What should I do if my boyfriend minds my ex, and my boyfriend especially cares about my ex?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    See how Qianqian wins with a lipstick.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Boyfriend minds that his ex likes you at best, and is cautious at worst, are you his first love, he doesn't have an ex? You still have to think about this boyfriend yourself, what happened to your ex-boyfriend and you can't delete him, you will often quarrel for your ex-boyfriend in the future, even if you are not in contact, see your current boyfriend clearly and then continue.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The boyfriend minds the ex, which means that he is a person with a small belly, not worthy of your love, everyone has a story, the past, the total is compared to before, there is happiness at all, break up as soon as possible, find someone who understands you, loves you, cares about you, and cares about you will have happiness in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If your boyfriend minds, your ex's words. That can only show that he is a relatively small person, because after all, they will live together in the future, so it is said that you have to see his true face and personality in all aspects, if it is not suitable, don't be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The predecessor thought it was a fact, you have to mind, there is no way at all, it is a shadow that cannot be erased. Let's separate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Draw a line with your ex, prove that you love him more, so that he doesn't worry about it, and if it still doesn't work, break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Communicate with him officially, everyone has an ex, and if you care about it in the future, you will continue to quarrel with you. Then separate. What you are looking for is someone who will bear your burden and protect you. It's not that you have to take care of what he feels in his heart. Is it rare that he doesn't have an ex?

    First of all, your mind needs to change.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's separate, sooner or later.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone has a past, why should he mind, he didn't have time to participate in the previous you, and now you, he still dislikes it.

    He really loves you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello! Is it necessary to mind your boyfriend's ex all the time? I think there are two scenarios for this issue:

    1.My boyfriend has no contact with his ex-girlfriend and can't get along, I don't think there's any need to mind in this case, let the past be a thing of the past. Live your little life well, and live a sweet and happy life.

    2.If the boyfriend is still in touch with his ex, and he will meet and have a meal together from time to time, I believe that 100% of girls will mind. The current girlfriend will have a sense of crisis.

    Now that you have broken up with your ex and have a current one, you should draw a line with your ex and keep your distance. Give your current girlfriend enough security.

    Of course, two people should still give each other enough trust when they are in love. If there is something that two people can communicate well face-to-face, talk about things, understand and tolerate each other, and love can last longer. Finally, I wish you all happiness!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to mind your boyfriend's ex, because now everyone in Nanjing has several partners? The main thing is that the two of you love each other, the previous things are in the past, don't think too much, glory, you two are happy, he loves you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's necessary to keep minding your boyfriend's ex, I don't feel like there's any need for this, everyone has a past, and since it's over, then you have to let it go, so why bother? If so, you are asking for trouble, as long as he really loves you now and treats you well, it is fate between two people, and since their fate is over, that is the beginning of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not necessary, and you can't mind your boyfriend's ex all the time, you're not too young, and it's not easy to find a boyfriend who doesn't have a story, and you've always minded your boyfriend's ex, which will only add pain to yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think there's any need to mind your boyfriend's ex, everyone has a past, what you love is him now, as long as he is good to you, if you are entangled in his ex, then you are not suitable to be together, you will not be happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's necessary, since it's already an ex, it means that it's in the past and has nothing to do with you. If you continue to mind, then you won't be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There's no need: your boyfriend just needs to be nice to you, don't care if he has an ex. Chong, Xu people have the freedom to make friends, but he chose you. Be good to you, if you don't have half a heart, you can rest assured to love him! You will be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you've always minded your boyfriend's celestial being, then the two of you are not suitable for being together. Does your boyfriend's ex hurt you. Now there are a lot of friends who have talked about it, and some of them are.

    Don't dwell on that. If you keep minding. You're going to be unhappy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not necessary, it looks like you're a little stingy, and the pattern is low! As long as he doesn't mention it and the two of them don't have contact, don't mind!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as he truly loves you, there's no need to care about his ex.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Is it necessary? This question is put aside for the time being, since you asked, it means that you are more concerned about this problem, but you are very entangled, if your boyfriend and his ex are disconnected, then it is not that you mind the problem, but that he should not do it, if it is just that you ask for something excessive, or you always feel worried about this situation, you need to adjust yourself, take a step back and open the sky.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There's no need to mind, but if her presence gets in the way of your normal interactions, then have a good conversation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There's no need, as long as you're okay.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it any good for you to compete with your boyfriend's ex? Who hasn't had a few exes these days, and how would you feel if your boyfriend had been minding your ex? A wise woman will live well in the moment and seize the happiness in front of her!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There's no need to bother yourself, who hasn't clicked on it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In love, we will always have deep hostility towards each other's exes, even if the "exes" did nothing, did not say anything, the word "ex" is like a spell around our ears, hurting the relationship with them, what makes us have such a deep resentment towards the "ex", this time I will talk to you about the "exes".

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You still need to communicate about this matter and talk to your boyfriend directly about your thoughts

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The common disease of girls is that they won't die if they don't die.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you accept him, you have to accept everything from him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Avoid it and avoid it as much as possible

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If your boyfriend is very mindful of your ex, then here are a few things you can consider to deal with this:

    1.Communicate honestly: Communicate openly with your boyfriend, listen to Pi pat his feelings and thoughts, and let him know that you respect his feelings. Try to talk about the past rationally instead of arguing or attacking the other person emotionally.

