Why does the family not agree to talk about friends with other provinces

I'm in a similar situation to you, my husband is also from another province, although it is a province, but the distance is farther than that of other provinces, the family is actually afraid that you will marry someone who did not help you when you were bullied, and you can't run back to your parents' house after a quarrel like other girls! The main thing is that I am afraid that you will suffer! My husband came to my hometown for me, and he is ready to settle down here with me and buy a house here, so that my family will be more agreeable, as long as I am around, I can take care of it!

You can try this method, but if it doesn't work, it will be in the middle of the two of you, so it will be fairer for both families!

Actually, you guys are good now.

But when you are together, you will feel that many living habits are not the same at all.

That's what parents think).

Maybe it still hasn't reached that kind of complete openness, and it seems that many people really don't accept it now.

It's good to be friends, but if you get married

I think it's a feudal mentality, and if you think (he, she) is really right for you, you can talk to your parents, there's nothing that can't be solved. Isn't it silly that provincial marriages will be laughed at?

Hehe, it's the same as me. I am the only child in my family, and my family feels that I am reluctant to marry too far, and I am afraid that I will be accepted if I marry, and I am afraid that others will discriminate against other provinces.

In fact, I think that if you have true love, everything is secondary. After all, the future will be with my husband (mother-in-law) to the end of my life. So, I'll stick to my ideas.

As for you. It depends on whether you really love each other or not. You have to be sure that he can really give you a happy family, and the family's thoughts are also for the good of their children. So, you have to think carefully. I wish you happiness.

For their own lifelong events, we must think clearly, but parents are also for their own good, looking for a partner is not to look at his appearance, but to understand his quality, no matter where you want to live, is the traffic very convenient now, even in other provinces, as long as the husband and wife are together, work well and do a good job in the family, you can go home to visit and respect a filial piety.

Think carefully about whether she's a good fit for you, and if so, talk to your family, after all, they're good for you!

Since you don't agree, don't ask your parents for advice. As long as the two of them really love each other, wait for the raw rice to cook mature rice, and wait for the children who will call their grandparents home, watching the love of husband and wife and the harmonious scene of the family, are there still parents who bombard their children outside? Of course, in the days when there is no contact with your parents, you should not forget your filial piety as a son of man, and you should regularly save some living expenses for your family.

Now many people are troubled by this problem, in fact, as long as you feel that person is a person who can be entrusted with a lifetime, and the family is not very poor, you don't have to pay off your debts in the past, let him behave more in front of his family, everyone looks at it at ease, and there is not much opposition, as long as he insists, there is no problem emotionally, and his family can't bear to tear you apart when they see you so happy.

Hehe, my boyfriend is out of town.

Why don't the family agree, understand this point and you can have a targeted explanation or clarify the misunderstanding, the key is to see if the two love each other, in fact, this love word is not simple, not many people can really do it. To be able to see TA as the whole of the world, at least once did, you ask the boy if he could do it?

Let his parents know about the man.

You show that you don't want to marry.

What can your parents do?

What's the matter with you? What's wrong with you?

If you have a deep relationship, you can develop together, and use your true feelings to move your parents, and they will agree.

Wishing you all happiness and peace!

Ask for a review! Thank you!

Talk to your boyfriend and discuss it If you can give up your parents for a man Sometimes what your parents say may not be right Sometimes you will regret not listening to your parents No matter what decision you make, you have to obey your heart and hope for a good ending.

Give birth to a baby! Grandpa and grandma softened their hearts as soon as they screamed.

Buying a house in your hometown solves everything.

It's up to you to decide what you want, because it's up to you to live together in the future.

The family will not harm you, you are still young, emotional, when you are older, you regret it, just pull it late, love is really something that can be cultivated, in fact, it is not real love when you are young, so it is better to leave a chance for the right person for you, if you continue, one day you will remember what I said.

The more things you have experienced, the more you will naturally mature, and the most important thing is to persevere and not give up your hard-won feelings.

Think about it yourself and think twice about everything.

There must be a reason for disagreeing, right? What is it?

Stick with it and don't let yourself regret it for life! I have just been engaged for a few months, and my family didn't agree to it before, but then I would rather die than give in, and my family can't help it, and finally I got engaged smoothly and supported you!

Yes, no one would agree to engage in glass.

Are you sure that this boyfriend of yours is your lifelong partner? If you are sure it is. Then stick to your ideas, the opinions of the family you can use as a reference, and if you feel that he is not close to the person you want, then let it go as soon as possible.

Persistence and giving up are yours, if he deserves your love, then don't listen to the family, believe in the future he gives you, the days are yours, not your parents'! If you think he's worth marrying him, then hold on!

The main objection from the family is that the man's house is too far away, you need the care of your family, and your family also needs your care, but you will quarrel with your family, so you will work hard in the city close to your home, buy a house and get married. You don't have to marry Xi'an so far, you have to look at the face of your in-laws. Homesick, quarreled, and wronged, you can go back to your parents' house at any time.

What you want is a world of two people, support each other, and create a double career.

Work hard slowly, many of my friends and boyfriends are from other provinces, and my boyfriends are also from other provinces, and now my family accepts them, relying on persistence and hard work.

If you are in a different place, it is best to consider ending the relationship. Because of the long-distance relationship.

The DAO is too high, and two versions are also needed.

The right to be together a lot. These are things that you can't give to a woman. Therefore, it is very common for the woman's parents to refuse. If you want to get together, you can consider going to the woman's place to work and live, unless you have a good job now and are reluctant to quit.

This....The key is your girlfriend. Don't understand? I'm in the same situation as you, but my girlfriend said: As long as you love each other, you can be together, unless you don't love! So, she eloped with me....Of course, her family did the same, and now we are all fine.

Affection and love? This girl is also very embarrassed! After all, it is the parents who raised themselves, and her parents did not agree because it was difficult to see her after marrying her daughter, so it was difficult to see her after marrying her daughter, and she was impressed with sincerity, and she went to visit during the holidays or something, and said ** greetings, your girlfriend is persuading, you can also start with the girl's relatives, aunt or uncle, her parents will definitely ask their opinions, and I hope you succeed.

You have the ability, and I'm afraid that her family won't agree.

In fact, what parents all over the world care about in the final analysis is that they are afraid that their daughters will follow their husbands to live a poor life, as long as you have the ability, what are you afraid of.

You find a girlfriend from out of town, and her family still doesn't agree? Dizzy, then you go and find out why the other party disagrees.

The most jb head hurts the problem, have you ever thought about cutting first and then playing? After getting married, it is estimated that her family will not be able to pull it no matter how big the opinion is.

Tell him that there are more trains and planes in his family now

Henan and Shaanxi are still far away.

You have to stay in one village for the rest of your life. Me and you.

Living in the same global village, Liu Huan, the teacher said so.

If the woman gives up her family because of you, then she may give up on you one day, thinking that you are also his family. Chinese, filial piety comes first.

Family is the most difficult gap to overcome, if you really love it, why bother with others?

Otherwise, in the end, they will have to go their separate ways.

The overlord is the bow, and after a long time, her parents will approve of it, but you have to be good to her.

Take your time for a long time. Let his family know how good you are. Take a look at the New Year's holidays or something.

Family is a good home, but also a lifetime of dependence, family disagreement is mostly impossible, but if your boyfriend has good conditions, good behavior, good morals, just persevere, one day they will see you, to believe that persistence is victory.