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The conceited person is bound to fail because the goal he pursues is false from the beginning. Conceit can bring about a momentary emotional upsurge, but the frustration caused by being angry can immediately make him feel depressed, decadent, and lead to low self-esteem. People with low self-esteem will develop hatred for themselves, hate their imperfections, hate their own powerlessness, and thus strengthen their inferiority complex.
Therefore, whether it is a conceited person or an inferior person, a self-centered mindset will keep them away from success.
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Because of low self-esteem, I don't even have self-confidence, and I don't even believe that I will succeed, so how can I succeed.
The conceit is too much to overestimate oneself, not able to grasp oneself correctly, to control oneself, and not to listen to the opinions of others, perhaps a few things will succeed, but most things will fail.
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Because I'm in a bad mood! I love to be angry! I'm not in the mood to study! Learning will go down! Of course, it's far from success!!
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People with low self-esteem feel that they are not capable of accomplishing certain things.
The result of this is to discourage them. Flinch. Don't dare to face it.
So. Do you think you'll do that?
Unless you think you're going to succeed. There will be hope. You'll feel like you can do it. When you believe in your abilities.
Of course, I'm going to work hard for it.
Isn't it? ~~
Don't you think that's going to be far from success?
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Know your own words.
Easy to succeed.
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This is not absolute.
It's important to try to do your job well.
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Why do people with "low self-esteem" succeed on the contrary.
Low self-esteem is a sense of low worth. People with a low sense of value are psychologically demanding to live. There are two paths, either pursue or escape.
Jobs became famous by using substitution (a kind of pursuit), and he wanted to prove that his father abandoned him as a mistake. A poor scholar is looked down upon by his hometown, and returning to his hometown is also a kind of compensation, and he wants to prove that he is not worthless through success. How inferior he is, how strong his motivation for success is, that is, the more inferior you say, the more successful you are.
Actually--- not necessarily because there is another one, which is evasion. A person with low self-esteem can not go out for a day, is there any? Then, he spends all day on the Internet, does he?
People with low self-esteem, it is recommended to use the first positive method, use it well, just like the upstairs said, the more inferior you are, the more successful you are.
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Summary. 1.People with low self-esteem are often very persistent People with low self-esteem, once they recognize something, they will never give up, and this brings them closer to success.
As the ancients said: sincerity to the golden stone for the open, there is a will, things can be done, dripping water through the stone and so on. 2.
People with low self-esteem have self-knowledge The Tao Te Ching says: "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear." They understand what they are suitable for, and they do it seriously.
Therefore, low self-esteem is not necessarily a bad thing, but it will make you worse.
Why do people with "low self-esteem" succeed on the contrary.
Good. Friends, I really don't understand, you can be more specific.
1.People with low self-esteem are often very persistent People with low self-esteem, once they recognize something, they will never give up, and this brings them closer to success. As the ancients said:
Sincerity to the golden stone for the open, there is a will, things can be done, dripping water through the stone and so on. 2.People with low self-esteem have self-knowledge It is said in the Tao Te Ching:
Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear", people with low self-esteem generally know their own strengths and weaknesses better, so they are more self-aware. They understand what they are suitable for, and they do it seriously. Therefore, low self-esteem is not necessarily a bad thing, but it will make you worse.
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I think that when people really have low self-esteem to a certain extent, they will produce an extreme, and this extreme will make them conceited. It's like the emotions that have been suppressed in the heart for too long, and they will eventually explode. Maybe it's because I've been suppressed for too long that I choose to change, but this change is also conceited.
The emotion of low self-esteem is very devastating to a person, if a person is in a conceited mood for a long time. It is impossible to imagine what this person will become in the end, but what we know will definitely become more and more inferior, and even when this inferiority complex is rooted in the bones, it may become conceited. Because of the words that those emotions that have been suppressed in your heart for too long suddenly explode.
It's definitely not normal. ExactlyBecause I had low self-esteem in the past, that's why I want to be better evenUrgently change yourself. But it is precisely because of this urgency that people have conceit
Once people have low self-esteem to a certain extent, they will form an extreme, and at this time, it is easy to have another emotion, which is conceit. Maybe I felt that I was useless and couldn't do anything well, but if I really suppressed this emotion in my heart for a long time, it will make people feel breathless, so it is better to simply let myself become confident, but because I have suppressed it for too long.
This kind of confidence may not have a degree of certainty, and there may be a more extreme self-confidence. I often overestimate my abilities and begin to evaluate myself in a self-deceptive mode. This also makes a person conceited.
All in allWe all know that low self-esteem and conceit are two relative psychology. Low self-esteem to a certain extent will produce an extreme, and then it will become conceited. The same is true of conceit, when a person is conceited to a certain extent, he will also feel that he is actually very inferior.
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