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Blindly obeying, seeing that their parents are at fault and not persuading, so that they fall into injustice, is the first type of unfilial piety.
The family is poor, and the parents are old, but they do not go to the official to eat money to support their parents, which is the second kind of unfilial piety.
Not marrying a wife and having children, cutting off offspring, this is the third type of unfilial piety. That is what Mencius called the greatest unfilial piety.
Do the above three well. There are 3 of them.
Next: 4 Help parents do what they can.
5 When you were a child, your parents thought about you, and when you grow up, you should think about your parents' future, and it's time for you to arrange your parents' life in their old age!
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As long as you can make your parents happy and don't cause trouble for them, you should be considered filial.
I think that if you want to use simple things to evaluate, you can't say that you can't say that you are filial, this is only filial piety.
I'll tell you a few things I did to my parents that touched them.
1.On your parents' birthdays, bring a basin of warm water and wash their feet.
2.As long as it is a festival that the elders pay attention to, be sure to accompany them at home.
3.I have time to go out for a walk with them, after all, when they are older, their legs and feet will not be as spiritual as when they were young, but they still have a young heart.
4.If you are going to travel a lot, you must keep your parents safe. There is an old Chinese saying that a child is worried about a thousand miles away.
5.Don't always party late at night with friends on your birthday, remember that it's also Good Friday.
Filial piety is not to be praised, this is our responsibility.
I wish the landlord's parents good health
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Serve tea and pour water, often call your parents to ask if you are healthy, ask your parents if you need them when you buy things, often find time to go home to see your parents, and occasionally help your parents cook and do housework, there are many filial things.
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1.If you go out, go back more ** and care about your parents.
2.If you don't go home often, give your parents some gifts when you go back.
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You won't dislike them when they're old, and you always go home to see them, which is filial piety.
Take my grandfather as an example, six children, the most filial only the eldest uncle, the eldest aunt and my father, the eldest uncle will go back to grandpa's house every day to see grandpa, the eldest aunt cooks food for grandpa every day, and my father is too, almost every day will go back to grandpa's house to accompany him, others will only come back occasionally to sit and sit, even if the eldest aunt and second aunt usually rub mahjong, they will not go back to grandpa's house to see grandpa, so I often feel that the eldest aunt and second aunt are not as good as the eldest aunt, although they are biological, but the biological is not as good as the daughter-in-law who married.
The key lies in your heart, if you have a heart, you can find the needs of your parents and meet the needs of your parents, and it is difficult to be filial. For example, how much money you spend on your parents every month is filial piety, there is no such thing, and the situation of each family is different. The only thing I can be sure of is that truly filial people will never ask such questions and will not come to places like the Internet to seek answers, if there are really parents in their hearts, what they see in their eyes and what they think in their hearts are countless things that can be done for their parents, ** and need to ask.
What is filial piety? Filial piety is loving one's parents. When you love your parents, you will think of them from time to time, and you will inadvertently do something that can express your love.
Even if you can't express it, you won't be seen or praised by others, you won't care because you know you love them. That's what you think when you're filial to your parents.
Filial piety is a kind of morality and code of conduct, which is to be grateful to parents, everyone must abide by it, and to keep filial piety, it is necessary to be filial. However, Shun is different, this is the process of implementing the requirements of the elders, in this process, there is right, wrong, right and wrong, for the correct requirements, the Shun must be smooth, for the wrong, can not be Shun resolutely can not be Shun. If you ignore the consequences of things and blindly obey for the sake of filial piety, which causes backfire consequences, then it is not filial piety in the true sense.
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Filial piety atmosphere: filial piety and obedience Filial piety is to repay the nurturing grace of parents, obedience is obedience, obedience cannot be foolish.
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True filial piety is not to give parents a lot of money, to send all the delicacies to their parents, but to be able to take time to accompany their parents, so that the elderly are not lonely, can meet the wishes of the elderly, and are not stupid, this is the real filial piety.
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Filial piety is divided into three levels, one is small filial piety, which is completed with physical strength, the second is filial piety, which is completed with merit, and the third is great filial piety, that is, never lacking, so that people in the world can always maintain the spirit of filial piety and filial piety. Parents love us, and children must be happy and dare not forget; Parents dislike us, and children should be vigilant and not complain; When parents make mistakes, they should give them advice and not disobey them.
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True filial piety is to let parents have no worries about food and clothing, to try to spend more time with them, and talk to them about family or trivial matters in life, because when people are old, what they need most is the company of their children.
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Filial piety is a Chinese virtue, and true filial piety is not foolishness, but respecting the ideas of parents, and then trying to meet the requirements of parents without affecting their own wishes, and understanding the good intentions of parents.
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I think the real thing is that filial piety is not just about giving money, but more about spending a lot of time with your parents, not letting them feel lonely, and not disliking them when they are old.
