I m distressed. I don t know if I should go back, but I still keep reading. Please give me some advi

Updated on society 2024-06-13
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I feel that a lot of things are unknown, we always have to face choices, and many times when we stand at crossroads and see the road is dark. When we choose, we always have to face the most painful thing is to lose, and we are unwilling to make some choices because we are afraid of losing too much or being intimidated by future failures. You want to be muddy and have a good time now, maybe you can get a certificate, maybe it's not difficult to find a job, if you are really ready to do the same, I support you.

    If you feel that what you are doing now is wrong, then you can stop it and not keep doing it wrong. In fact, if we can't change our mentality of facing things, we won't be happy no matter what, on the contrary, if we can always find positive things about what we do, we will do one line of love. If you can, give yourself more opportunities, we often don't mean we can't afford to lose, but more often we don't want to lose.

    Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're in a similar situation to me, but ... I graduated with a scripture. Sometimes it's involuntarily to stand up. However, you can choose for yourself the wrong one. Don't go wrong anymore. Do what you want, time waits for no one, and if it's late, you won't have a chance.

    It is recommended to drop out, get tuition, apply for a training class, and find a major you like.

    Sometimes the school learning is not as good as the training class. Go to some big cities to find training courses, find regular ones, and leave immediately if you can't do it.

    There is also self-study, find materials and learn by yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can make full use of your spare time to study the major you are interested in while studying at this school, and then graduate with a double degree or double degree.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not that serious, her willingness to tell you the truth shows that she is still quite real to you, I suggest you talk to her sincerely about this topic, and you might as well be romantic in life....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I was very moved after watching it, so I tell you that it should be the first one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're 28 and still asking such a childish question? Don't you also want to grow old with this girl holding the hand of the son, you are all rushing to get married, because you attract each other to come together, because you love each other to the end of your life, you have no confidence in your relationship? Or do you not have faith in yourself?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have a car, a house, and money, don't be afraid of not having a girlfriend, what kind of person you like in your heart, you know best, you can't let go Maybe it's a mistake, I just broke up with my girlfriend today, hehe, I'm also very reluctant...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Newly graduated students,Ideas are very naïve and fickle,If you want to get married,I think it's not suitable for now and now,Life in school is relatively simple,After contacting the society, the mind will slowly change,If she's sensible, it's better.,If you're not sensible, it's like a dad with a daughter! And there will be a generation gap, because the people and things that we come into contact with each other in life are different, and the ideas are not the same, so I personally think it is better to be cautious

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It seems that you like her very much, then you can create some romance and mutual respect, and it is fate that the two can be together, and I wish you happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel that we should first consider our own ideas, family or relatives and friends have other opinions that are reasonable or beneficial should also be taken into account, and it is definitely better to combine multiple opinions, you may think that it is not very good, be rational, think about the problems you may encounter in advance, think about how to solve them, and then make a decision.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. You can rely on yourself, of course, you have to let yourself have a certain ability to survive in a place, of course, it is better to learn some self-defense skills, in case you are robbed, robbed or something.

    2. You can also listen to other people, but other people's opinions are not bad, but you have to make sure that there is some truth.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I just got off work, and after reading this question, I will give some advice:

    If I were you, I would choose to go home.

    There are several main reasons:

    1. For job opportunities, there may be a little difference in various places, but there will definitely not be too much difference! - The most important thing is to look at the individual.

    2. We should be grateful - there are many responsibilities in life, and we can't "fashion" think that living our own lives is good - these are those selfish thoughts. We should take care of our relatives and friends as much as possible, they have all helped us. Think about it from another angle, if you are developing well in a place far from home, what about them, will they all take over?

    3. What is happiness?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't take a lot of money to fall in love.

    What is needed is the money to be spent, the money that should not be spent, and the money that should not be spent, and the money that should be spent less. For example, to buy gifts, you don't have to buy expensive watches, jewelry, etc., you can make small gifts that you can take with you, worthy of collecting, or some boutiques and trinkets. It's pretty good, and it can touch the hearts of girls.

    Deli, or McDonald's. It will taste different, and that girl will think that you are more interesting and romantic. It's definitely much more rewarding than going out on a trip, it's worth remembering.!

    This is my experience and now it is taught for free.!Huh...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't just blame the girl, you too, your own ability is limited, don't you know how much you have?

    It is possible to take girls to climb mountains and go to some free places. Then after a long time, you can have a meal together, give a gift, if you really love each other, you shouldn't care about these things outside the body. And until you're in a relationship, girls shouldn't spend too much money on you.

    After you have established a relationship, you should spend money together, not just yours.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When my boyfriend first started, he was very willing to spend money on me, picking me up from work every day, taking me around to eat and play, and buying me clothes, shoes, etc., and he rushed to pay the bill when I bought things, and I felt embarrassed. Later, he probably felt shy and asked me: If he wasn't as rich as I seemed, would I still like him?

    The answer, of course, is: yes. Now we don't spend as much money as we used to, but we're still happy.

    On Valentine's Day, he would buy me flowers, and occasionally we would go out for something good, and when we had nothing to do, we would go to the neighborhood for free, and sometimes I would surf the Internet at home and not go anywhere. That's good, too.

    Tell her a little bit about your situation, if she is the kind of person who is suitable for life, she will understand you, otherwise, you can do it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Do what you can, don't want those vain things, tell her clearly about your situation, if she can understand, it means that she is very reasonable, and you will get along well in the future, and you can be honest with each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If she loves you, you'll help you save.

    You say it directly to her:"My dear, for our tomorrow, save a little! I love you! "

    That's what I said to my dear, dear don't object!

    If you really love each other, it will help you save.

    I'm a master of love!

