My brother and I fall in love with the same girl, how do I choose?

You should ask the girl face to face how she feels about you, if she loves you, she will give you a positive answer, you should also make it clear to your brother, if you don't love you, it will be ambiguous, then you don't need to have an affair with her, if she wants to step on two boats, it's better to say goodbye, there is no need to make a brother unhappy for a girl. Sooner or later, there will be a girlfriend, but once the friend is lost, it will be gone, and once it hurts, the rift will never be repaired.

When you go out to play, is your brother there? Judging from the fact that he lied to you that she hadn't turned on the phone, this girl's character is not very good, so I advise you to give up on her.

Fair competition, confess first.

She may compare you to your brother.

You can ask clearly, these questions can't be allowed.

Happiness is earned by oneself, and if you miss it, you will not be there.

You have to take care of it, or you're probably going to run out with your brother.

Let's see who that girl likes.

If you like your brother, then don't be sad because you respect that girl!

Of course, if she likes you, you have to comfort that brother of yours and say to him, "Brother, I like her!" You like it too, but you know, it's me who she likes. I hope you respect her choice and that we are still good brothers!

Brothers are like siblings, and women are like garments.

It's very likely that she likes your brother and just doesn't want you to be suspicious when she goes out to play, and she may like you and just doesn't want to hurt him when she chats with your brother, you should think about it yourself, is it the brother or this girl is important! (I think brothers are more important).

The first strike is strong, and the last strike suffers! Don't regret losing it.

Obviously she doesn't mean much to you (don't text back), but it's best to ask her clearly, love is a matter of two people. If we can't be together again, bless them. You can also be friends, and you can live to be happy.

Maybe she thinks of you as a friend, so she doesn't want to hurt you...If she doesn't reply to your text messages, it's an indirect rejection...If she really likes you, then how can she put you aside and talk to others hotly.

Ask her directly. Otherwise, you will be very tired.

At this time, you need to see what the girl's attitude is towards the two of you. If that girl has a crush on your brother, I suggest you withdraw from their relationship.

Fair competition, if you feel that you have a good grasp and the girl likes you, you will confess to the girl, and if you are not sure, then choose to quit.

Two people should pursue this girl together, look at the girl's choice, which one the girl chooses, and both of them should bless each other.

If you fall in love with the same girl as your good brother, you should confess this matter directly to your good brother, and you can choose to compete fairly with your brother. If at this time because of the brother gave up his love, this matter may become a pimple between the two brothers.

And when you look back on it in the future, you may feel that you have suffered a loss. So the best solution is to talk to the good brother and tell the two brothers that they can try to play fairly in the future. <>

These things are actually fair, as long as they are not hidden, they will not cause conflicts between brothers. If it is said that the brother broke up with him because of this incident after the opening, it means that the other party does not regard us as brothers, so there is no need to continue to dwell on this matter. And the two people are pursuing a girl, and the other party must have their own ideas, so there is no need for either of them to make decisions for this girl.

You can choose to pursue it first, and then let the girl make her own choice, if the girl chooses one of the two people, the other party should simply let go. <>

Whether it is brother or love is very important, don't abandon your brother for love, let alone abandon your love for your brother. If the girl chooses a brother, she can make it clear to the girl, and keep an absolute distance in the future, and bless her brother and the girl with a generous attitude. If the girl chooses herself, she should not show off her strength in front of her brother, but wish her brother to find a better partner.

You must know that no matter who the girl chooses, it is normal, and this is the girl's own choice, and the two of them must not break up for this. The most important thing in the relationship is to be happy with each other, so it doesn't mean that whoever performs well with his brother will definitely be able to win the favor of this girl, so don't blindly compete with your brother. Just do what you have to do, and the rest can go with the flow.

Of course, you should insist, after all, this girl is still single, and both of you have a fair chance to compete.

I think you should give up, because it will make your brotherhood worse, and there is really no need to destroy brotherhood because of a girl.