What to do no one can understand me 20

Actually, it's good to be yourself.

Wear whatever you want, do whatever you want, just don't go out of line.

Go your own way and let others speak for themselves.

As long as you really want to make friends, there's nothing you can't make.

This is to look at a person's character.

Person? Live positively, do everything with hope, and there is nothing that is not unsuccessful.

Change the insistence on persistence.

The !! of the changes that should be changed

Don't stick to it.

Since you said that you haven't had a friend for so many years.

That shows that you have a big problem with yourself, you are 18, and you are not a child anymore, if you don't know what is right or wrong.

That's the big problem!

You can do something wrong, but you can't do something wrong and not know it's wrong!

There are many people with unique personalities, but they will also be recognized by some people.

Don't use uniqueness as your shield.

It's not to change the meaning, but in order to survive in society, sometimes you still have to disguise it, like echoing others to talk, no one lives in this world is completely like saying what you want, doing what you want, just like no one lives without telling lies. So human beings are really a very tired and contradictory creature, and there is nothing wrong with lz, but if you want to integrate into society, you have to disguise yourself, although you are very tired, but you can't do it.

It's lonely when you're alone, isn't it?

The problem is still in the communication skills, try to chat with the people around you more, train your ability to communicate with people, be cheerful, try to make more friends, integrate well with the circle around you, and slowly let the people around you understand you. Self-confidence is the most important thing, believing that you can fit in with the environment around you.

Try to communicate more, you go and try the method I said, you can ask me again if you are different.

When you go out, you can know the wonder and helplessness of the outside world. Only then will someone reach out and be friends with you. At home, no one will come to the door.

18 years old, still at home, useless, come out to work!! Reach out to people.

It's quite similar to me.

Live well, what do you want so many friends to do?

I think this problem should be looked at in several aspects, first of all, everyone should have a side that others don't understand, and of course, there are times when you don't understand others. It's like when you read a book, there are liberal arts and sciences, and everyone has a different way of thinking about things and things. Therefore, when you always feel that others do not understand you, first look at whether you are at work, or at home, at work, maybe it is normal to not be understood because of the way you do things, what you need to learn is how to communicate with them, of course, it also depends on your position in the company, different positions, different roles, first position yourself clearly.

If it is at home, there may be differences in values between parents and couples and they are not understood, which is also normal, and it is still necessary to communicate, even if it is not possible to achieve absolute understanding and recognition, at least find a way to communicate normally with each other. Of course, you don't have to worry too much about others not understanding, different people have different pursuits, just like carnivorism can't understand vegetarianism, but in fact, you can coexist peacefully. People living in this society are a group, so they are destined to communicate and exchange in interpersonal relationships and integrate into society through various ways.

You feel that others don't understand and don't understand you, but in fact, the root cause is that everyone grows up in a different environment and subjective values. Perhaps it is your subjective consciousness that it is difficult to gain the approval of others, which triggers anxiety in your heart. In this case, it is more important to self-reflect, in this way, to deeply understand oneself, and to correct it in time, so as to integrate into society.

In this world, don't say that others don't understand us, in fact, we don't fully understand ourselves. Sometimes our self-knowledge can be very different from what others know about us, and sometimes it can be very different. What's more, when we look at ourselves, how can we understand others?

The essence of human beings is loneliness. This cannot be changed, no matter how many friends there are, no matter how lively the day is, in the dead of night, this loneliness will swarm in. Therefore, whether others understand us or not may need to be dependent.

In fact, life always has to go through some ups and downs and twists and turns! Is there a saying you haven't heard? Happy to you, the sun rises as it is!

The sun goes down even if you're not happy! So there are some things we can't do anything about! There's no way to change it!

Only change yourself! Because we're alive! It's not a one-man business to be alive!

That's life is life! Learn to talk! Speak of your sorrows and joys!

Extremely anxious to face the problem! It's good to be optimistic about life.

Learn to understand yourself, slowly understand others, no one wants to suffer every day, do radical things is also to get rid of troubles, let yourself live happily, everyone has their own thoughts, don't blame anyone, happiness is your own struggle, setbacks make you mature faster than others.

