What should I do if my mother opposes me marrying far away in the United States?

I ask you a word, you only have one parent, and you can find another boyfriend if you don't have it!

Who gave birth to you and raised you? , you can say that you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, and you will be fine after a long time, if you can, you can ask him to come to live in China!

Reason with him, you don't have enough to say? Let me give me hehe, but give me the one first.

Ask him if he can come to live in China.

There is an article by Ziyi in "Family", which is very similar to you. There was an American man chasing him, and Zhang Ziyi thought she was frivolous at first. Later, she gave him two topics, that is, to learn to speak Chinese and eat Chinese food.

The American man finally did it after a lot of hardships, and Zhang Ziyi finally accepted her. Unfortunately, after telling her family, her mother strongly objected. Helplessly, Zhang Ziyi had no choice but to break up with him, he asked:

Why? She said: Chinese marriage is not a matter of two people, to marry one person also to marry her family relationship.

So the American offered to pick up her parents to come to the United States to play. During that process, her mother gradually realized and realized that the man was good, and finally agreed to her request.

If you are still undecided, you can refer to the chapter for instructions. Test whether the man has enough will, stamina.

What your mom said is actually the first thing you should think about!

Yes, learn about the situation of his family, the best situation is to take him over and get married here, hehe, the United States is very open, they should agree.

If I don't go, I won't go to China, why do you want to go to the United States American men are not reliable, parents are the most important, and you can't marry far away from the United States for the sake of your parents If you are an American man who really loves you, you have to find a way to get your parents to the United States.

Weigh the pros and cons, do you think for yourself that he is worthy of congratulating you on marrying far away? After you go to his city, you can find Zheng Yi and get a good job, or can you accept the different ways of talking and living habits of their food, or do you have the ability to marry far away? If these are not problems, and you feel that it is worth marrying far away, then use practical actions to prove it, communicate well with your mother, instead of letting your parents accept this matter all at once, parents also want their daughter to be happy, he is afraid that you will marry and suffer in the past, and you will be bullied, and you can cry if you marry closely, at least there is your mother's house to go back.

Love knows no distance, but you have to get to know each other well.

Most parents want to protect their children, and at the same time, in the eyes of most parents, they feel that their children have not grown up and are worried that their children will be injured, so we must understand the good intentions of parents.

Of course, understanding does not mean that you are obedient, we can choose to decide our own life, but before you choose, there are seven points that you need to think clearly.

First: Do you have the ability to take responsibility for yourself?

Second: Do you know him well enough?

Third: You gave up your job in your hometown to go to Beijing to find him, have you ever thought about what you will do if the relationship fails?

Fourth: Give up everything you are familiar with now, will you regret it?

Fifth: If the two of you have such a good relationship, why do you have to give up everything you have now to find him, that is, why do you have to make sacrifices?

Sixth: If you can't find a job right away in Beijing, how to arrange it?

Seventh: After living together, who is responsible for the living expenses and how to distribute them?

You see, if I think about it casually, there are so many questions to consider, so have you really thought it through yourself?

In addition, our parents are indeed very controlling in many cases, and the way of expression is wrong, so that our children will have a rebellious psychology because of disgust.

If you don't accept blind dates, you can not go on blind dates, but if you run away or resist because of rebellious psychology, it may eventually bring harm to yourself.

So whether you like the blind date introduced by your parents or not, you should think carefully about going to Beijing to join your boyfriend, and then make a decision!

Hello! Parents' ideas are worth considering, parents are getting older day by day, they need to be taken care of next to them, special stool shirts are not only children, if there are brothers and sisters who are rough sisters, you can communicate with your parents, so that they can rest assured that you will take care of yourself. In the past, our brothers and sisters were not next to our parents, and Shenzao's parents were very worried because they had a family, a job and children, and they felt uncomfortable.

Then listen to your parents, unless the distant boyfriend who loves you chooses to settle down where you live, I will choose so.

I hope you will carefully consider your parents' opinions. Weigh the pros and cons and avoid impulsive thinking to do things that you will regret for the rest of your life!

Analysis of the reasons for the objection. Usually the parents are reluctant to marry a daughter, but the main factors of opposition are different. If you want your parents not to oppose distant marriage, you must understand what the main reason for your parents' opposition is, so that you can prescribe the right medicine.

Although the reasons are very different, they can be summed up as follows: I am afraid that the man will treat his daughter badly; The daughter has no support from the man, and she is afraid of being wronged; Parents and daughters don't see each other much, and they can't afford to be happy. Once you know what parents want to do with their children, you will have a solution.

The man should gain the trust and favor of the woman's parents. First of all, in front of the woman's parents, you must do your best to be good to the woman, spoil her, care for her, love her, and even better than her parents treat her. Secondly, we must have the responsibility and responsibility of a man, be self-motivated, and be willing to work hard to make money.

Last but not least, you must be sincere and reliable in what you say and do, and don't brag!

Make more use of the Internet. Women can teach their parents to use smartphones, take them to understand the world of young people, and let their parents know that in the age of the Internet, the distance between people is very close even if they cross thousands of mountains and rivers. Communicate with your parents frequently and by voice so that they can keep abreast of your recent dynamic life.

Develop hobbies that support parents. If parents have hobbies that they like, support them to participate in these leisure activities. Parents don't have other hobbies, so you can ask your parents to have friends and neighbors who have hobbies, and let your parents slowly develop some hobbies.

In short, so that the parents' free time is no longer free, and they will no longer worry about their children all day.

Prepare gifts for parents during the holidays. Every holiday is also the time when parents are most concerned about their children, although the children are not around, but the gifts given by the children mean that the children are always thinking about their parents. If parents blindly believe it, they won't feel that no one cares about grinding the pure wheel and has nothing to rely on.

Invite your parents to come and stay with you. When work and life are not too busy, invite parents to come over and live together for a period of time, so that they can understand what life is like for their daughter in other places. Prove to your parents that you have grown up, can take care of yourself, and have the ability to cope with the tedious chores of life.

Regularly go home to visit your parents. Promise your parents that you will come back to visit on fixed holidays every year, and there is a hope for your parents and a thought in your heart.

To tell the truth, I don't recommend marrying far away, marriage preparation is a gamble, marrying far away is Shan Liang giving up everything to bet on that little love, to a strange place from food to customs may be different, and even some local dialects you can't understand, now you want to go home can be a few hundred yuan a trip, but what about having children? How much does it cost to just go back.

1. Communication. After all, it will be difficult to see your parents again if you marry far away in the future, and your parents do not agree to marry far away, mainly because they don't want you to be too far away from them. You can communicate with your parents and exchange your ideas to come up with a reasonable response.

2. Center the field. If the two families live too far apart, then you can choose to buy a house in a better city first. In this way, it is easier for both parents to move around.

3. Put yourself in your shoes. If you are a parent and work hard to raise your child, but she has to marry far away, it is even difficult to meet again. You will also be reluctant to have children and disagree with this marriage.

4. Let the boy prove it. Many times words are relatively pale and weak, so we can let the boy prove everything with practical actions. Prove that he is the one who can give you happiness and can also be filial to your parents.

5. Ask relatives and friends to help. Relatives and friends can often help us at critical times, and if you really like this person yourself, then you can ask relatives and friends to persuade your parents.

6. All in all, don't be rash and fight with your parents to lead to a quarrel situation. After all, our parents will always be the ones who think about us the most, and we should also be their intimate little padded jackets.