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Love is actually a tug-of-war, the key depends on whether you understand love. But I think you have to admit that there is still a lot of joy in love. Like me, now that I am alone in the field, my girlfriend lives with me, I really can't imagine how I can live alone in the field?
With her company, although there are a lot of troubles, but with her company, I will not feel lonely. Troubles are because you have to live, and many trivial things in life will annoy you. If two of us work and don't live together, I think it won't be very tiring, after all, the novelty is still there.
If you think the other person is worthy of love, then love.
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It's all like this, normal heart, but also for you to better communicate and understand with her.
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I think the relationship still has to be cultivated and established slowly, some people will fall in love at first sight, but how can they be enthusiastic on the first day together, this kind of relationship comes and goes quickly.
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In fact, how should I say it, if I say that I am tired, I am tired, and if I am not tired, I am not tired.
If you are not tired, you are in love, you feel very happy, and you are immersed in happiness every day, how can you feel tired?
Let's say tired, because you are worried about him every day, worried about him, how can you not be tired?
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Emotionally invested, the beginning is happiness. After that, it's exhaustion. If you know how to adjust, you will have an immortal love
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In fact, falling in love is not divided by whether you are tired or not. It's just happiness and sorrow.
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Of course. Women are not tired.
Men are tired.
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Look at yourself. Some people feel very happy in love. And some of them make people feel very guilty.
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yes, because you've put almost all of your energy into being in love.
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It's not tiring to fall in love, but it's tiring to fall in love with someone.
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For me, falling in love is tiring.
I seem to be a person with a cold nature, and I have never experienced what it means to have a strong love. But I'm also an emotional person, and I always go to my heart first and then my brain when I encounter problems. These two points are enough to torture.
On the one hand, I feel that my relationship with him can be parted casually, and on the other hand, because of his attitude towards me, I am happy or worried.
I'm very happy to feel that he likes him, and I admit from the bottom of my heart that I like him. But I'm not too willing to go out too much into my own world. When he wants to stick with me and feels his need for me, I am happy and annoyed at the same time.
To put it bluntly, I have a low need for love, but it will affect my daily state because of him. No matter how happy we were before, as long as the situation changed later, in my heart, the pain must be greater than the happiness.
I don't want to face you now looking for me every day, take my little emotions seriously, and pop out small confessions from time to time. After that, he ignored it and was in a perfunctory state. Though.
None of this has happened yet. Even if it's just imagining, I'm afraid that I can't resist the urge to say to him, "Why don't we break up now?" If my relationship with him ends unfortunately, I probably don't want to fall in love again.
It seems that once a person who is not serious is really liked, he will work hard to save the world from any small thing. If I lose this person, I'll be sad, but I'm not sad either. It's nothing more than walking in this world cold and sensual again.
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1. It may be that lovers ask too much of each other.
There is a saying that goes, "If you don't want it, you are strong." It's the same in life, because we ask too much, so we feel tired. If we are in love, we have too many requirements for our lovers, and they can't meet such requirements, we will be disappointed, sad, and slowly become tired.
In fact, the most important thing in the relationship is respect for each other, different people have different personalities and ways of doing things, when we fall in love, it is best to respect each other and coordinate those discordant places, so that we can relax.
2. I feel tired in my relationship.
Sometimes, the reason why we are tired is not because of others, but because we are tired of such feelings. Maybe your enthusiasm for the relationship has dissipated, or maybe your own state is not very good during that period of time, etc., which will cause you to feel tired.
In this state, there is no point in blaming others. We should make adjustments to our relationships again.
3. After getting along for a long time, I found that the other party was not the person I wanted.
This situation is also very common, and many people need to spend a lot of time together to understand what other people are like. Lovers have been together for a long time, and they will slowly discover each other's true appearance. And the real appearance of the other party is not what you want, so naturally you will have no enthusiasm and feel tired.
Generally speaking, most of the reasons why people feel tired in love are related to their own hearts, and they are not able to meet their expectations, so sometimes focusing on adjusting their hearts will make the relationship smoother.
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