How to educate the current high school girls well, make it easier for me to be a mother

It's not easy to do. Don't talk about you being a mother... I'm a person who hasn't graduated from college for a few years and find it difficult to communicate with high school girls.,I still remember when I was in high school, I secretly thought that when I grew up, I would never have a generation gap with high school students.。。

As a result, it's only been a few years, and before I know it, I can't communicate well...

I think it depends on what your definition of "good" is, or is she really good now? It's just that you don't have the same opinions. For example:

She thinks she looks good in a short skirt, but you think it's inappropriate to wear a short skirt. I think what you should emphasize is how you can communicate better with your daughter. What do you think?

Hello, as a parent, the attitude towards children is not only love and concern. Sometimes it needs to be understood.

It's hard to be a mother, and maybe your child doesn't understand your love or care right now. However, sometimes, as a parent, you have to keep up with the times. You also have to learn to empathize.

First of all, you have to understand that your child is now in the third year of high school and it is a highly stressful year. You should talk to your child, first know what he thinks, 18-year-old children, generally enter college or society. Those with good grades will definitely not give up on their college career.

Those who don't get good grades must want to go out and have a look. At this time, most parents will think that they want their children to become dragons and hope that their children will read more. Looking for a job in the future (I would like to say that reading more books is not necessarily 100% useful.)

Of course, this does not mean that reading is useless, but that you need to know the meaning of the child before you put it into practice).

If your child wants to go to college, then as a parent, you should naturally tutor more, and if you can't do it yourself, find a tutor (if possible). If the child does not want to study, then parents should not force it, (18-year-old children, still in the rebellious period) should consider the child's future path, it is best to consult the child himself first. (I used to be my parents who arranged all the roads.)

But I didn't follow it, because what parents want is not necessarily what their children want. I have my own dreams, and although I have explored them by myself, it has been very hard, but I have achieved them, and it is worth it).

In short, at this critical time, you should put your child's own thoughts first. If your child's thinking is not right, you can guide him, but don't impose it on him, it's not good. Maybe I think it's right and it's for the good of the child, but the child can't understand it and feels very bitter.

But if you put yourself in your shoes and think of yourself as a child, and your parents say bad things about you and impose them on you, will you be happy? Therefore, in addition to the usual love and concern for the child, it is also necessary to communicate more with the child and know his true thoughts.

I want to say this to my mother from the perspective that I was and is a senior in high school.

The third year of high school is a very important stage at this time the child is under a lot of pressure Parents had better not put pressure on their children Or the same as usual At this time, too much care is also a kind of pressure Too much care will also produce a psychological burden on the child It is best not to change anything at ordinary times.

I only went through the college entrance examination last year, and from the perspective of students, I think that being a mother should be just like usual, don't be too deliberate to avoid asking children about their studies, and appropriate care is still needed. For example, there is too much pressure on the exam, don't stay up late, get enough sleep, etc.

In particular, some problems should be guided in time, otherwise it will seriously affect the subsequent learning. For example, if you don't do well in a certain exam, it's easy for the protagonist to feel that he has no hope, which can lead to a big drop in confidence! If there is no one to guide at this time, it is likely to have a great impact on the protagonist, and as for the consequences, you can also imagine it.

Hope that helps.

Don't put pressure, appease, talk a lot, the third year of high school is also 18 years old, and he can handle many things by himself. Don't ask too much.