend of mine has liked me since he was a child, and it has been more than ten years, and I have a crush on him, but we haven't talked about it, mainly because I always think he is very clingy, but her conditions are really good for me, and I have nothing to say, but I also feel that my own conditions are also very good, and I don't want to give up a forest for a tree so early, so others pursue me, and I think I want to try it when I see that the other party's conditions are very good But if you try more, you will find that other men just like me to be beautiful, but none of them are really good to me Now my mind is full of him I really regret it But I won't be so shameless to go back to him because I know that after so much he won't take me seriously I think if there is a fate, maybe we will come together The only thing I can do now is to hope that in front of it I can still keep the pride and self-esteem I used to have in front of him Having said so much Although that girl doesn't know how to cherish your goodness But you also have to remember that men must have their own personalities, don't always be too passive, so girls will also think that you are unproductive, can't protect him, and you can't see the future with you, and finally I wish you happiness, hehe、、、

When that kind of thing first happens, it means that people's hearts are not fixed on you at all. It's not your problem, it's that your girlfriend's heart is still floating. And now Ken is willing to keep you from getting so close to that man, maybe she is also changing for you...

But maybe you should ask her about how much she loves you, and if she's still so floating, maybe you shouldn't be addicted to it. This will only hurt yourself.

Break up, reluctant love is not sweet!

If you love someone, you must at least believe in her!! Even if it will break up in the end! That can only say that I can't tie her heart! Have your own space with each other! Try to get romantic! This will always bring us closer to each other.

Don't dwell on the past, cherish what is in front of you.

There are some secrets in love that cannot be told, and white lies are also a kind of responsibility for feelings. Do something practical to make your girlfriend feel your love for her, your reluctance to give up on her, and she will figure it out after a long time.

First, don't mention B in front of A now, including comfort, explanation, and so on. Second, don't talk about old and new loves, and pretend to be confused about similar topics caused by A. Third, Duo and Jia paint a picture of a better life in the future.

Fourth, don't swear to make a difference with B. Fifth, emphasize the place of nail in your heart, and remember: women are used to coax.

Send her the questions you are asking and what everyone is saying, and see if she responds.

This is a knot in her heart, and she must wait for her to untie it herself.

What you can do is to accompany her with your sincerity.

Seriously, sometimes when I see my boyfriend and her ex-girlfriend's **, my heart is still a little sour.

But that was already in the past, and I chose to seal my past, and he didn't mention it again, because we have a more important present and future that we want to grasp.

Your girlfriend cares, which shows that she cares about you, but sometimes caring too much can cause trouble to you.

I think you should talk to her.

You have to tell her that since you are with her, you will always put her first, and there is no place for nostalgia for your previous relationship.

You tell her that it is really because you are with her that you feel the temperature of happiness more deeply.

You can tell her that there is no way we can regret what happened in the past, but you are most fortunate to be with her now.

One last piece of advice, don't have contact with your ex-girlfriend again, and don't even accidentally or unintentionally.

Schoolgirls are very sensitive.

Well, I wish you all happiness.

And take her out to play more.