Is someone like him an introvert? 5

Standard hot water bottle type, there are such friends around me, although they look cold but have a fiery heart, they are very funny people in private, especially for people and things that they are interested in. In fact, it's quite unnatural to live like this.,Sometimes it's because the image is obviously very interested, but you have to endure it.,Keep a look that makes people stay away.。 But such boys are more attractive to girls, because of a layer of mystery, so it is recommended to be friends first and understand more, otherwise it is easy to get hot and hurt in the end.

Quirky, right. Or rather a little cold. Some people are indeed the kind of people who are very serious and enthusiastic about people or things as long as they feel good, but they don't care at all and are very cold when they feel bad or irrelevant and uninterested.

It's just the same person he used to be! Excellent, right? Actually, I have figured it out now that such a person is only suitable for a distant view, or not suitable for the next development, and is not a good lover.

I thought it through. Probably there are such people in every campus or unit. In fact, they don't live freely!

Personally, I feel that he is not called an internal image, but a bit like pretending to be cool. A lot of boys are like that now. Hehe, it's more attractive to girls.

Well, I think I'm actually very introverted.

But when there are more people, I will become more active.

I think I'm always super active in front of a lot of people (of course I'm interested), and if I'm in front of someone I'm not interested in, I'm super introverted and want to say something for a long time.

But if that person is something I'm interested in, even if I don't have anything to say, I'll use movements and the like to adjust the atmosphere and attract the other person's attention...Khan

And I'm also an Aquarius, and indeed Aquarius is so depressed!

Declare that I am mm,

The standard sullen type, in fact, is very fun with acquaintances, just like me.

Maybe it's not you who he likes! Let's be a general friend!

Calculate. That's what the teacher said about me.

Another: I am very similar to the person you are describing.

In this world, it seems that extroverts are extraordinarily benevolent, and people who talk eloquently and dance with long sleeves are often easy to get more opportunities, while introverts who talk less always have to work hard to be seen.

In some parties and parties, extroverts are like fish in water, and there are people who are more excited and excited, while introverts are like a fish out of water, at a loss.

Only in your own world can you smile sincerely and breathe a sigh of relief. And this kind of behavior is incompatible with this modern society.

Almost every introvert has tried to get rid of it when they were growing up"Introverted"Labels for "shy" and "quiet".

But no matter how similar it is, it will eventually show its feet at some moments, maybe it is to do one thing and talk about some feelings, which can never be hidden.

At the end of the day, you can't accept your introverted personality calmly, and you will always self-deprecate when your introversion can't make things go well.

What can be done to change this?

Change does not force us to be introverted. Change is to make us introverts live more comfortably and authentically in this world.

1. Do what you're good at.

You don't have to ask yourself to do what you're not good at, the effect of that is just to follow the example of Dongshi, and be smiling and generous. Do what you are good at, do it well, believe in yourself, and you will always be seen.

2. Neither humble nor arrogant.

Introverts aren't doing anything wrong. This world accommodates all kinds of people, people will always make mistakes, don't magnify your mistakes, and don't despise yourself because of the unfair treatment of others.

3. Be a polite person.

When you meet someone, say hello, and listen quietly if you don't want to chat; When you encounter something, take a hand, and try to do things if you don't want to talk. Introverts are not very accepted because we are inferior and refuse to look at all external things, so we seem impolite.

4. Express your thoughts.

Try to tell others what you think about work and school, and don't act like a victim. Don't say what you don't want to say, say what you should say.

I have a male classmate, he has always been alone, silent, he doesn't like to communicate with people, he rarely speaks, I am a man who talks to him, he is very shy, I try to make friends with him, but a lot of entertainment he doesn't participate, he doesn't go out to surf the Internet, he feels too introverted after studying together for three years, he really has no sense of existence, he should communicate with people more, and he can leave more good memories for himself! Maybe an introvert has his own different worldview, but we can't understand it!

Generally speaking, people's personalities are divided into extroverts and introverts, which are determined by genetics. But in reality, neither introversion nor extroversion is absolute. There are a lot of introverts around us, and it's not particularly different.

But there are also a few introverts who don't like to talk, get along with each other, feel very bored, and that's it.

A colleague next to me never takes the initiative to talk to someone, no matter whether the other party is a man or a woman! You talk to him, ask questions, answer questions, and sometimes you don't...