I think you really need to adjust your mentality, it's normal for no one to understand yourself and you don't feel the same thing in the world, so it's better for us to face it with optimism.

There is a saying that is very good, there is no empathy in the world, so we should also adjust our mentality and not care too much, so that life can be easy.

This is very normal, you must adjust your mentality, learn to enjoy solitude, and when others don't understand you, you can do your own thing.

You must adjust your mentality and make yourself understand that life is lonely, and even if no one understands, you should work hard.

Let yourself digest slowly, find a reliable person to talk to, and at the same time, you can also talk to your mother and let her give her advice.

There's no need to care too much about other people's opinions, you just need to be yourself and make yourself better.

It is normal to understand that no one understands, there are so many people in the world, it is impossible for all of them to be understood.

Then you have to think about it yourself, and if not, then you have to go out and take a walk and see how other people live.

1. Immerse yourself in your own world.

It's not a bad thing to not force yourself when others don't understand you, and to immerse yourself in your own world. Many successful people are not understood by others at the beginning, as long as you think it is right, don't care what others think.

2. Stay away from those who are right and wrong.

It's actually hard to make you really don't care about other people's eyes. But we can stay away from right and wrong, away from these negative energy people, and you won't hear their gossip.

3. No need to explain too much.

If others don't understand that you are different from your practices and sayings and opinions, this is a thought that you can not change immediately, it takes time, so when you are not understood, no matter how much you explain, it will be pale.

4 The process of filtering friends.

Friends who are really worth dating can also be shown at this time, if you really regard you as a friend, you must understand you at this time, if you don't understand, you can filter him.

5. Be clear about your goals.

Although it is not understood, your goals have not changed, and the goals you still have to stick to will not change by anything.

6. Do what you have to do.

Do what you have to do, and as for those who don't understand, let them go. They don't understand you and you're not a person of the same world, and they don't care about their feelings.

Sometimes you don't need others to understand to do things, others can't decide your intentions, there are thousands of roads, all roads lead to Rome, why bother to love a flower, people are kind and don't care what you do, only care about what you will become, and those with bad intentions always don't want you to live well, so everything lies in themselves, have their own way, let them say go.

This situation is normal, I don't understand what to look at, it's okay to do your own thing, as long as you make the right decision, I hope you are happy, happy, healthy and happy.

Then relax, be yourself, and time will take care of everything.

Danding has a good saying. Go your own way and let others say go! It turns out that many times other people's strange eyes are always unbearable. But. As long as what you do is not against society. Don't care what other people think.

If you want others to understand you, you must first understand others.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

This kind of thing happens from time to time, as long as you ask yourself. Worthy of.

Summary. Hello, dear, because parents feel that once they praise their children, their children will be proud, fluttering, and forgetful, so when their children get good grades, parents do not praise.

Hello dear, no one can understand themselves: to achieve mutual understanding, you can only do it by opening yourself, learn to communicate with your lover, and consider problems from a different perspective. Usually help him do a little more housework, you can choose a way to vent to release the inner pressure, learn to reduce pressure, adjust your mood, and relax.

I can't find anyone to vent when I'm in a bad mood, and I always think about others and don't think about myself.

Kiss, hello, appropriate strong attitude, can resist attacks, there is no good way to vent, don't hold it in your heart. Find someone close to you to talk about your feelings, and he can comfort you and help you solve your problems.

The key is to praise the child who scores more than 10 points, and he does not praise the score of more than 90 points, he is really speechless, what mother, dear, hello, because parents feel that once they praise their children, the children will be proud, fluttering, and forgetful, so when the children get good grades, parents do not praise.

Parents cry poor every day, and their children also have low self-esteem.

I'm really disappointed in this world, especially when I grow up, I guess I'm poor, I say every day.

Kissing is only your own efforts to change the status quo.

No one understands, what to do?

When you are not understood, find out the reasons why you are not understood and have a bad mood, and then find a reasonable and appropriate way to vent your troubles and unhappiness in your heart, without suppressing it in your heart, and make yourself happy. When we don't have the ability to change the surrounding environment, all we can do is change ourselves, so we can calm down, accept the good and bad things around us, try to restrain our emotions, and face life with a normal heart. The road ahead is your own.