Seeking Balance Ask for the help of the heart 5

You're a bit of a loser.

Think about it in your heart and move with your heart.

If you look down on the gains and losses, your heart will be balanced.

Love is like a scale, with different men and women at both ends, reaching a balance in seemingly independent but interdependence, no matter which of the two sides increases in weight, it will only be an imbalance of love. Love is an extremely elegant handwriting, but once it collides with men and women, there is always a little helplessness and heavy taste. In fact, the taste of love should be sweet rather than sad, the key is how to find a fulcrum of love balance.

Love is like a scale, when the weight of one party's sorrow increases, the other party must add the same weight of care, when the happiness of one party increases, the other party must add the same weight of happiness, and when the weight of one party depends on increases, the other party must add the same quality of the quality of the shoulder to rely on. When one partner is helpless to increase, the other party must add the same weight of care, so as to maintain the balance of love. The addition and subtraction of love is actually an esoteric math problem, because it is difficult to grasp the amount of emotion added or subtracted by one party.

Only by feeling and thinking with your heart can you find a balanced fulcrum. Love is like a scale, when the weight of one side increases, perhaps, we can move the nut to tilt it towards the other to maintain balance, however, one of them must be tolerant enough to understand and accommodate this uneven situation. It's not the same feeling of grievance.

The logic of the lever balance of love is an ingenious solution. You have your own space, I also have my independent space, and then, in independent love, create a space that adapts to the common life of both parties. Love is an independent and interdependent construct, not a silent contribution of one person.

broke up, love scattered and fragmented into heart-wrenched pain, is it really just one person's fault? The happiness of love should be the interweaving of two bodies and one soul, girl, maybe there is really a lack of real understanding between you and me. Because it's really hard!

When the flowers bloomed, he turned around and looked back to know that the dream of the smoke and clouds had become empty, and when he was in the bright body, he was looking for the purity of the white blue and there were flaws, why? Love is a beautiful encounter, why do you have to end helplessly with sadness? Wouldn't it be better to seek a balanced fulcrum, more beauty, more sweet memories, more happiness, and more longevity? ...

When a lover is about this consequence, what is all a fart for a long time, as for the method of revenge, you can think for yourself.

People from birth, the more they see, the more they know, the more they think, the more pain they have, they want to open more, take a step back and the world is wide, the bitter sea is boundless, turn back to the shore, the sea vows and mountains will eventually become empty, the plain is the truest, the road of your life is still long, there is no need to drill the horns, let it pass in the past, you still have a better tomorrow.

Why do you need to do that......

I understand your unwillingness and anger, but don't punish yourself with his negativity and make yourself a resentful woman.

It's better to start life again, live better than him, and be more wonderful than him, which is the most successful revenge.

Does your lover mean that you still have a boyfriend or husband?

Emotional matters can't be forced, it's best to get together and disperse, what benefits can you get by punishing him?

I'm pretty sure that you don't get any benefits, and there will even be infamy, if your lover is now empathetic to someone you know, you can bring it up, if you don't know it, there's no way, it's actually against morality to distribute a group photo, and colleagues have hurt themselves!

Are you a man or a woman? Is it your own **? I am not guilty of violating the law. You send it to me first. I'll take a look at it for you.

Oh please! Stop it!

Calm down! ok

Calm down! It's irrational to distribute a group photo or something! I advise you to go on a trip.

Don't think that traveling is the most expensive thing! What about you bring some money! Go outside! It's all good to go, I mean it!

Divert your attention! You'll find out! It's good to leave him on his own.

Revenge on a lover or something, that's ignorance.

Let him give money, or let him look good.

The man gets angry like a mess of dropping wires, as long as he doesn't touch any of his self-esteem, mother, and the promised plug just runs.

In fact, you just told the truth, which was originally the truth, and each of them was for a little balance in their hearts. If he can't accept it, he can only let him watch it, and it doesn't mean that no one can live without whom.

It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't affect the result

Don't get too caught up in it, after all, we all have families.

If you can't stop it, he won't be angry if he thinks about you!

People have self-esteem, who is willing to be someone else's plaything?

She (he) doesn't love you, why should you think about her, it's so sad, you can go to the suburbs more and relax.

I just love her, and she avoids me.

At the critical moment, you have to keep thinking in your head: vent appropriately, vent appropriately, don't get angry.

Eating more is a great way to vent!

If you're suppressed, find a way to vent.

Looking at what you said, it doesn't seem to be a big psychological barrier, but you want to put yourself knowing that others are false, and you are very angry, which highlights your self-will, and when others are false, you especially want others to do it according to your method, and there are many things that cannot be seen in society, but is it managed? and you are not related, some things are the way of people, who takes what road, maybe you are not used to seeing things, and in the eyes of others, there are different opinions! For example, he can emphasize that he can show himself that he can make others pay attention to him, whether he likes it or not.

At least you noticed! Isn't it? I'm a doll, I just can't say what I think, you can refer to it!

If you can't do it, you shouldn't have seen it... Actually, I'm very small

You are an absolutely conscious person, that is, the ego is strong, the superego is also strong, and the ego is concerned with itself and cares about its own pleasure.

The superego is concerned with aspects such as morality, which is a social standard.

Self-attention to others, that is, to take care of their position, to conform to others while maintaining oneself, and to be in harmony with each other, your superego is manifested in the fact that you have the standard of society, that is, people should not be proud, they should not force others without their consent, and as soon as they appear, you will be unhappy.

Your true self is now unhappy with you, and it is immediately manifested, as if there is no room for thinking from the perspective of others.

The id, ego, and superego are proposed by Freud, and only the three are in harmony with the human psyche that is balanced, which is not a psychological problem, but if it develops over time, there will be psychological problems, and it is your lack of ego, and cultivating emotional intelligence is exactly what you need.

Self, that is, before you see that you do not meet social standards and reflect your own preferences, leave some time to think about others, think about other people's positions, do this often, you will get better, and your relationships will also get better, which is what the so-called emotional intelligence requires.

As far as I know, there is everything, there is no end to it, and there are still unknowns, please continue to ask questions, thank you!

Disgusting tendencies.

Empathizing with negative things, tolerating, understanding, and accepting things that are contrary to you is the golden key to unlocking personal wisdom and something you must face in your life. Be grateful for this arrangement and opportunity. Even if you don't agree with something, you can explain it with good faith and be good at resolving grievances.

Don't confuse yourself and others. Be kind, be magnanimous, and take every step of the way!

There is no doubt that you are all sick.

After reading your question, I am Baibaidu and I am happy to answer your questions.

Look unbalanced, the landlord is also a little back, can only say that the landlord has a good temper, if it was someone else, it would have erupted, but think about it, the in-laws are not for your husband and owe debts, no way, the poor money still has to be repaid, after all, it is a family, the landlord has a good life with his husband, your time is still long, still very young, and the good days will be long.

Actually, you still have to start a family or something, and then explain the problem clearly, sometimes it's better to be sensible.

It's best to sit down and have a good talk!

Old people, sometimes like children, let them, follow their temperament.