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<> this kind of problem cannot be generalized, being a soldier is a sacred cause, defending the family and the country, and giving up the small family for the sake of the general righteousness is worthy of respect. If the boyfriend just goes to be a conscript, he can go home after three years, as long as the love is still there, three years can wait; If you want to be a soldier for a lifetime, it's not a matter of how many years you are willing to wait for him, in order to protect the family and defend the country, you can't see him for a few days a year, and the army is not allowed to enter the army, until you are discharged, you can be together every day, so it is very painful to fall in love with a soldier, gather less and leave more, even after marriage, it is a long-term loneliness.
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As long as the relationship between me and my boyfriend is very good, I am definitely willing to wait for my boyfriend for many years.
My boyfriend went to the army to realize his personal ideals, so in order to realize his ideals, let me wait for a long time, I am also willing, as long as my boyfriend is very good to me, or the relationship between the two of us is particularly good, I think such a wait is very worthwhile.
Therefore, I will be willing to wait slowly, only in this way can I fill it out, and this kind of support for my boyfriend can make my boyfriend realize his ideals.
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Will be willing to wait.
Love expects a kind of waiting, love is beautiful and a distance, two lovers who love each other will wait for each other's love to come as promised.
A kind of love gives a lover the conditions to become a family member in the end, and the two wishful wishes promise a long time to live and achieve a complete world.
Every kind of love is a tacit waiting, waiting for each other to have the most suitable company for each other, and it has become a habit of lifestyle.
The boyfriend goes to be a soldier, and the girlfriend is also busy and elegant, and the two loves who are waiting for will wait for the return of the long-distance relationship for many years.
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I won't. He deserves respect for being a soldier. But I would prefer someone to be with me.
Is he irreplaceable? Wouldn't he like someone else when he was a soldier? When he comes back as a soldier, will I still be the one he likes?
With so many uncertainties, why should I wait for him? If we don't like anyone else when he comes back from being a soldier, then we continue to be together, otherwise why hang each other?
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No, there is no undying love in this world.
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My boyfriend is going to be a soldier, and he will still be willing to wait. Waiting is also a beautiful expectation.
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Your boyfriend is going to be in the army, are you willing to wait for him for many years? I think if the two of you have a deep relationship, it will be no problem to wait for him for a few years, and he will go to defend the country, which is worthy of respect. In the past few years when he has been a soldier, you can also feel the lovesickness between the two places.
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Yes, because I love him very much, we grew up together, childhood sweethearts.
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Look at people, you can wait, you can wait, if you don't want to wait, you will be divided, not to be a military wife will be envied and happy by everyone, people are good and bad, and soldiers also have it. Like those who came back from the army in our village, they used the advantages of their positions to make the factory prosperous, but the whole family became the village tyrant, and others who were slightly unsatisfactory to them could scold them at the door for a long time, and sometimes even do it.
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I'm a boy, I'd love to be in the army, and if I had a girlfriend, I'd love her to wait for me. The barracks are very hard, and it is even harder in other places, and if you survive this time, your relationship will be better.
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Unwillingly! I will become a nun and have since lived the remnants of the ancient Buddha.
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Personally, I would be very willing.
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Look at the relationship, the boyfriend is quite a long-distance relationship when he is a soldier.
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When I was in the army, my girlfriend said wait for me, and the results can be imagined.
Don't make any promises, be real and look at the results for the best.
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How many years will you wait for him?
Tell me about it yourself.
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This question depends entirely on the values of this lady's life, because strictly speaking, "love", "affection" and "beloved" are not the same, "love" is universal, "affection" can last forever, and "beloved" is never separated.
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First of all, it is a very honorable thing for your boyfriend to choose to join the army and serve the country. So if you really love him, you should support him. Instead of being at a loss, or even dragging him back.
Secondly, not seeing each other for two years is indeed a bit painful for a couple in love. But you should believe that true love should stand the test of time! On the other hand, if you are not in love, then even if you stick together all day, nothing will come of it.
Third, even if he goes to the army, the two of you can still keep in touch. And as long as you can keep in touch, this relationship between the two of you can be maintained. In short, you don't think of "being a soldier" as a "chasm" between the two of you, and the problem can be alleviated and solved.
On the other hand, if you have to drill the horns, the gods can't help you! ~
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First of all, for the sake of your future, if you are not forced to do so, of course, it is better to solve the problem of long-distance relationship as soon as possible.
After all, when he was in the army, you were in a different place, and if you were still in a different place after retiring from work, it would be very detrimental to the development of your relationship.
One is all kinds of insecurity and suspicion caused by long-distance relationships, and the other is accustomed to long-term long-distance status, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two.
After all, connecting online and seeing each other once in a while does not allow you to really get to know each other, and there is a lack of a process of running in with each other.
Waiting until you get married to start living together can easily lead to conflicts.
As for how to choose the future work location, Mr. Hai Ge suggests that you start from reality and make an objective and rational choice.
If you are planning to get married, where are you going to settle after you get married, and if you have already decided on a place to settle, then it is best to work in the place of settlement.
If you have not yet decided, but you are considering getting married, then you can discuss which side of the future settlement is more advantageous, compare each other's job prospects, buy a house, children's education and other aspects, and choose the location that is most conducive to each other's future development to work and settle.
Of course, the most important thing is to think about whether you are sure that he is your future, and how you can choose what is best for each other.
Some people may say, of course, it is the woman who compromises, after all, it is you who marry, not him who marries, even if it is a career, you must put the man first, after all, men are more competitive in the workplace.
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