Fall in love with someone you shouldn t love

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As long as you are not related to her by blood, I don't think you have to care about other people's opinions, feelings are a matter of two people, as long as you love her, she also loves you, there is no need to trip over unnecessary so-called ethical issues, but to make sure is whether she really likes you If you dare not express it, you are the same as worried about others gossiping! I'm already a person who doesn't confuse, and if you were my cousin, I'd be happy to support her in her pursuit.

    It's very simple: Is it difficult for one's happiness to be hindered by the language of others? That's unwise, isn't it?

    And what is the business between you and the other man? Ethical education is to teach people to avoid consanguineous births, not to prevent honorary consanguineous births, don't read dead books! If you want to learn from Professor Yang Zhenning, do you care if she is a student or what?

    It's good to be filial piety first! But emotional matters disdain and filial piety, so don't be foolish, since your parents are supportive, you can mediate through your parents to do your cousin's ideological work, and relieve your cousin's ideological baggage, this matter in my opinion, if it can be combined, this is a good thing!

    Another point I think you only think about and don't act, about "means" you may have misinterpreted the meaning of "means", you use a contemptuous mentality to understand the word "means", if the means hurt people, it is unscrupulous, when the means are implemented, you are good, she is good, what is wrong with everyone's good? The whole process is your internal family affair, and it has nothing to do with outsiders at all, it's just that you don't understand the reason and are afraid of what other people are saying about you, which is a phenomenon of self-inflicted troubles. You complicate what was originally a very simple question, and you still say how good you are, here, with all due respect, you are not excellent, just a sentimental, indecisive, flashy Kong Yi.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What a beautiful article, full of happiness.

    Your question isn't a problem at all, you know? One of my aunts in our hometown married an older brother from my grandmother's family, and I really didn't know what to call them, and then my grandmother said that her husband's family was big, so she could only call her sister-in-law to her auntSo your problem is not a problem at all.

    Be bold and pursue your happiness, the title can be changed!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are a noble person, a person who makes people jealous, and a very wealthy person. It can be said that you don't lack anything, but God is fair, but you have encountered such a relationship that should not have happened. Pain is certain, and with such an experience, it can be regarded as a harvest for you to know what kind of person you are looking for in the future.

    Time will dilute everything, and I believe that I will meet the person you like in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    And filial piety comes first. She, like me, can give up everything for ...... sake of her parents

    I advise you to stand in your own true perspective, if the love of two people is very deep, everything can only be fought for by yourself, but this journey will be very tiring and bitter.

    Is it possible to do it only with the effort and not give up any opportunity?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't feel appropriate, but sometimes love can be out of the ordinary, such as between the brother and sister-in-law of the person who suffered a disaster in Wenchuan. Of course, your best way is to restrain yourself, and if you get in touch with other people, there may be excellent girls you haven't found.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are so qualified and not afraid of gossip, just settle it with her! But if you are worried about this and that, forget it! It's not happy or down-to-earth when you get it!

    Where is there no grass at the end of the world? Brother, you deserve to be excellent! Single-minded!!

    Don't spend! Unlike my buddies, those who have money spend a lot! Hey, you're a good person!

    I don't even know what to say! When I think about it, I feel a little broken! How much more so is you!

    Do it for yourself! If it's me, if it's me! Give up and forget it!

    You can do it! (Crash!) )

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is still a certain gap between the ideal and the present Love at first sight must be what you like, but most of them are not suitable for you It is recommended that you find more people around you Maybe some people are silently caring about you You don't know

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's long! After reading it, she sighed, you are right to be confused, she thinks that you are his uncle, so do a good job of your uncle! This is also to love someone, although it cannot be ......

    Protect her, care for her, and bless her to do this, you are a mature man. Wishing you happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Does she love you. It's not about you, not your parents, not her parents, it's about how she feels! Do you understand?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's really long, I'm sorry, I don't have the patience, I can't finish reading, but is it necessary just because of a love word? I've been alone for more than 20 years, and I'm not doing well.

    Happier than you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since your parents once wanted you to marry, you should be able to continue dating, so this relationship is not a problem, tell your parents and ask them for help. If the girl doesn't want to think about it, give it up, respect is also a sign of love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You don't even want to contact her lately, and after a while, you try to talk to her and see what she says before you sit down. During this time, you also need to think about what you want.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    ..Do you love this attitude? True love is unconditional, go your own way, others say to go to Bei, and the post-80s people have to keep up

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You are so cheap, there is nothing else to say, what a big thing, you might as well help some more mountain children in need of help with this spare time!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Increase the bounty. Otherwise, who will read it seriously?

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