    2.Respect the past: Understand that everyone has a past and respect your boyfriend's feelings about the past. However, please also ask him to understand that you and your ex have separated, and you are now just in each other's past tense.

    3.Don't compare: Make sure your boyfriend knows that your relationship with your ex is over and you don't want him to compare your ex. Everyone has their own past and story, and these should not be the yardstick by which current relationships are measured.

    4.Trust Building: Build trust and respect for each other, which can help ease his worries and upsets about your ex. If he can feel your loyalty and love, it may be easier for him to let go of the past.

    5.Ask for help: If this question has been bothering your relationship, you can seek professional help, such as a psychologist or emotional counselor. They can help you communicate and deal with this better and help you build healthier relationships.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In love, we will always have deep hostility towards each other's exes, even if the "exes" did nothing, did not say anything, the word "ex" is like a spell around our ears, hurting the relationship with them, what makes us have such a deep resentment towards the "ex", this time I will talk to you about the "exes".

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Everyone has a past, but the present and the future are the most important, if you dwell on the past, you will have no future. It's best to treat love without ink, either together or separated, together for happiness, Since you can't change the shortcomings of your love and care, then separate from him as soon as possible, so as not to harm others and yourself, if you haven't seen a rainy day.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you come here, you will be safe! What's yours is yours, treat it with a normal heart! If you act like a resentful woman, it will be difficult to get your boyfriend's affection. If my answer is helpful to you, I hope you take it! Thank you!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, I always mind my boyfriend and my ex because I am not very confident and love my boyfriend very much, and you especially mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. In this case, I think that as a girl, you should learn to change yourself, in fact, the reason why you have such a performance is entirely because you are not confident. You can try to change your external image, through exercise, to make your body to a level that you are satisfied with, so that your self-confidence will come up, after the self-confidence comes up, if you feel sleepy enough to convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then you continue to get along with your boyfriend.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, the question you should consider is: Can you let go of your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend? Think about it, can you convince yourself?

    Or, can you give up your current boyfriend? Are you not confident in yourself? As a girl, you must think about these three questions carefully, because it will affect whether you can make the right choice.

    If you are faced with something that you really can't change, then you learn to convince yourself to slowly adapt to it, and if you can't get used to it, then you try to let it go, so that you can make yourself a little better, than if you face people or things you don't like every day.

    So as a girl, when faced with such a situation, you must combine your own thinking, and then make the right choice, when you decide, then you can't hesitate to drag the mud and water. Because of this, you will still be affected by this event, and you will not be able to have a normal mood to face life.

    If after you think about it carefully, you feel that you are particularly concerned about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend because you are not confident and love your boyfriend very much, then in this case, I think as a girl you should learn to change yourself, in fact, the reason why you have such a performance is completely because you are not confident.

    You can try to change your external image, through exercise, to make your body to a level that you are satisfied with, so that your self-confidence will come up, and if you feel that you can convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then you will continue to get along with your boyfriend.

    However, if you have changed yourself, improved your self-confidence, and made yourself confident, but you still can't convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then in this case, I think you should choose to convince yourself to give up this boyfriend, since you can't convince yourself not to mind your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, then you can only convince yourself to let go of your boyfriend.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you want to talk about the most annoying woman in the world, I am afraid it must be the ex-girlfriend of the current boyfriend, this is the consensus of many girls in love, their biggest interest in daily life, is to search the ex-girlfriend's social platform like a detective, looking for clues of her past and present love life, or interrogating her boyfriend's past relationship in every possible way, one by one sending propositions to the boyfriend to a desperate situation Many people think that the ex-girlfriend must always live in the heart of the current boyfriend, In fact, many times ex-girlfriends just live in our own hearts.

    Because love has absolute exclusivity, it will lead us to face this distress, we all hope that we are absolutely unique in the hearts of lovers, the most beautiful, the loveliest, the kindest, and the most beloved ones, but most people can't just experience a love and enter marriage, so we meet him often has one or several failed pasts, and now the one who is with me has been in love with other girls, and it has become the most unbearable flaw in him, sloppy and playful, incomprehensible, and the amorous can be forgiven, The most painful thing about having an ex-girlfriend is that love is something that cannot be seen or touched, and the human heart is very complex and profound, which can never be measured by numbers, so we have no way to know what kind of existence the ex-girlfriend is in the other party's heart, and there is no way to compare her with ourselves through accurate technology, so it is even more impossible to talk about completely defeating her.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In love, we will always have deep hostility towards each other's exes, even if the "exes" did nothing, did not say anything, the word "ex" is like a spell around our ears, hurting the relationship with them, what makes us have such a deep resentment towards the "ex", this time I will talk to you about the "exes".

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello everyone, here are emotional trivia, I'm Xiaobai, I'm here to tell you today, what should I do if I mind my boyfriend's ex too much? Many girls will be very concerned about their boyfriend's ex, and will constantly interrogate their boyfriend, always thinking that his ex is more important than themselves.

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