Love? Money? Who gave me the answer?

In some places, the custom is like this, marrying a daughter is the same as selling a daughter. You can communicate with your girlfriend first and explain your current financial situation, after all, you are going to get married, and you will be a family after marriage, because this matter is stiff, how will you live together in the future. If you go around borrowing money for the bride price and collect it for her parents, you won't be able to repay the debt together after you get married.

Give it to your best as much as you can, and then communicate more with their parents, be more filial and care for them, and make them feel that their daughter's happiness is not measured by 120,000.

Communicate more so that the other party's parents can see your sincerity, if the other party is really deducting money, there is really no way. If the conditions are not very good, you should bear with it.

Do more to be your girlfriend's thoughts, I also came over like this, really, true love needs to be understood, parents don't understand, especially parents in the countryside, what they want is customs, can't lose decency, they don't understand and understand you very well, they just know a little, marriage is such a big thing, you have to find a way, if you can't do it, you will feel that you are very incompetent, and it is not guaranteed to hand over your daughter to you, but your girlfriend understands you, he knows everything about you, and he knows whether he has the ability or not, if she wants this marriage, If she wants to be happy, she must have a way, and you must be sincere about this problem

Let's first think about what marriage is, marriage should be two people who love each other, form a family, if there is no love, only money relationship, that is called a joint venture, or cooperation, if two people do not love each other, the more money they make, the more reliable the marriage is not guaranteed, so if we have to get married, we can only marry love.

Landlord, you really asked the right question!!

Two answers for you!

1.True love can't be bought with money: because, even if you are very poor and poor, as long as you meet someone who likes you very much, she will give up everything for you to be with you, because what she wants is not your money, but your heart, your people, what is money?

2.Hypocritical love can be bought with money: "10,000 to accompany me for an hour" "Okay, good, I do!" I love you so much".As an example, hypocrisy! ~~

In a very realistic society, when love is built on money, it is no longer called love, money is important in life, but it is only a small part of love, not used to buy and sell love. Maybe your true love is by your side, and you haven't discovered the knowledge yet, it's more about fighting! Instead of buying and selling with money.

Whether it's money or love, it still depends on personal values. Some people have seen love above all else, thinking that without love, life cannot continue, then, naturally, it is natural to choose love, of course, there is no shortage of people in this society who love money more than everything, such as the current celebrity Mano.

My personal hope is that the money is enough to spend, love is a thing, it is difficult to distinguish between true and false, but once loved, I don't think I will let go, I don't know what you think.

If you are very, very short of money, then, it is better to choose money, after all, love cannot be eaten. If you are not very short of money, it is still love, money is difficult to buy true love, and love under the interests of money is more of a factor that is close to charity.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, this problem is not very difficult, the key lies in the mentality of the parties, hehe, after all, who would be afraid of having more money?

Do you love or not.

What exactly is loved.

Only you can know, so whether it's money or love, it's better to choose depending on the situation, no one else can help.

Money or love, which will you choose to marry?

Love and money are not a question of whether you want or not, you don't have to have money when you have love, but when you have money, you will be full of love everywhere, as the saying goes: money can make ghosts grind.

Love is the sharing of hearts, and money is just some of the ways, hehe, after all, human society needs money to maintain balance.

If I really want to divide the weight, I will also say: love "money".

Money is needed more, because love is not a necessity for life, but money is, without money, you may not be able to eat, and it is difficult to survive.

Love, because of money, I can have love, and after two people work hard to create, that kind of money will be more meaningful, and I will be more satisfied.

Love, because I can earn money by myself, I can't help love, if I don't have it, I don't have it, so I want love more.

Money? Because when you have money, you become happier. And I'm not someone who needs another person to accompany me in my life. So as opposed to love, money is what I really want.

I need love more. Between love and money, I choose love, because two people are together and truly love each other, and there is no money to earn money together. If there is no love, then no amount of money can buy it.