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Anonymous users2024-02-12Ask yourself, do you really love her? Figure out your feelings, if your feelings for her are just because your feelings are just empty, and you are attracted to the young and beautiful opposite sex who you usually face, and you like the wrong person in the wrong place, after all, although the birds in the sky and the fish in the water can love each other, but they can build nests in **?
People of your age should think more about reality, and should find someone who is really suitable for you to spend their lives; Since you have been divorced, you should be more cautious in choosing the second time, crush is a young man's game, you are past that age, don't waste time, live a good life.
If you give true affection, you might as well give it a try, but give up your stubbornness and be enthusiastic with others, after all, you can't expect people to be enthusiastic with you first. Create some opportunities to care for her, love her, be friends first, and the benefits of doing so are also for you to see if you are a good fit.
If you think you're a good fit, what can you give her? There are many things you have to do, people are married, you are a third party (not encouraged), you have to be attractive enough; Now that people are very practical, you have to work hard in your career, and the cultural backgrounds of the two of you are too different, so you also have to work hard to improve your self-cultivation; 10 years apart, generation gap, pay attention to what people of her age think; And your appearance, your physical strength ...
Do you feel tired?
It takes so much effort to catch up with people, do you have so much energy? It's time to retreat, so it's better to bury love in your heart, appreciate it silently, and care about her silently.
There is also a situation where you can be a lover (not encouraged), but you are older than her husband, but you may have a little more charm of a mature man, and you can use your experience and experience to seduce immature her, which is going to be more advantageous in this regard, and wait until the raw rice is cooked rice... It's a bit despicable) but doing so will hurt her and her husband (who used to live well), your wishes will be temporarily satisfied, but not for long, and I guess in the end she will hate you and will not be with you.
Based on the above analysis, I think you should keep the status quo, give up this relationship, and find the other half that truly belongs to you, blessings.
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Anonymous users2024-02-1136 up. Uncle, you can save your worries.
I don't think you feel empty after being without a wife for a long time.
Everyone is married, what do you want?
Or, you just stay that way. Secretly liked.
Or, you just find a way to kill this heart.
After all, if you want to change something.
If you don't get it right, you'll hurt several people.
Accept your fate, who made you born 10 years early and 20 years late.
I'd rather demolish ten temples than a marriage.
Let's make this society quieter.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10She's married, and she can't live without friends. In fact, to love someone, you don't need to have it. If it is true love, even a smile should be, content.
Take the initiative, treat him like a big brother, make friends first, and wait for her.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Just care about her secretly, this is the best, don't think about the rest, after all, there is a distance, I feel that this is beautiful, and it is miserable when you are really together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08You don't have a chance, give up, the environment in which two people live is the basis for getting along, but unfortunately you don't.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Be a caring person, and you shouldn't decide to give up anything because of temporary difficulties! Because you may regret it for the rest of your life if you do this, I think you still have to be clear about what you want most.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Love can transcend everything, what is age, the person I love is 12 years and 1 month older than me, as long as it is love, nothing is impossible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I admire you very much. But it's hard.
If you really want to get her. Just find a way to get along and become good friends.
Rush your own business.
It's not entirely impossible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you like it, you have to be brave enough to chase it
Otherwise, I will regret it for a lifetime
If you don't chase it, you won't stand a chance.
If you chase it, you might be able to succeed!
I bless you
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Height is not a distance, age is not a problem! As long as the feelings are deep, the iron is sharpened into a needle!
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Anonymous users2024-02-02It's not a good fit, your mind is completely different from hers!
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Anonymous users2024-02-01If you dare to speak out, it means that you are very courageous.
I appreciate this a little.
But you should also be realistic.
The impossible is impossible.
Not a manga or anime.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31Look at what people mean, don't just care about your own feelings.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30At such an age, don't pretend to be disgusting.
You can't do anything about young people.
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Anonymous users2024-01-29I don't think there is an age limit for love.
Bless you for finding your half @
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Anonymous users2024-01-28Timid!! If you want to eat it, you're afraid of getting hot.
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Anonymous users2024-01-27As long as you really love each other, what age distance are you afraid of.
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Anonymous users2024-01-26Isn't love knows no age, distance, height, identity, or borders?
If it's true love, I'm really envious of you, my lover is also 20 years older than me, she looks very young, we love each other very much, we can sacrifice everything for each other, her husband was very bad to her at the beginning, so she had a relationship with me, and then when she wanted to divorce, her husband didn't let go. They really don't have any feelings at all, because her husband is not in good health and sick, and he smokes and drinks regardless of his body when he leaves her. She couldn't bear to see him die, and in the end she chose to be with him, and we could only break off, but I can't tolerate a second woman in my heart, I will wait for her, but the torment of this kind of day is only I can experience, thinking about it will cry, I have cried except for my mother's death, I have rarely cried, for her I have cried more than once, a pain that no one knows, only I am silently painful, you say I can find another one, it is impossible, she let me find love, true love, I think true love can't be repeated, and what I care about most is whether I can be with her after 10 years, if 10 years later, her husband's illness is cured, I will leave this world quietly, either to be a monk or to the real Western Elysium, in this world, too much helplessness, I met her I thought everything was raining and clear, but I didn't expect it to be warm and cold.
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It's nothing, if you really believe that the love between the two of you is true, even if you are unilaterally willing, as long as you don't let the love turn from happiness to pain, like to express that there is a common language, there is room for development, life is real and happy, don't think too much, be brave, and do it! I wish you success!
I'm the same as you, he's 5 years younger than me, I'm 24 years old, at first I was also very conflicted, I didn't think it was appropriate, but he thought it was okay, until I really liked him, he told me one day, if I want to wait for him for 4 years, I'm afraid I'll waste my youth, I know, in fact, he has deserted emotionally, although he said the truth, but for me all of a sudden I am not used to his big changes, I feel that I was played, although he kept saying sorry. Mom told me that women age fast, when you are 30, when he is talented, when you want to stabilize your life and he is still unsatisfied, when you walk on the road The age difference is clear at a glance, you know what to do now, I don't mean that you must be separated, if you want to be together, you have to determine whether he can really change his feelings for you in the next few years or even more than ten years. An 18-year-old boy is an immature child who can't promise a girl, if you want to be with him, just wait slowly, be sure that he will always love you, and I wish you happier than me. >>>More
Age is not distance, my boyfriend is a year younger than me, so what, we get along, what others say counts, now is not the era of age, believe in yourself, believe in him, nothing is impossible in the world. Don't care so much if you love him.