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I think that true filial piety is not to let your parents worry about you, and to spend more time with your parents when you are able, take care of their lives, and let them live happily and happily.
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I think the real filial piety is to accompany the elderly more, for parents, family by their side, even if they can't say a few words, just look at it, is their greatest wish, so filial piety is to accompany them more.
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Work next to your parents or visit them often.
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True filial piety is to be able to accompany your parents as soon as possible when your parents feel lonely, care about your parents from time to time, and always think about your parents' joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
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True filial piety means that in the process of work, life, study, making friends, etc., we should not forget our parents every step we take, and we dare not forget our parents every time we speak. That is, to walk in the right way, not in the evil way; Be careful in your words and deeds, and do not insult your reputation or disgrace your parents.
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Take care of your body and don't do anything illegal, this is the greatest filial piety.
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Love your parents the way they like.
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I have a successful career, a harmonious family, and good health is the greatest filial piety, and of course, I need to always be by my parents' side and support my parents in person.
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Filial piety is a very good quality, and a filial person sees that it is not easy for his parents to raise him, and he must be a person who knows how to be grateful.
Such a person will not only be grateful to his parents for their nurturing grace, but also grateful for everyone's help to him, so they are very good to those who are good to him, so that he will have a lot of good karma, and others will be more willing to help him, a virtuous circle, you can make your life smooth, and make yourself very easy to succeed.
If a person is very unfilial, then he must be a person who does not know how to be grateful, such a person is unwilling to suffer a little loss, unwilling to let his interests suffer a little loss, always want to take advantage everywhere, such a person in the world for a long time, people will know what kind of person he is, as the saying goes, money is scattered, money gathers and people scatter, although such a person seems to be not a loss, is very shrewd, but no one wants to work with such a person for a long time.
Only those who look stupid and always let others take advantage of themselves can make more and more people willing to cooperate with him, so you see, which kind of person is more likely to succeed?
To be a man, we must be filial, our parents not only gave us life, led us to this world, but also raised us, can be said to be the best person for us, if the best person for yourself can not make you grateful, then you are not worthy of people's interaction, for a long time can only be a cocoon, success will naturally be far away.
And those who look stupid, let others take advantage of them, and those who know how to reciprocate, will have more and more people willing to help him and work with him, and success will naturally be easy, and big things will be done unconsciously.
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As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, and the old saying is that a family is as old as a treasure. An important reason for having more children when you are young is that you hope to get more filial piety when you are old. At the same time, as children, when their parents are old, especially during the New Year's holidays, they will gather together to accompany the elderly and gain more filial piety.
The eldest cooks for everyone, the second helps the eldest to help, and the young give their parents exquisite gifts to win the joy of their parents, everything is so fine. However, when the elderly's body is no longer strong and they can't even take care of themselves, and many of them need their children to take care of them, maybe some problems will come to the surface immediately.
The ages, personalities, and abilities of the children are very different, so how to take care of their parents will always be a difficult problem in their hearts. After ruling out the possibility of hiring a nanny, the question is how to divide the labor, and each person takes turns to take care of each other for a month? In fact, no matter how the division of labor, there will inevitably be a problem:
"Compare with each other" means that you will always compare your efforts to take care of your parents with those of other siblings, and your care for your parents will be reduced. The root cause of this generally comes from the preference of the elderly for individual children or the degree of adaptation of the elderly to a certain child, so I will not discuss it too much here. But here it is important to emphasize:
No matter how many brothers and sisters there are, filial piety to parents should be based on the fact that if your parents only have one child, you should do it, and should not be disturbed by their stuffy factors.
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True filial piety is to devote oneself to one's parents' spine and at the same time obey their parents' will. Willing to spend time or expense with their parents, willing to patiently communicate with their parents, exchange ideas with each other, and truly go to each other's hearts. Let parents live happily and easily.
Nowadays, many people are busy with work and life, and will send money to their parents every once in a while, in their hearts, giving their parents material needs is a manifestation of filial piety, in fact, there are many elderly people who are very lonely in their later years.
Need the company of family members, need words and spiritual communication, money is no longer important to them, so the giving of money is often not better than accompanying parents, this is the real filial piety.
The meaning of filial piety:
Caring for life and being spiritually obedient does not mean blind obedience. Although parents have their parents' defects, their starting point is for the good of their children; Even if you encounter a matter of principle, why not say a few words in your heart. It's useless to be hard-mouthed, it just hurts the kindness of your parents.
In fact, from the moment we were born, the countdown to filial piety to our parents has begun. Few parents live with their children unless they are helping to take care of them. It's not that they don't want to, it's not that they're not used to it, they are afraid that the feast shouting is disturbing, but we are often happy to be quiet.
We are also gradually learning how to get along with our parents. Material filial piety is getting easier and easier, but spiritual obedience has a long way to go. Parents are getting old, and they do it and cherish it.
Wages have been raised, although not much.
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