In life, why are smart women often ungregarious?

Life is a long journey, in this journey, choosing the other half is undoubtedly the most important thing, but how can we ensure that we can love each other hand in hand for a lifetime? Here it depends on whether you understand these three truths after marriage.

1. Don't give up on your career.

In "The King of Comedy", Stephen Chow and Cecilia Cheung have two particularly wonderful lines, is it okay not to go to work? If I don't go to work, you support me. Okay, I'll raise you. seems to be two very romantic love words, but in fact, there are many hidden crises.

In reality, once a woman becomes a housewife after marriage, the control of the marriage is equivalent to giving it to the man. At the beginning, the man still felt fresh, thinking that when he came home from work, he could see you who loved him when he pushed the door, and he would feel comfortable.

But over time, men will become more and more annoying, and they will mind, you don't do anything at home, eat his flowers, and ask about his life. Therefore, the first step for a woman to take control of her marriage is not to give up her career for the sake of her beloved, and to leave three points of love for herself.

Second, you must have your own opinions.

When you love someone more and more, you must learn to refrain from it. No matter how much you like him, you have to put away your liking a little bit, because once you let the other person know that you prefer him, then he is prone to do whatever he wants.

For example, when two people go on a trip, you must remember not to listen to each other in everything, but also to listen to your own opinions. For another example, the taste habits of two people, if you blindly accommodate him, wait until you want to eat what you like to eat, but it will cause him not to understand, and think that you don't understand him.

Therefore, sometimes your rejection and frank explanation will make a man value you from the bottom of his heart.

Third, we must have our own confidence.

Everyone says that spoiling a woman is the best, but sometimes you can't be coquettish in everything.

When you are wronged and hurt outside, don't ask him for help at the first time, you have to learn to solve it yourself. A woman who only looks for a man in case of trouble will give a very bad impression.

Be coquettish when you should be coquettish, and you must stand up when you should be strong and have backbone, life after marriage is not supported by a man alone, and women should also bear it with him. You must know that your backbone and strength are the greatest charm.

Women's ideas have always changed with age, the person you liked when you were a teenager didn't like it in your twenties, and the goals you set in your twenties may change because of the appearance of someone. But don't lose yourself at any time.

Because smart women are more intelligent, they know what they really want, and they will fight silently alone.

Because smart women often have their own ideas, and they are unwilling to wronged themselves in order to fit in.

Because a wise woman will not meddle in things, talk about the rights and wrongs of others, know how to protect her own life, and reduce all kinds of troubles.

Because they are too rational, they are a little too rational to be approached, they are very demanding in their treatment of things, and they are also very close to their friends, all of which are difficult for people to approach.

<> "Why Are Smart Women Not Social?

1.There is a very clear sense of self-boundaries.

Unsociable women are generally very strong in their hearts, they know what they need, and they will not obey because something is a group action, and they will not feel that a certain point of view is recognized by everyone, and they must be recognized.

Really smart women are often out of place.

I'm not social, just superficially lonely;

I'm gregarious, but I'm really lonely inside.

Definition: Good to be old.

Gregariousness refers to a person's tendency to be willing to be with other people or groups.

Unsociable generally refers to those who are not very talkative in the group and are not very accustomed to echoing the words and actions of others.

<> "Why Are Smart Women Not Social? 1.Women who have a very clear sense of self-boundaries and are not social are generally very strong in their hearts, they know what they need, and they will not obey because something is a group acting together, and they will not feel that a certain point of view is recognized by everyone, and they must be recognized.

<> "Why Are Smart Women Not Social? 2.Unsociable women with their own independent worldview and values are accustomed to exploring themselves inward, looking for their own richness and happiness, having their own personal interests and hobbies, being able to entertain themselves, and not needing to brush up on their presence in the collective.

<> "Why Are Smart Women Not Social? 3.Strong self-awareness, not following the crowd and having personal hobbies, is often the common denominator of unsociable women.

On the surface, unsociable women don't have many friends, but once they become their friends, they will be treated and helped very sincerely.

Gregarious or unsociable, as long as it does not hinder their normal work, normal life, personal inner pain, not entangled, it is really a thing that does not need excessive attention, if there are unsociable people around you, don't feel that they have a strange temper and deliberately avoid them, in fact, they are worthy of deep friendship!

Being unsociable is not a sign of intelligence, but rather a sign of lack of emotional intelligence. But "harmony and difference" must be a sign of wisdom, such a woman can get along comfortably with others, but does not blindly cater to others, and still sticks to her own opinions and beliefs in the midst of many voices.

I think so, too, because I think smart women don't lower their mindset and lower their standards.

A smart woman is not unsociable, but harmonious and different, this sentence is also very reasonable, a smart woman has to contact some smart people and smart things.

I think that's quite right. People are social creatures, and if they don't fit in, they don't have a lot of fun and security. But to be able to achieve "harmony and difference" reflects your own personal personality and charm.