    When she is completely in love with you and wants to live with you, it will be a complete saving boy, but you have to be very good to her!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You just felt a little unbearable at the beginning, so what can you do in the future, money is only bigger and bigger, and it won't be used more and more economically, think about it,

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't want such a girl, think about something else, and you'll go bankrupt if you go on like this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now it's not like it's all men who pay for falling in love! If she really likes it, you'll take that into account.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be careful yourself! Maybe this woman is a ** oh! There are a lot of people like this these days, and they will cheat you out of your money! The feet lifted you! Scam money. Trick color. Cheating!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Cut a blind date.

    It doesn't have to be successful.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Think about it, you can't afford this kind of girl even in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you first start in love, men will leak a little oil and water.

    But after a long time, it will naturally save money slowly.

    But it also depends on whether the woman is that kind of delicate woman?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    From the heart, what kind of life is not only not costly, but also very meaningful.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello! You can find a few good friends, female friends, to approach her, and tell her good things about you;

    There is also the possibility of proposing in a public setting.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're talking about your problem.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Talk about your problem and help you pay attention.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What do you mean by "just wanting to improve the current relationship and go as far as you can with him"?

    Looks like you're tired too, right?

    It is not difficult to see that in the situation of the two of you now, only distance can produce beauty. If I'm not mistaken, he should have behaved much better abroad (the way he contacted you, and the feelings he expressed in each contact) than he did when he met you this time

    Because, he has always wanted to fantasize about you as he wants you to be, but the reality seems to be not so optimistic. You are too immersed in love to neglect how to love. As for him, maybe he has seen more in the world, seen more women, and has higher requirements for you (so it seems that he is still more single-minded, because he did not break up with you because of a long distance); But you don't seem to have changed, so he feels a little bit lost when he returns home.

    Therefore, he will not accompany you to go shopping or watch movies.

    Speaking of rings, trust me, you two are too young!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I remember seeing a Korean commercial for mineral water, and there was a paragraph I wanted to write to you:

    Believe that I love you forever is stupid, because lovers never meet each other until their hearts break apart for more than 2 years, and we are always ready for a new love and separation.

    I think he summed it up to you in that way! I advise you to go your own way, at all times.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The situation between you and me is like, I feel that you need to talk about it, some things will change, we can't resist at all, it may be that today he says he loves you, tomorrow he may say that we are not suitable to think about it... Although you have been together for a long time, you were very happy at the beginning, slowly began to adapt to each other, and many of your own faults will be revealed, as time goes by, you are changing, maybe slowly the feelings fade, sometimes he is very confused, sometimes there is a feeling of wanting to escape...

    Talk about what's good for you.,If you can't be together, just face it calmly.,Men shouldn't spoil him too much...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You still have to find someone who reassures you about it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Let's talk about it for a while. Landlord, tell your boyfriend what you really think in your heart, if he really loves you, he will be willing to change. And if you don't say it, how can the other party know what the other party thinks? Bless you come on.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Feelings can not be measured by material, if you don't want to regret it, you can gamble, lose and lose, understand, my husband and I are in South Korea, I am in Beijing, he came back in four years, seriously, I am also afraid, but this is already something that cannot be changed, if you really want to be together, you must be prepared enough to break up, after all, there is no absolute.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's very simple, tell him a word, we are not suitable, break up. Or maybe you're going on a blind date. When he doesn't think you're important, the response will be more flat.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    。。。Wrote so much. I haven't finished reading it yet, but I know it's hard to find a girl like you. He can't, I'll come. How can you treat such a good girl like this?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Cool it down first to see the after-effects

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Sister!! You're so stupid! You won't tune a man's appetite???

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This monkey's nature is here, and if you don't make trouble, you'll be suffocated sooner or later.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Should. From a pre-engagement perspective.

    Sun Wukong made trouble in the Heavenly Palace because he stole it.

    After the golden hoop stick, he was deceived by the gods and goddesses to go to heaven, and if he didn't make a big fuss in the heavenly palace, he would have no good result, so he could only be placed under house arrest.

    The drunken behavior angered the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother, and Li Tianwang led the heavenly soldiers to arrest him, and if he didn't make trouble, he fled back to Huaguo Mountain in disgrace, and the prestige of the Mountain King might decline.

    Engage in post-perspective analysis.

    After being caught, he was thrown into the alchemy furnace, and he developed a sharp eye and mastered advanced skills, which is a rare opportunity.

    It was also because of this battle that he became famous, and then he was able to accompany Tang Sanzang to learn scriptures from the West, and finally became a fighting Buddha and achieved fame.

    To sum up, it should be noisy.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If the economic conditions allow, it is better to go out more and broaden your horizons, maybe it will change your life! There's nothing you shouldn't do!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I am also facing this problem at present, and this school also came to our school to recruit a master of education, and I want to ask the landlord if he finally went?

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Consumption is cheaper than China, especially rochester is quite a country place This school is okay It's just that the reputation is not very loud The ranking is still higher than hunter Life in the city is not real American life If you want to mix with a place with many Chinese, it's even more boring What else to do in the United States It's really not easy for international students to come here It depends on what kind of character you have to be strong and capable people will think that this is a step But you don't seem to be too self-reliant Then it is estimated that you will regret it Think clearly Don't blindly follow the trend Not everything is good to go abroad Huzhou doesn't know where to go But in the big city, there are now a lot of returnees and set their positioning very high If you don't go abroad, it will definitely be beneficial If you have any questions, you can ask me again I'm not familiar with NYC, Rochester City is okay I'm not an international student and I don't think it's easy to adapt when I first come You have to decide to come and be ready If you have any questions, continue to ask and see if I can help you.

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